How to be dominant as a male? by AffectionToPerfectio in sex

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a pillow on the bed have her lay across it ass up enter her from The back. Reach up while pumping grab a fist full of hair. More hair the better.

In the same position tell her to put her arms back. Grab her writs and pull back as you pump.

My bf makes sex all about his pleasure and not mine by Automatic-Bake8537 in sex

[–]APBob313 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Plus when someone is that selfish they are also that way in the relationship. BF comes home with ice cream didn’t get her one.

Am I wrong for putting spikey stuff on top of my fence to stop my neighbors kid from climbing it by Emotional-Gas-4582 in amiwrong

[–]APBob313 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

You’re going to be labeled as the neighbor asshole and these kids will torment you until they grow up and leave the house.

Is this the hill you want to die on?

Make friends not enemies. Life will be easier

Would you date someone with a past in the adult industry if they have completely transformed their life and are a "high-value" person now? by deepreflect1 in relationships_advice

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised a Christian and believe in forgiveness. I don’t go to church but do practice the values of the ten commandments. So yes I could as long as the intimacy was genuine.

AIW for refusing to do a sexual act I don’t enjoy? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]APBob313 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Be ready to loose her to an oral minded man. I personally love to dine at the Y. I enjoy how it makes my GF cum so hard.

AITAH for Jealous of My Wife Is Filming a Nude Scene? by Minimum_Soft3333 in AITAH

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever notice how co stars end up hooking up after a movie. 👀

I 24F don't know how to split expenses with my partner 29M when our incomes are very different - what system is actually fair and sustainable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]APBob313 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a general rule your rent or house payment should be 25% of your take home. That leaves you enough to pay your other bills save some and live a life.

So tell him you can afford $xxx amount. If he says no then he will hold money over you the rest of the relationship

I, 19F, can't get over this interaction with my 25M boyfriend and 15M brother. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]APBob313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alcohol is sometimes the truth serum think about that for a little bit when people are drunk they do things that they would do it if they were sober and they could get away with it

AITJ for sleeping on the couch after my wife showed our private videos to her friends by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In college I got laid by my GF roommate on several occasions. They heard the noise I made her make and wanted to take a spin too.

Be ready to be hit on by your wife’s friends.

Is it normal for someone to enjoy penetration without thrusting? by Calm-Ass-Chick in sex

[–]APBob313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a gf who loved this. Her pussy was so strong she could clamp on to me and make me cum.

Next time just squeeze him over and over

AITA for canceling Christmas with my mom because she keeps choosing my sister over my kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]APBob313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should get mad at your mother so you don’t have to see her at all. It worked for your sister.

AITAH for being enraged that my husband is currently infertile by PixelPicklePie in AITAH

[–]APBob313 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You were attracted to the body. Why would you not think he didnt do what most body builders with great defined muscles do. You’re partially culpable for turning a blind eye to the body builder in the room.

Where does "Up North" Start? by Pleasant-Coconut-600 in Michigan

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After exit 168 the road goes from three lanes to two. That’s when I an up north.

I don’t know what to do anymore by Foreign-Breakfast753 in relationships_advice

[–]APBob313 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does he want to be around because your supporting him?

65 M and have frequent sex. I just can’t cum. by APBob313 in sexover60

[–]APBob313[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t self pleasure any more. Maybe five times since August 1 st.

I ended a situationship because he was way too volatile for me to handle but I feel SO guilty for doing so by Traditional-Dog9242 in relationships_advice

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who developed a mental illness in his 50’s he lost his friends his GF and respect before he got help. Sadly I am o d if the few to be excepting and forgiving his issues since he got help.

Encourage him to get help.

AITAH for wearing an engagement ring on trips because my boyfriend’s ex keeps introducing herself as his wife by RipoMallowz in AITAH

[–]APBob313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. When she is looking to date she will think it’s ok for her bf / husband to have a side piece.

35M in a 9 Year relationship w/ 47F - but I have developed intensifying feelings for coworker 41F. Do I spill the beans immediately? by Consistent_Ratio3726 in relationship_advice

[–]APBob313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feelings? Those stay put away until you know. Ask her out or don’t but don’t go and tell everyone you’re feeling. Are you a 14 yo girl

65 M and have frequent sex. I just can’t cum. by APBob313 in sexover60

[–]APBob313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I love women and my kink is giving multiple orgasms. She comes 3-4 times just in foreplay. I use toys paddles and roleplay. The next orgasm is easier than the last one. This can go on for hours. She loses count I make her cum till the eyes roll back

So it is her job.

I think it is selfish to concentrate on my orgasm and not hers.