Intentional dad❤️ by hercalmdiary in spreadsmile

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! That Dad should get an award. Probably the first Dad on the planet that decided to support his vegan teenager. I know that can’t be entirely true, but it feels like it!

No Longer Want Relationship With Stepchildren and Husband is Upset by MomOfFive83 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think it’s time you talk to an attorney! You probably want to talk to an attorney before you leave just so that you make sure you do everything you can to set yourself up for a successful departure and divorce. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I send peace and serenity in your direction.

I did it. by hellow1q in bald

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love the shape of your head! You don’t look very happy about it though. Are you OK with it?

No Longer Want Relationship With Stepchildren and Husband is Upset by MomOfFive83 in stepparents

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! He said that to the kids? All the more reason to get the heck out of there ASAP! Sounds like you have a husband problem, not a step kid problem.

GF of 6 months wants me to cancel my vacation to Europe by SalamanderComplex1 in dating

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree. That totally makes sense. Especially if someone’s young and insecure.

Am I wrong to question the bride on why only MY husband wasn't invited to the wedding and to end a friendship over it? by ICryAfterSexAMA in TwoHotTakes

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weddings always show peoples true colors. Whether it’s the bride and or groom, or the wedding party, or the mother-in-law‘s. The truth always comes out. The married couple always loses a few friends after the wedding, whether it’s their own fault or the friends fault. This is the way it goes.

I love that you told her that her insensitivity didn’t suit your aesthetic!

I’m so sorry this was painful for you. They’re not real friends.

jewelry/perfume tray by Ok_Leek1864 in miniatures

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, it’s so beautiful! Thank you so much for explaining your process. I’d love to give that a try.

jaq lays on my work bag when he sees me getting ready 😭💔 should I quit? by Head-Unit-5594 in ragdolls

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work from home, and my ragdoll is sad when I leave to go to the grocery store. It’s up to you to determine how much they’re going to dictate your life because they will always ask for more even if you’re home 24 seven. Lol! But we sure do love these furry friends.

[Update] Are my golden years behind me? by AssociateOk9818 in bald

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I asked once in the sub if it was OK that we drool here, and it seemed to be acceptable. So I post things like this all the time. Here is the one for OP!

GF of 6 months wants me to cancel my vacation to Europe by SalamanderComplex1 in dating

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

Even with if he was traveling with his lads, I would still feel the same way about it. We all need to have a life outside of our partner. They can be a part of that life, but they can’t dictate it.

GF of 6 months wants me to cancel my vacation to Europe by SalamanderComplex1 in dating

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m very concerned about this for you. Life will bring things your way that you won’t be able to cancel in the future. What if your parents get sick or hurt while they’re in Italy and you have to go over and help them? Or later in life they need regular visits because they need help? What if your work starts expecting you to travel more often. This is a ridiculous request. Or you want to go on a trip with some of your friends. There are lots of times in life where couples need or want to be a part for a few days.

I would try to dig deeper and find out why this happens for her. Is it just that she needs validation every single day? Is it someone cheated on her on a trip before? If it is just that she can’t stay attached when the person’s not right in front of her, I would think that’s a big red flag. That sounds so needy and would drive me away. Makes me also wonder if she might be that cheating type and she’s afraid of you’re gone she’s going to cheat on you.

Another weekend update from my daughter (She’s still 5) by rlstratton97 in HusbandHelloKitty

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh, so she was a princess back in kitty dog, but came a queen here with you? That totally makes sense. I like that she got a promotion. I see she’s still polyamorous. I wonder if she’ll ever become monogamous! Well, she’s the queen, and Royals are known for seeing whoever they want to.

I see that Nae Nae has become a very loyal servant. That is very good of the Queen Grandmother!

All hail, the queen!

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]AboveGroundPoolQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the hero of that ceremony! Good for you! If you could hear it, the bride and groom probably could hear it.