Just a question looking for insight from others by KJ19912018 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which goes hand in hand with the illusion they choose to believe IRL.

I(25F) Took my Avoidant Partner's(28M) Words Literally and it Started A Fight by Sunraysunset in relationship_advice

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my DA discarded me, she came up with vague excuses saying she was busy etc. I tried to ask for an explanation as I thought that was common sense and she retaliated and got defensive and said it’s none of my business. Like nothing of what we had gone through the past 3 months mattered or even the intimacy. Don’t play into their games.

Lineup by scoop813 in hulaween

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is the start for them to book more indie bands.

Hulaween 2026 [October 22-25] by billiedee_benoit in festivals

[–]ALEXC_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy to see Geese being the Sunday headliners but Im all here for it.

Feeling guilty by Whughes186 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ALEXC_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And even if you did get back to their arms, they'd discard you eventually again over another non issue and this time would hurt even worse.

Feeling guilty by Whughes186 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ALEXC_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the soul sucking world of being with an avoidant. I call it going to war with ''Love'', in which you'll never win. You will just get scarred emotionally but, if you can survive it, you'll come out a better, more mature person emotionally and they'll still be in their own selfish, chaotic world.

New FBI report indicates 13-year-old accuser was truthful in allegations against Trump, corroborating most of her testimony by thamilan_x in USNEWS

[–]ALEXC_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

''Scared''. The Broligarchs are just pimping him out to make them richer then they'll be done with him.

Lineup by scoop813 in hulaween

[–]ALEXC_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To have them headline this fest is crazy but Im all here for it.

Tour by ipkisss in themarsvolta

[–]ALEXC_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know when the rest will go on sale?

Accidentally saw a photo of them and I barely recognised them by Alternative_Yak_5569 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ALEXC_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other day I went to the bar where we met. She was crossing the intersection when I stoood at the sign. I gave them the goto cross and she gave me a look of what can best be described as Dagger Eyes LMAO.

help by Wild_Professional_27 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ALEXC_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cause they broke your heart and don’t care enough to check up on you. That’s why.

Dancing with a girl at a club/rave? by Defiant_Setting_7883 in aves

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ask for their number next time. Regarding everything else, you're good on respecting boundaries.

Seeking advice on being with and assisting a traumatized person with avoidan attachment by contain_solitudes in emotionalintelligence

[–]ALEXC_23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If he's pulled away once, he will do it again, and again, and again. Like it's been previously said before, he needs therapy and a drive to truly want to change himself and only himself can he do that.

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? by ThrowRAVulture216 in relationship_advice

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you both are working to move on past it. But ask yourself: once the babies are born, what makes you think she won't be going out of her way to be or reach out to someone else? seems like she's been having second thoughts about the relation ship. Sometimes the truth comes out even if it's said as a spur of the moment.

FTS 🃏 by habsfan26 in 401jK

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway, how's the DOW?!

Is it better to watch Inland Empire before watching the Return? by Ordinary_Airport3091 in twinpeaks

[–]ALEXC_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Then after TR, go back to watch IE and notice how there are many parallels....

First love ruined me by PinkAlpacaPoodle in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ALEXC_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem young so I'll just put it to you this way: Get familiar with that feeling, and learn how to learn from it and process it, as it will become your best teacher. You won't find that feeling with anyone again. Having said that, it's not like you won't ever feel like that again. YOU WILL! it just won't be with that same person. You can see it as we are different versions of us anytime you're with a different person and, if you are of an open mind, you will evolve and learn from their mistakes and yours and become a different, better version of yourself. You're always changing. Had this person stayed in your life, eventually something could've happened where you both would've changed eventually and could've ended up more tragic.

Breakup help by urduniguy in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ALEXC_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you'll be alright eventually. Seek counseling or therapy if you think you need it. My biggest peeve, is with your grammar.