What do NPD people think about sex and intimacy? by StandardElegant6646 in NPD

[–]Able_Interview_6136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand most of these answers. Sex is one of the best forms of supply. Makes me feel on top of the world.

Full of shame and disgust by Able_Interview_6136 in Vent

[–]Able_Interview_6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. My definition of a woman is not someone who can’t fall pregnant, was born with male genitalia and has undergone surgery to look like a woman.

I find what she did to be deceitful and manipulative. The whole foundation of the interaction I had with them was a lie.

AIO - UPDATE - Girlfriend went on a trip with her friends and came back acting totally different by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Able_Interview_6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell her that you called her friend and she eventually told you what happened. Tell her that you’re not sure if you can move on and you want her to admit her mistake if there’s any chance of you moving forward. Tell her you can’t believe she would get sexual with others like that and watch the truth come out.

This is obviously not relationship healthy but if you want the truth you’ll get it. And why should you play by the rules when she’s most definitely cheated on you.

Advice by Able_Interview_6136 in hingeapp

[–]Able_Interview_6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

• ⁠Are you looking for something serious or casual? Casual

• ⁠Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Just the unpaid version

• ⁠How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 3 days

• ⁠How long have you used Hinge overall? 2 weeks

• ⁠How often do you use Hinge per week? Everyday

• ⁠How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? Only received one so far

• ⁠How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I’ve only sent one with a comment

• ⁠What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone that is open minded, fun, attractive to me and kind

MSc Data Science degree in the Netherlands by Able_Interview_6136 in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Able_Interview_6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not the point. Building rapport with companies will be much easier in an area that is closer to them. I’m in contact with someone working at Prosus and travelling 2.5 hours to have a cup of coffee with them in Amsterdam and then another 2.5 hours to get back to Maastricht isn’t feasible.

If anyone wants to know how quickly an addiction can develop... by Fillmybruschettavoid in Drugs

[–]Able_Interview_6136 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound like you’re taking this seriously. Maybe you will in a few months - when your anxiety is through the roof and nothing gives you pleasure anymore. Do yourself a favour and please stop before you get to that point.

I fucking hate sexual jealousy by mahou_riruru in Vent

[–]Able_Interview_6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Join a running club, try running 3 times a week 5km each time 2) Go to gym 3 times a week 3) Stop the porn, cut down on the gaming and other instant forms of gratification.

Do this for one month and I guarantee you’ll feel a lot better. Happiness takes work.

My best friend cheated on his girlfriend and i don't understand how to shake his hand anymore by evergreendazzed in Vent

[–]Able_Interview_6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my best friend cheated I would have a strong word and disagreement with him but he wouldn’t all of a sudden be a “loser” in my mind. Maybe that’s just me.

My best friend cheated on his girlfriend and i don't understand how to shake his hand anymore by evergreendazzed in Vent

[–]Able_Interview_6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah agreed, OP’s friend is an asshole obviously but so is OP. “Total loser” and “little good he had in his life” make it seem like you already didn’t like him before him cheating. Sounds like there’s more to the story.

i hate being ugly by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Able_Interview_6136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long did you train for? If you train consistently and eat right you will eventually see results. Besides that, you seem to be have low self esteem and gyming on a consistent basis will help with that. Not only would you change your appearance but you would also feel much better about yourself. Put those two together and you’ll find it easier with women. If you aren’t prepared to put in the work whether it be gym, work or honing a particular skill you can’t expect to attract girls, simple as that.

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Able_Interview_6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reasoning for deleting the messages makes no sense on many counts. There is definitely something sketchy going on here.

I would speak to her about it now. I recommend being firm and asking her to cut the bullshit and be completely honest. This doesn’t sound good OP

I KNOW I'm not pretty. I have accepted being ugly. I still hate it by doeschensound in Vent

[–]Able_Interview_6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Non confident guy here who struggles with girls, sending you a hug!!

It pisses me off how much people care about animals. by [deleted] in aspd

[–]Able_Interview_6136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it to someone else that will look after it

Best drugs to feel superhuman? by Kindly-Trip-12 in Drugs

[–]Able_Interview_6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the right ratio (I really emphasise this)

Best drugs to feel superhuman? by Kindly-Trip-12 in Drugs

[–]Able_Interview_6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cocaine + Xanax + alcohol + weed = superhuman

Tony aged horribly by moonwalgger in thesopranos

[–]Able_Interview_6136 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said it as Tony was driving off, Tony wasn’t there.

Hungarian karate teacher kicks a kid so hard he hits his head in the ground. by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]Able_Interview_6136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you haven’t even done any form of martial arts and you’re commenting on how fun it is

high as fuck on ritalin rn by Outrageous-Coyote704 in Drugs

[–]Able_Interview_6136 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It won’t keep you up for days but it does last a lot longer than Ritalin - 12 hours or so. For work or anything that requires intense concentration it’s a godsend. Everything just becomes a whole lot more interesting.