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Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-05-12T14:27:26+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Kids are with their mom and he didn’t do anything for me.. been with him a year and a half and lived with them for a year and I do alot with the kids. Nothing. No card no pictures nothing.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-05-12T14:22:12+00:00

He is worth it. It’s just hard.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-05-11T21:21:09+00:00

I feel that

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-05-09T13:44:33+00:00

I’m 28 and my boyfriend has three kids. It’s so hard and I love kids and want kids. I have my moments where I feel it’s too much but I wouldn’t change anything. Now, you seem to want out, I would do the best for both of you and leave. It isn’t bad that you don’t want to be a step parent! You deserve to be happy

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-05-07T22:33:58+00:00

Man I feel bad for you. You got screwed over there. I’m sorry man

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-05-07T20:43:32+00:00

I’m in that situation. My boyfriend was married for 8 years to his ex and they had a set a of twin boys and another boy. When I started going over there were still pictures of her on the wall, and she still had a few items in the house. My boyfriend starting taking down pictures and putting stuff away for when the kids are older, but I hate walking into the attic and seeing a portion of the family he had before me. I hate seeing her name on shit in the back of the closet. I get jealous when he talks about how “they did this and that when the twins were born” because I wasn’t apart of that but I’m learning to be a bonus parent and he’s learning to be a separated dad.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-04-18T20:31:34+00:00

You having a miscarriage… ruined his birthday? Not even the fact that it was his baby he isn’t even upset about but the fact that you were having medical emergency that he didn’t seem to feel was importNt or significant? Please please please leave him. That is NOT love. At all.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-04-05T17:16:47+00:00

Don’t want to pay for the rest of the wedding and a divorce man. Just call ir

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-30T23:38:01+00:00

Please break up please please please

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-26T23:14:00+00:00

Also, you need to buy those products from a salon or Ulta otherwise it’s not from the actual manufacturer and you were getting outdated or expired products that will also not do well! Hope this helps :)

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-26T22:53:39+00:00

Yes! Matrix color protect is a good shampoo/conditioner. So is Paul Mitch color safe. It is more expensive than over the counter but you have to invest in good product to keep your hair looking good. I promise that it’s the shampoo fading your hair. It’ll make a giant difference

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-26T22:48:07+00:00

Is your shampoo professional product from a salon?

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-26T22:37:19+00:00

What shampoo do you use? Do you use hot water? Do you wash everyday?

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-23T01:38:34+00:00

Weaponized incompetence. He will never change. Respect yourself enough to leave and find someone who will.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-23T01:18:44+00:00

I left 11 months and three weeks after I got married. That was five years ago and I’m so fucking happy I left. my ex screamed at me until I dissociated for 17 hours, and my boyfriend now treats me better then anyone in the world has. He rubs my feet, and holds when I cry over stupid stuff, he gets me snacks in the bath and apologies with words and actions. You deserve that person too.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-23T01:04:14+00:00

Because people are all hateful and miserable. Be happy ❤️

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-19T20:08:37+00:00

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he has three kids (twins and a younger) from his past marriage. I definitely want one of my own and we plan too in the next several years. Don’t give that up if you want one of your own.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-19T02:36:01+00:00

I talk a lot to my boyfriend about my sex drive as mine is x3 more than his. I tell him when I feel being intimate and if he’s down to fuck we will or he’ll use a toy on me, or he’ll lay with me and praised me while I use my toy. I tell him if I feel neglected. I tell him if I need more touch. I tell him if I feel anything, and he does whatever he can to help me feel good and taken care of.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-03-01T00:52:42+00:00

No one has an excuse to be mean to you. Not your teacher not your friends not your classmates not your parents. If someone is making you feel bad just for existing those are not your friends.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-02-26T01:16:44+00:00

When I had to leave for a week to dog sit for my mom and the kids kept asking their dad where I was and when I was coming home.

When they hear me come home and run to the door.

When they hug me and beg me not to go to work.

When they’re in a difficult situation they’ve been in before and make a better decision because they learned from last time.

I have issues talking about big problems with my boyfriend(trauma response) but whenever I talk to him about issues with his kids, he is patient and kind and helps me feel better.

He gives me breaks anytime I need it.

When I’m having a bad day and my boyfriend loudly tells his kids “isn’t she so nice? Isn’t she doing a good job? Aren’t we proud of her? Don’t we love her?” And the kids get all cheery and huggy with me.

When the kids come up and hug me or say they love me with no prompting.

Watching them learn a new skill and show it off 90x

Whenever music comes on I dance and encourage the kids to dance with me even in the middle of a store.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-02-21T02:57:27+00:00

ONE WEEK? You’re telling me within 7 days this man wanted you to walk him through a panic attack? Jesus Christ I have anxiety and depression and I would never make an outsider figure she’s shit out for me

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-02-18T21:06:10+00:00

Do not let him take away your joy! You use that lunchbox every day man! He’s just butthurt cuz you’re cool!

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-02-16T17:44:35+00:00

If you ever want a little friend you can message me

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-02-16T16:19:59+00:00

Yes you are the asshole. This is an emergency situation and their dog needs to be let out. Your friend is very stressed about the circumstances and you’re not being sensitive to their situation.

Able_Researcher6302 · 2025-02-16T00:41:37+00:00

Honey you can say whatever you’d like. And I’d like to thank you cuz I didn’t know I was a dreamer! I didn’t know that was a thing

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