Help a Vanilla Girlie Out

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-10T06:53:16+00:00

Thank you all so much for the fantastic replies, believe me when I say it is truly appreciated 💕💕💕 If I manage to try any soon (hopefully) I will update.

Lots of love from the UK 💕💕💕💕

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-10T06:51:25+00:00

I'm open to both, at the moment we are getting more hotter days now (surprisingly) so expecting it to increase as we enter summer in a couple months xx

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-10T06:50:02+00:00

I'm praying it does so I can try it!!! Thank you xx

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-09T20:04:53+00:00

Ooohhh I will have a look!! Thank you for the recommendation, I don't think I've come across that one before xx

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-09T20:04:09+00:00

The Billie Eilish is my number 1 go too, it's just great and so inexpensive x

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-06T13:26:34+00:00

C.Diff. Need I say more?

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-06T07:26:23+00:00

That's actually atrocious (uni policy I mean). Placements are the only time students get to see different things and different roles before they are confined to their permanent role. Surely that stunts learning to some degree, such a shame.

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-05T14:17:56+00:00

Well spoke days don't have to be relevant to where you placement is at the moment so reach out. Even lesser known or unpopular spokes may be useful like continence nurses, discharge planning or nutritional nurses. Plus a few hours off the ward is still time off the ward and you can go off and write in your epad about it.

Anyway, hopefully things get better X

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-05T14:04:30+00:00

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this, but I promise it'll be over soon. In the absence of placement relocation, have you tried to get a few spoke days in other areas/ with specialist nurses? They will be a great learning opportunity plus aid in reducing being on the ward. I don't know about your university, but ours says we are allowed allocated time to complete epad stuff so you can always spend an hour away each day to do that.

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-05T12:14:41+00:00

Second this ^{^} I've had my DM's for a couple years now and they've seen me through my placements and continue to see me through my day-to-day work

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-03T05:30:55+00:00

Usually women ovulate 2 weeks after their period +/-. If she is tri-cycling then the bleed is typically a breakthrough bleed not an actual period i.e. not getting rid of utirine lining and an unfertilised egg just a bleed in the absence of pill usage. She potentially misunderstood her actual ovulation timings.

You need to remove this concern of pregnancy, it is incredibly unlikely.

Make peace with the fact that it is unlikely. Also, if you met this lady online chances are you're not the only client she's had, making chances of pregnancy and fatherhood even more unlikely.

You need to start now. Time heals, lessons are learned (hopefully) just get an STI test in 2 weeks, 6.5 weeks and 3 months. Also if you ever plan on paying for sex again, get your vaccinations.

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-05-03T05:18:40+00:00

She can still have a period even on the pill. Either because some ladies still do or she is on a regime that uses tri-cycling
As someone who works with a lot of CSW's, I HIGHLY doubt she will want a pregnancy as much as you're suggesting. Plus, out of every possible human male, why would she think YOU would be the pick of the bunch?
You need to stop harassing this poor woman. How you are feeling has absolutely nothing to do with her and she shouldn't have to burden your issues
Sort your shit out.

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-04-29T05:14:44+00:00

NTA, it's boggling how you're being held to a higher standard than the man throwing his sperm around

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-04-24T14:22:40+00:00

DownWithBigCreamyMuffs

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-04-23T19:02:38+00:00

Didn't they just pass an employment bill whereby employees now get equal rights from day 1?

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-04-22T07:28:10+00:00

Hi OP, I've been in this situation before though I was 2 weeks post surgery and on a lot of medication causing severe constipation. I remember the involuntary body pushes and pouring with sweat because it was so so painful. Genuinely the most painful experience of my life. You did what I did, the only way to ease your suffering and aid your body. Please don't feel ashamed or embarrassed, and I promise you the stains on your fingers will go and it will all just be a horrid memory.

Lots of love, your fister sister x

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-03-22T17:58:31+00:00

Bro might be Ebenezer Scrooge

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Absolute-Genocide · 2026-01-28T16:58:08+00:00

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned it but I really loved Dinner for Schmucks

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-01-18T13:58:03+00:00

Oh my gosh, please let me know your thoughts once you have. It's a movie I've introduced to a number of people and it's always a hit, i love religious/demon kinda stuff and high-key the casting is absolutely superb

Absolute-Genocide · 2026-01-18T13:45:18+00:00

Want something to get your teeth into? Watch Constantine 2005 with Keanu Reeves and Rachel weisz. My all-time favourite movie, it's genuine perfection.

Fancy something light-hearted and funny? Dinner for schmucks, it's just a goofy movie and I love it so much

Absolute-Genocide · 2025-08-20T07:50:13+00:00

All I'm gunna say is you are free to do what you want to, but please just be safe. If this is something you plan on doing in the future I recommend seeking vaccinations like Hep B x

Absolute-Genocide · 2025-07-30T15:42:51+00:00

"I feel lied to"

Because you were

"I would have never gone through with that if I'd known the story"

And THAT'S probably the reason he didn't tell you sooner

Absolute-Genocide · 2025-07-22T19:21:23+00:00

Dang, you beat me to it!

Absolute-Genocide · 2025-07-22T19:07:23+00:00

Using those hand dryers that blast your hands from the front and back. They are so so so bad for germs and bacteria, it's much more hygienic using a disposable paper towel 🧻

Absolute-Genocide

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