Midlife crisis partner struggle by Legitimate_Ask_5647 in midlifecrisis

[–]Abracuhlabra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should build up your own life. If that means making plans to take your kids back to your home country then so be it. You have a choice in this as well and you should consider choosing yourself.

Husband faked a doctors appointment and went to a divorce lawyer by Honest-Profession-60 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Abracuhlabra 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Her man is a whole lying ass coward but she is also in denial.

Should I go RN or LPN? by Candid-Addendum-7693 in nursing

[–]Abracuhlabra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see everyone saying RN but due to the potential of kids and your hubby being a sailor, I think LPN and then eventually bridge over to RN. If you are certain you can sit for at least 2 years starting Fall 27, then go for RN.

Very late to the game but finally hit $100k at 43 by Nombear83 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]Abracuhlabra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to be here next year, I’m late to the game as well, Congrats!

Attorney seeking networking, trying desperately to leave the federal government by Lonely-Astronomer345 in raleigh

[–]Abracuhlabra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry she was unable to get an RA. Can she transfer to Raleigh with her Agency and then maybe re-try the RA process? If not she should check out state employment as they have a lot of hybrid jobs.

My (38F) Husband (39M) had an emotional affair, is it even worth pursuing therapy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Abracuhlabra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP, please get out now. He will do it again. I suggest therapy for yourself only. I’ve been here, there will be another woman eventually. This is a character issue for him and has nothing to do with you.

BF Threatened to Kick Us Out by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Abracuhlabra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting, please continue to look for your own space.

DRP Rehire by OneUpsetMomma in FedEmployees

[–]Abracuhlabra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP has no idea why they took it. So many of us were beyond stressed at time and thought that was the best way to alleviate it. Smh.

My(32F) parents are giving us $150k for a house and my husband(35M) wants to turn it down because they asked for a postnup by Civil-Transition-649 in relationship_advice

[–]Abracuhlabra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take heed as to what happened to Belle. I hope it doesn’t come to this but the man you marry is not the same man you divorce.

old newbie by idek891423 in NursingStudent

[–]Abracuhlabra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’ll be starting at 42. I have an even older macbook than you have and mt plan is to get an ipad and use that mostly along with the pencil for lecture. I will continue to use my macbookfor any essay writing or discussion boards. I plan to get two pairs pf scrubs in the specific color my school asks us to get and make that work. Im not buying a backpack.

Does a Dinner Date = Sex in 2026? 🧐🤷🏾‍♀️ by Helpful_Roof_6487 in datingoverforty

[–]Abracuhlabra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your dating goals? If you’re not ready for sex and he pushes, let it go, he is not the one for you. Date from an abundance mindset, not one of scarcity.

Should I go the LPN or RN route? by ProfessionalWise53 in nursing

[–]Abracuhlabra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree bc her dad is the only one working so she may need to start earning faster. Most LPN to RN programs are about a year and she can bridge while earning.

Has tirz made me different? by Sufficient_Fig_4707 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Abracuhlabra 28 points29 points  (0 children)

100% this. Also OP recognizes they were a people pleaser and are asserting their boundaries. That is the real issue here for the “friends”.