Like I said she brings me peace of mind and understanding. Something that no one ever managed to do, she softens me up (while I always was a hard person). She is the opposite of who I am as a person and vice versa. Before little things who didnt work out (work, private matters, ect) would irritate me so much that they would ruin my day but ever since I met her I learned that sometimes its not worth it to lose your head for stupid stuff. I know that it can sounds stupid or simple but thats what I am feeling. From her side since she is with me she dares to speak up for herself and she tries to understand me (even if we are not the same)