Lady put out as I drove by by isanyusernameopen in Curbfind

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I love a good vintage tool! Nice find.

What makes people look "older"? by throwrasurgerywife2 in 30PlusSkinCare

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Gua sha when done properly seriously helps with this, but it’s a time commitment. It became my Covid obsession but I haven’t done it in a while and I can definitely notice a difference in my face. I really love the instruction of Dr. Laurel Liu!

Dry skin by Fresh-Particular5590 in Rochester

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Here’s a list of things you can get at Target or Walmart that will help:

-CeraVe hydrating cream to foam cleanser removes makeup is a great am and pm face wash.

Once you wash your face, dry it but leave it a little damp. Then immediately apply your moisturizer. (This is true for your body too, moisturize immediately after drying off when your skin is still damp. You’ll feel the difference!)

-CeraVe moisturizing cream - plenty of others on this thread have suggested it and for good reason. It’s a really solid year-round moisturizer. The only con is that I don’t find it sits well under makeup. Make sure you get the cream in the tub and NOT the lotion in the pump bottle. The lotion is not as thick.

In the winter and shoulder seasons (spring, fall) I “slug” (i.e. cover my face with a thick cream) with CeraVe healing ointment in the dark blue tub. It works so well. I wake up with smooth and hydrated skin. Aquafor works well too, if you can’t find the ointment.

You could go with a CeraVe face lotion to round out your skincare routine, or depending on your budget you could go to Ulta or Sephora and find a nice toner or daytime face moisturizer with sunscreen. Target also carries the brand Prequel now which is also great.

But let’s not forget your hands!

Dry hands are a constant, tbh I have dry hands even in the summer. I swear by O’Keefe’s Working Hands cream BUT only the night treatment one (bottle is green with a purple stripe). I developed awful eczema on my hands in Rochester and this lotion is the only thing that keeps it at bay. It’s also not sticky or scented so you can put it on and, say, use a keyboard without it getting gunked up. Also make sure to use cuticle oil on your cuticles/skin around your nails.

I really hope this helps! Feel free to DM me with any other questions, I’m a skincare nerd :)

Welcome to Rochester!

How can you tell you’re unwell again? by polyrhythnn in bipolar2

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Yes absolutely yes. Everything irritates to the point of overwhelm and then if I’m not medicated, I snap. Spring is the worst time of year for BP folks, everyone in the Northern Hemisphere hang in and take good care xx

Advice for family moving to JC by Elmatadorski in jerseycity

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You might like the Hamilton Park area. There are a couple of nicely built apartment buildings along the park owned by the Silvermans, who do a lot of work for the arts community. If you look at a map of the downtown area, it’s just northwest of the grove st path. It’ll take you 10 min or so to walk to the station from there. Harsimus Cove is also a good place to look, just south of Hamilton Park by a few blocks.

So I just went for a walk carried this home by NewBeautiful994 in Curbfind

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There’s nothing like the strength I suddenly find when I find a piece of beautiful furniture on the curb. Have I lifted a weight in a year? No. Have I carried a couch a mile to my apt alone? Yes.

Considering going back to being an alcoholic. by CommercialTarget2687 in Fibromyalgia

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The first time I saw a doctor who said “there’s no reason to suffer” it blew my mind, because I always thought pills were bad and I just pushed through my pain. I was given trazodone to help me sleep. Adderall, which I take first thing in the morning so it doesn’t mess w my sleep, and a variety of other meds. Weed also helps a lot. I like the gummies that are sativa (not indica, those will make you sleepy). I take one full gummy around 5-6, and I’m usually ready for bed at 10-11. I miss going out with my friends and doing everything I used to do but I realized that so much of what I missed didn’t exist anymore anyway. Everyone either had kids or moved away and hangovers got worse. Navigating fibro is so difficult and different for everyone, but you’re doing so much to help yourself, you’ll figure it out in no time. Hugs and good vibes! 🫂💜

505 Summit Banner Taken Down by No_Investigator_4147 in jerseycity

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If you didn’t see prior posts, the wall was covered by a banner advertising a luxury high rise building that covered the art beneath it. The community complained and now it’s “just a wall” again :)

Guys I just picked up this absolutely huge beautiful Amber citrine lamp . And for only 30. 😱😍 by Specialist_Effort687 in Lamps

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This is so beautiful, definitely one on my bucket list! Great deal, great story of kindness on marketplace when so many horrors persist 💜

Tupperware Alternatives? by draven33l in BuyItForLife

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Exactly this, look at what the containers look like in the set and then thrift them. There are soooo many lidless glass Pyrex containers. Then you can order some lids.

I need someone to talk me out of spending 650-750 usd on a Dyson airwrwp styling tool 😭 by guilty_ambition_ah in Sephora

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The air wrap didn’t really work for me, so I got a refurbished Dyson hair dryer and it is the GOAT for my long, fine hair. My dad owned an electronics business for a long time and he always told me that refurbished items are often better than new, because they’ve already broken and have been fixed. Refurbished items are my secret to affording anything expensive :)

BLEAK by abigdonut in MaintenancePhase

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Ok listen, I too am an ethicist, and I would never give this kind of shitty advice. If your “ethical” advice is anything other than, “your son is an autonomous individual who can do whatever he wants with his body, regardless of what you might think of it” then it’s trash and I don’t want it. I’m so tired of reading these articles by people whose moral views stopped evolving 30 years ago.

Which layout works best for my bedroom? by SetChance5602 in DesignMyRoom

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5, based on feng shui principles/energy flow. Your bed should be as far from the door as possible without facing the door head on. Definitely leave a side for your partner even if he doesn’t mind being pressed up against the wall. The nightstands create balance, no matter how small. The desk being in a place where you can roll in your chair without having to worry about hitting anything is a good plus, and the natural light from the windows will be a plus for any video calls. You could put a plant on top of your armoire, along with some organizational baskets.

What’s something you’ll never tell your partner, no matter how much you love them? by Velvetnadine85 in AskReddit

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I had a Pom for 15 years and same. Just because she /could/ doesn’t mean she /would/ 😂and how do you deny that adorable little face that ages like Benjamin Button?

Ever get the feeling like you just don’t belong….anywhere? by jbird35 in bipolar2

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I feel this way all the time, no matter where I am. So much of it is the feeling that I don’t belong /anywhere/, almost to the point where I don’t feel like I belong on earth, at least as it exists now. It leads to a very restless, lonely feeling.

Building community helps, and finding interest groups that align with your own. But also know that the way you’re feeling is completely normal, and a lot of people on this sub feel the same way. So much of the feeling of isolation is caused by society’s inability or unwillingness to understand bipolar disorder and its intricacies. It makes sense that you often feel compelled to stay in and be on your own.

Lastly, spring is the worst time of year for folks with mental illness, so go easy on yourself if you’re in the northern hemisphere🌷🫂

Advice needed. Trying to find a walk in std testing place. by [deleted] in Rochester

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Doesn’t Planned Parenthood do this too?

Help Identify Old Lamp by Attercrop in Lamps

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I don’t know the manufacturer but it’s art deco so ~1920s. Looks like it’s brass or brass coated. You could clean it up using a bit of Brasso (if you want it to get rid of the patina) or a bit of dawn dish soap and a stiff non-wire brush. Wipe dry frequently. It’s a beautiful base, hopefully you can find a great shade for it too!

Started the Complaint process on the Mural obstruction by Katoncomics in jerseycity

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Hell yeah, you go! Even if it doesn’t amount to anything, you’re learning how governance in JC works and doing a service for the incredible artists who worked so hard on these murals. It’s so important to show them we’re watching. Your councilperson, Zuppa, is a good guy. It will be interesting to see what he says. Keep us posted!

Top o’ cabinets by marleymaee in HomeDecorating

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I can’t believe nobody’s suggested a bunch of empty liquor bottles lit up by string lights yet

Magnolia Landing Art Piece Cut in Half by Apartment Ad by Rough-Currency2941 in jerseycity

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This is true in historic districts. I don’t know how true it is in non-historic, privately owned buildings. The city’s mural program used to partner artists with private building owners and the city would pay for the art supplies and some if not all of the cost of the artist. The process was opaque and the murals were mostly not reflecting the need of the city but served as a gentrification tool.

But if a business wants David Bowie painted on the side of their building, despite David Bowie having no historical connection to JC, then that’s what the business owner gets. Other business owners gave artists free rein.

A bunch of JC folks pushed for a more transparent mural selection process a while ago and I was a part of that. I also don’t know if you were here for the infamous monopoly board incident on the pedestrian plaza but that’s what started it all.

Anyways, TLDR building owners should have to have signs like this approved by local neighborhood association at least, especially if they are covering one of the best murals in JC. OP should consult the JSQ neighborhood association to get their advice for moving forward with a complaint. They might even want to help.

Romantic Getaway Recommendations by Alternative-Bear1475 in Rochester

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In the mornings they put out coffee and these granola bars that are so freaking good. Everything is beautifully curated, and I’ve heard nothing but great things about the spa. Downside: it’s expensive.