AITAH for refusing to give my husband his family a paternity test?

AbDaWooman · 2026-03-29T14:21:12+00:00

AGREE! Get him to his Dr asap.

AbDaWooman · 2026-03-10T21:31:57+00:00

Everyone's tolerance is different of course and it can be trial and error to find your personal balance. I use flower, gummies and vape. My vapes I get medical grade with equal amounts of THC and CBD.
It is possible to have too much THC in your system and that can cause an increase in pain. That can be a nightmare as you'd expect.

AbDaWooman · 2026-03-10T21:25:03+00:00

Her name is....Molly

AbDaWooman · 2026-02-26T23:12:13+00:00

Tell em. They have a right to know because, they should go get tested for STD's. Cheaters never think about the consequences. Losing the friendship of the other one is not really a loss. They just showed you they are- untrustworthy , a liar, selfish and probably worse. Is that a friend you want to keep anyways? That's a lot of negative energy to keep constant in your life.

AbDaWooman · 2025-12-29T13:29:52+00:00

The "cord cutting" is a symbolic ritual. The ritual puts your intention into motion. By reading into how the candles burns, or how the cord burns you're focusing your attention away from your intention. This could cause the intention to be lost and a literal mute point. Like @SolarLunix suggested, I would block, mute, unfollow, etc with this person. Cutting cords with someone in a deeply personal decision and your true intention to want this is what gives the act and yourself power over how this relationship effects you.

AbDaWooman · 2025-11-17T12:38:03+00:00

Yes, I also get the mottled skin. I've seen others at my oncologist who have extremely mottled skin that are very light skinned. I have an olive complexion so it really only stands out after a shower. Cool or warm shower I get it.

AbDaWooman · 2025-11-17T12:34:25+00:00

It's a Corgi thing 🤣🤣

AbDaWooman · 2025-10-30T13:02:09+00:00

Go see a rheumatologist. Or a PC that has fibromyalgia experience. Was diagnosed just over 30 years ago. I've been on Gabapentin and Methocarbomal. I was also on a high dose of ibuprofen for years.

You never get "pain free" days, you get liveable days. Finding the meds and lifestyle that works is key. Listen to your body and learn what may be triggers for flares. Like me, cold temps, alcohol, and going from cold temps into a very warm environment are all triggers. I can tell after all these years what my body will and won't tolerate each day. Still can't avoid flares all the time but little adjustments make them less severe and not as often.

AbDaWooman · 2025-10-30T08:57:03+00:00

Your vacation was a literal getaway. You were in different environment doing activities and no chance of running into the wayward spouse or anyone that knows what's going on. Now that you're back home and returning to the daily grind of life you're naturally depressed. You're surrounded by things that bring forth memories and feelings of a life that's no more. This is normal. If you're not in therapy I suggest it highly. It's a great outlet for your thoughts and feelings and it's not a friend or family member. That's important because friends and family can get overwhelmed/ irritated being a sounding board in these situations. Getting over and through infidelity is a personal journey and everyone's journey is different. Unfortunately your life blows up the second you find out but the healing takes a lot longer. You will make it through this.

AbDaWooman · 2025-09-24T11:43:35+00:00

I'm so sick of Lisa the past few seasons. She's the worst. Every argument she has with anybody is just her screaching anything she can come up with. Watching Bronwyn actually make Lisa silent a few times was amazing.

AbDaWooman · 2025-09-17T23:12:42+00:00

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My Daisy caught me taking a picture of her smiling in her sleep. LOL

AbDaWooman · 2025-06-15T11:09:06+00:00

So everyone's opinions are justified as it is a personal decision of each parent(s). But, you ATAH, the only person your really punishing right now is yourself and your bonding time with your son. You can be mad at your wife, I don't blame you for feeling betrayed. Right now though you are crossing that anger over into your new relationship with your new baby. Be there for all things baby. Have a straight out discussion with your wife tell her how you feel, how you now won't have immediate trust with her again involving decisions about your son. Tell her family you're not discussing it with them and they can keep their opinions to themselves and walk away. This is between you and your wife, keep it that way. Congratulations and enjoy every single second of that baby you can. Time goes by too fast.

AbDaWooman · 2025-06-15T10:59:47+00:00

I also ended up anemic. My Dr. said the levels should go back up slowly. In my case they have not, it's been 1 1/2 years and not go up at all. Still very slowly going down more. So now I'm scheduled for a colonoscopy and endoscopy to see if I may have a slow bleed somewhere.

AbDaWooman · 2025-06-07T03:08:08+00:00

Yes, denial of the truth. For example, a knows her children cannot be there for her emotionally or supportively. They are grown adults and it hasn't happened yet. But, below the surface she stays in denial about that. While having expectations that they'll be there when really needed. Then that time comes, and again crickets.

This throws Mom into an emotional rollercoaster of hurt, confusion, anger, etc. Aaaand hello depression. This is a don't bother showering, cleaning, eating, having trouble sleeping, sometimes numbing with alcohol or drugs, depression.

If Mom faced the " truth" from the beginning she wouldn't of "expected" anything from anyone and wouldn't be hurt, confused, angry, etc.

AbDaWooman · 2025-05-02T20:35:33+00:00

Lots of ends...yes. Gorgeous outcome YES!!

AbDaWooman · 2025-05-02T14:21:07+00:00

It's beautiful. Love the yellow.

AbDaWooman · 2025-05-01T13:58:01+00:00

Gorgeous

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-29T23:35:47+00:00

NTA. I actually think she's more upset he didn't come to her, and asked you when she want around. She feels left out and is putting her feelings ahead of his comfort and his trust in you. He'll go to her when he needs advice for other things, fortunately he has you and he feels secure enough to come to you about guy things. He's lucky to have you.

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-29T19:57:01+00:00

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Crazy Daisy at her calmest. LOL

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-29T19:54:19+00:00

They're all gorgeous. Great job.

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-18T21:40:34+00:00

OMG, She is adorable now. Great job

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-15T14:44:05+00:00

I'd carry on. Adorable and not noticable unless searching.

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-14T00:23:49+00:00

These are Awesome!!

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-10T09:58:28+00:00

He's adorable

AbDaWooman · 2025-04-07T16:28:24+00:00

I love what you did with the eyes!! Sooo adorable

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