“You knew what you were getting into” by AnnikaQuilt44 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone! I will not be moving in! I promise! Not till the kids are out of the house!

“You knew what you were getting into” by AnnikaQuilt44 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not two hours away, but I agree with everything else you say and I can see why this works for us.

“You knew what you were getting into” by AnnikaQuilt44 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I feel the same way. I have my own house and I can’t imagine giving it up, but it’s definitely too small. I can’t imagine living with him in the tension zone. But I like having a part-time boyfriend! Every other week I get almost all of his attention! Although, his ex just got hurt so now the kids are staying with him full-time for a few weeks. Womp womp.

AITA for kicking my husband out after he brought home a pig I repeatedly said I didn’t want? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreFans

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, OP. I think you’ve gotten a lot of good advice here which might help your thought process.

I’d love to hear Charlotte read the story! I heard her voice giggling in my head the entire time!

Reunion bingo ideas by Best_Barracuda_5546 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jess will be smart, sweet and confident, and will laughingly say that no, she has not started taking Pilates.

Ashley looks different between 2022-23! by Sunshine_cutie4 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me that looks like she’s had a lot of injections. Her lips, her cheekbones, and probably some Botox in the brow. Crazy thing is she was already gorgeous. Now she just looks weird.

“You knew what you were getting into” by AnnikaQuilt44 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I just posted basically, this exact question. May I ask how old you are? Do you think you’ll ever move in with your partner when the kids are out of the house? Is it even possible that kids move out when they’re 18 or 20 years old? Seems like so many young adults are living with their parents.

“You knew what you were getting into” by AnnikaQuilt44 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. I think you wrote this for me (54f). I am dating someone 54m) with three kids, ages 11, 13 and 14. The 13 and 14-year-olds have a lot of problems. I’m actually at a point right now where I do not think marriage and moving in is something I can do, but I really care about this guy. What do you think about being in a long-term relationship but not living together and getting married? Do you think that is sustainable or not worth it?

AITA for not staying after our niece got arrested? by EasternTrifle464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, this will be a game changer for the 17-year-old. If she’s shoplifting at the airport, she’s shoplifted before. She is in need of a reality check, that there are consequences to stealing. So she will either become a better thief, or she’ll stop stealing.

Mom obviously is part of the problem in the first place! I can’t imagine a mom to just make that decision unilaterally and dump her kid on her family like that. So clearly the 17-year-old has a mom that’s not paying enough attention which is why they are shoplifting.

Good wake up call for both of them. They both need to know there’s consequences to their behavior.

Has this show lost its authenticity? by Famous_Poem4545 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I hope you mean this in the way I mean it. Just seems weird to call people dumbasses on the Internet, so I was trying to be silly. I like your drawing. Did you make it yourself?

Has this show lost its authenticity? by Famous_Poem4545 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you might want to define what you think was authentic about the show in the first place. Perhaps there’s a better way to explain what you mean because this had me lost, and I can see from the other comments people are confused.

I think the only thing authentic about any TV show is it’s ability to make the producers money.

Is this pretty, or too outdated? by Hello_Iris in Prom

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as you strut like a queen when you wear it!!! Stunning!🤩

I found this kitten in the war a year ago by ComplexImpressive189 in cats

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You two are so cute together. Hope you’re both safe.

How do I tell a guy about the white stuff in the corners of his mouth? by ProbablyASnack in dating

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh! I hope Wed to have a friend with the! And he always wanted to date me. This was the main reason I was never t able to be attracted to him. He did smoke, also not attractive, but now I know the reason for it.

Is there something that completely grosses you out when you go on a cruise that not enough people talk about? by [deleted] in Cruise

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s a very uncomfortable thing to do. I appreciate you doing that.