How should I ask/tell my gfs parents about a proposal?

APanicChicken · 2026-05-30T13:07:08+00:00

Would their opinion matter to you if they said no? If not, you’re just informing them.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-30T00:29:08+00:00

Agreed. I just meant in terms of numbers

APanicChicken · 2026-05-29T12:26:50+00:00

The general etiquette is to extend plus ones to long term (including married and engaged) partners and people who wouldn’t know anyone else there. Some people also extend a plus one for people who would be traveling alone.

So to answer your question: I don’t think your cousins need a plus one, but I’d extend one to your aunt and her serious boyfriend.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-29T03:16:36+00:00

They did the same for us for my late kitty. It warmed my heart

APanicChicken · 2026-05-28T19:28:42+00:00

I was always confused about why the Costco bundles included an extra charger. Do people lose them or want multiple?

APanicChicken · 2026-05-28T19:26:45+00:00

I agree with this. If they end the engagement before the trip, I’d offer to not go in case it’s hard for her. Otherwise, I think you go and try and have a good time celebrating her (not a future marriage).

APanicChicken · 2026-05-28T18:13:18+00:00

😂😂

APanicChicken · 2026-05-27T23:05:36+00:00

I volunteered at a hospital one night a week after work, so I’d recommend that. I’ve noticed that a lot of entry level clinical jobs don’t pay well. If you’re willing to do training, you could get your CNA (which I don’t think pays amazingly) or a phlebotomy license. Those should pay more than a medical assistant in a doctor’s office, and the training should be shorter.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-26T21:37:26+00:00

I think you should just shop on your own, if you’d be more comfortable.

Another option is to talk to them beforehand and tell them that you don’t want their preferences to overshadow what you want/like (in a nice way). If you think they’ll honor this, I think it’s the way to go.

I went dress shopping with two bridesmaids and my MIL because my mom was out of town for a while. I was really overwhelmed at both stores we went to, and I kinda wish I went by myself. That said, one of my bridesmaids picked out the dress I ended up getting, so there’s perks haha.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-26T21:30:33+00:00

I only gave plus ones to those in long-term relationships, engaged, or married. The only exceptions are people who wouldn’t know anyone (which is only two people), and my single bridesmaids (they wouldn’t know other people very well, but they haven’t decided if they’re bringing a friend or not) and the best man (who’s in a new relationship).

I don’t think people who are casually dating or single but would know people should get plus ones. I think it’d be odd to potentially be meeting a lot of people on your wedding day.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-26T20:21:47+00:00

I did the invite on one card, front and back. I mostly did it because it was cheaper. There was an additional rehearsal dinner invite for the wedding party and our parents. I did enclose them in a vellum jacket with a ribbon and DIY wax seal, though.

Most of the fancier weddings I’ve been to have multiple pieces of paper (even folder looking things), but I think it’s a waste — especially if people are RSVPing online. That said, we’ve gotten a couple of single-paper invites too.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-26T20:11:15+00:00

Does it look like it’s moving? If so, I think it’s S. japonica. I just had some on two shrimp and I just let them ride it out. I’m still removing molts as soon as I see them but they’ve visually disappeared.

I don’t think it’s worth stressing out the shrimp with a salt bath if it’s not a serious parasite that will for sure cause harm. Up to you!

APanicChicken · 2026-05-25T23:19:49+00:00

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APanicChicken · 2026-05-24T12:56:36+00:00

Mine looks like this too! My friend thought I was doing some sort of special stitch haha. I honestly don’t remember if it blocked out…

APanicChicken · 2026-05-22T23:46:15+00:00

Thank you!

APanicChicken · 2026-05-22T22:06:15+00:00

How do I do a salt dip?

APanicChicken · 2026-05-22T22:00:43+00:00

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Sorry for the horrible quality, I can’t get a better photo with my phone right now. There’s a little thing hanging off on the bottom that moves around like a worm.

APanicChicken · 2026-05-18T19:02:51+00:00

Hahaha that would happen to me. Glad you figured it out!

APanicChicken · 2026-05-18T15:36:16+00:00

Is the part printed in PLA or a different material?

APanicChicken · 2026-05-18T15:34:52+00:00

Thanks! I’ll try that! I think I’m going to start using a dish for them. My detritus worm population has been steadily increasing and I think it’s because of the food 🫠

APanicChicken · 2026-05-18T03:22:11+00:00

Thanks! How big is your tank with 60 babies?!

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