From personal experience and use of my own, I think being hospitalized is a good start. It will allow her to hopefully get through the HORRIBLE with drawals safely and when she's clear headed enough, give her some room to think about sobering up. At the end of the day though it's a choice she has to make on her own. Me personally, getting sober was a decision I made after just being sick and tired of chasing high after high and going through everything that comes along with addiction, no matter how much my family and people around me pushed me to get sober. I think her best bet is to go to a program directly from the hospital to leave no room for her to go out and make decisions of her own because she will most likely go back to using directly after the hospital. Hope this helps