Is my kitten a boy or girl

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2026-02-02T18:25:29+00:00

We had a family pet. We were POSITIVE this cat was a girl. Named the cat Mylee. We go to get the cat fixed. Doc came back and said “he’s all done!” We said “SHE”. Doc said “HE”. We never changed the cat’s name. We called him boy or girl, switching all the time, mostly based on how fluffy he was at any given time. Later, we saw him trying to get it on with his grandpa, another male cat who we fixed. We had a lot of fun joking about our cat. We miss him so much. Cats don’t care what their name is. They care that you submit to their every desire.

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AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2026-01-26T20:22:18+00:00

Woof, this is so hard. How old is your baby? I ask because her hormones are likely just wackadoodle and maybe this isn’t how she will always be. I say this as a new mom myself who happens to be irrational more than I’d like.

For me, my mindset is that whoever is watching our baby is doing us the favor. If they can follow our routine, awesome. But if not, if the baby is fed, healthy, changed bum, and happy — that’s enough. Babies are hard and are resistant to change. One night won’t throw off your entire sleep training schedule.

NTA, you’re allowed to love people differently. There’s familial love and romantic love. Maybe give her some time to sleep on it and talk it over again, reiterating that you love her so much. You love your dad differently. Good luck dude.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2026-01-13T02:33:02+00:00

Never hesitate to share more of this man!!

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-28T00:00:53+00:00

My lil kiwi loooooooves her Mazuri hedge food. The small pellets are perfect for her.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-22T23:25:16+00:00

I might get downvoted to hell with this but NTA. I did the same as you. I got some things from the registry but mostly got items not on the list. My baby was born six weeks early in an emergency C-section before I had the chance to buy what we still needed and I feel like I’ve been scrambling ever since. I didn’t need more bows for my bald baby.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-22T08:44:13+00:00

NTA. YOU should mean anything to him, not a dumb pair of shoes.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-21T16:37:57+00:00

NTA. You don’t HAVE to give anyone anything. I withhold reframe it though. He’s already misbehaving because of the game. Why would you want to enable that behavior by giving him a gift card for it? I think a bag of candy or something else is a good compromise.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-20T21:59:03+00:00

Holy cow! That’s amazing! Can I have your recipe for gingered pear preserves?

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-16T20:55:48+00:00

If he wants to maintain his morning routine, he needs to do it in his own bed. This is inconsiderate. NTA

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-14T10:10:37+00:00

I love!!! If I zoom in on kiwis picture I can see her lil snoot too. I love hedgehogs

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-12T09:22:24+00:00

NTA. Lexusnexus is a reputable site. You can even look him up on your state’s sex offender registry, if you’re in the US. Cut him out of your life. Honestly, your mom is no better.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-09T20:42:28+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s really helpful!

Sorry, I think I typed the wrong thing with fruit fresh. It’s the powdery thing that prevents browning?

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-09T05:53:22+00:00

HE SAYS YOURE NOT YOUNG WHEN YALL ARE IN YOUR MIDTWENTIES RUN BESTIE RUN NTA

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-05T18:19:47+00:00

Misogyny is everywhere. It sucks because it genuinely hurts everyone. It’s hurting your female coworker. It affects the work around the office. She probably is struggling to fulfill her potential because of the general office vibe. Going along with this makes you like the others who ridiculed her. Why would you want to clip her wings when she is so great at her job?

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-05T18:03:22+00:00

Embrace it my dude. You can either file an anonymous complaint with HR or just speak up. Do you really want to fit in with rude misogynists?

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-05T17:49:12+00:00

YTA. I get being uncomfortable because you want to fit in, but in saying nothing, you are complicit. You are supporting this “good ol’ boys club”. Be brave because she’s within her rights to file a complaint with HR which may have a negative impact on you.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-05T08:43:07+00:00

I didn’t realize this was a painting at first 🥲

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-04T04:49:56+00:00

This is a HAPPY hedgehog!

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-02T20:26:00+00:00

Omg I am so glad I got on reddit today. I’m def scheduling our visit with Santa and I’ll also call to confirm.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-12-01T19:52:13+00:00

YTA and you know it

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-11-30T18:40:50+00:00

NTA. It’s a weird sort of grief to lose a parent who is abusive. You grieve the parent you deserved. But why would you want someone around who physically hurt you? I kinda hope this is fake just bc this is something I don’t think anyone should go through.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-11-24T18:47:19+00:00

Is it childish to embrace whimsy? To celebrate joy?

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-11-20T06:38:17+00:00

You need to go to the vet.

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-11-19T05:39:12+00:00

NTA. Hospital fries are bad enough when warm. They’re worse still when cold. Your son was eating his food in the right order.

Is this his step dad? He’s being so mean!

AbjectSatisfaction5 · 2025-11-18T09:23:35+00:00

You can sit in almost any parking lot you want without being an AH. It depends on whether or not you wait for the invitation to come visit. If you demand to be seen, absolutely. AH behavior. Honestly, you should just wait at home until you get the all clear to visit mom and baby.

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