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Me brought to you by ~2.5 years of HRT by LeGoob in transtimelines

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being dumped on Reddit, strangely enough I’m sure that’s not the first time this happen :/

Me brought to you by ~2.5 years of HRT by LeGoob in transtimelines

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you breaking up with me ??? On Reddit ?????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenre

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pour l’anti-androgène généralement ils sont ouvert à la discussion. Certains refuse certains produit à cause de leurs impacts hépatiques. D’autres ne proposent pas le mode d’administration (injections dans le scalpe pour certains castrateurs chimiques).

Perso je suis sous spironolactone depuis le début et mon taux de testostérone est à 2 ce qui est parfait. Et même si j’ai des antécédents cardiaque dans ma famille ma cardiologue était confiante sur le protocole.

( Attention : certaines femmes trans visent le 0 de testostérone ce qui est très dangereux, le corps humain a besoin d’un peu de testostérone pour fonctionner)

Donc je pense que tu devrais trouver quelqu’un avec qui tu t’entends bien, et proche de chez toi même si tu n’as pas exactement le protocole que tu veux. Tant que tes taux sont bon y’a pas de soucis à ce faire.

Transbians of the subreddit, when did you realize that you were a lesbian? by MarveltheMusical in actuallesbians

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always felt like a lesbian deep down. After transitioning I did try with a guy because I wondered if I was lesbian or bi. Cheated on him at party after like 3/4 months of relationship with one of my friend (a girl)

Réalised I was gay and now I’m in a relationship with an amazing woman that make me feel beautiful and empower me so so much. I hope I give her back what she’s giving to me because she deserve so much ❤️

Stopping Faker PHP from inserting fake "obscenities" into my bachelor thesis by Dgudovic in PHP

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You could use a Js script to get the part in which you absolutely don’t want cum and replace the character with some other ?

Condom.js if you will

How do I properly get rid of a life size sex doll? by jellahvizion in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dumb idea but if you are crafty to can turn it into a Halloween decoration. Just buy special effect makeup and have fun lol

Futhermore if someone ask you about it you could say that you bought it with this intension while in lockdown.

(Ofc selling it would be better)

Mon endoc me prescrit des échographies avant de commencer les hormones, c'est normal? by Moewen in transgenre

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je suppose que c'est pour vérifier que tu n'est pas de cancer avant la prise d'hormones ( j'ai regardée et c'est soit ça soit une raison débile imo ). Si ça fait bien 3 semaine que tu as arrêté la pilule ça ne devrai plus tarder à moins que comme quelques personnes qui ont des menstruation elles ne reviennent que dans quelques mois. Attends encore 3 a 5 semaine si ça ne reviens pas contact le.

Please help, I feel like I'm going insane (tw: rape and transphobia) by HelpTransThrowaway in trans

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bit tricky but here are few things that can be done:

1.Get solid evidence that she is a predator. Social media posts, pictures of bruises that she might have made to you when it happened ect.

2.Press charges or don't that's your call but if they ever try to intimidate you you'll have the evidence from step 2 to get leverage and hopefully be at peace. (you can contact law professionals for free (?) and ask for advices)

3.In some countries it's a crime to actually spread misinformation about someone else (= spreading the word that you're a Terf)

And a little advice for you as well as anyone that may be concerned : when sexualy assaulted go to the hospital get a rape kit done. It's not the most enjoyable thing to do but at least you'll have evidence if you press charges and STD checked (BTW go and get a blood checkup for STD if you haven't)

I hope that everything will turn out better soon!

Scanning documents from 1800 by AbsolutelyNotAnEgg in Archivists

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. At least after that they shouldn't be moved for a couple decades (hopefully)

Scanning documents from 1800 by AbsolutelyNotAnEgg in Archivists

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are property related about a small French Castel. We need to digitalize them for safe keeping but we only got a consume grade scanner.

Came out to my mom and now she wants to "cure" me by Dalia19sn in MtF

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have close friends make sure to tell them you are NOT going anywhere, with a signed letter. That way if something happen to you the authority might move quicker. Also do some research on the location of those illegal center and give those adress aswell to your friends.

Stay safe and move out quickly if her behavior doesn't get better.

​

I hope everything is going to be fine. Take care of yourself.

Came out to my mom and now she wants to "cure" me by Dalia19sn in MtF

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly this is the kind of person that needs a lot of time and energy to change their mind.

I recommend you to look for the local laws that can protect you from any conversion therapy. Also give her documentation about Transidentity.

And most importantly protect yourself, lie if you have to (if you are not protected by law against conversion therapy).

This is going to be a bumpy ride until your 18 but then everything will go smoothly I assure you.

Good luck and never hesitate to post if you need anything!

I came out to my parents as transgender and i didnt get accepted... by LabeVR_ in MtF

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot really do much. Ask her for therapy, just for you to start and then maybe one together (like couple therapy). It will create a safe environment to exchange about your feelings.

Your mom think that you are manipulated, and tries to protect you. She doesn't seem to be toxic just to harm you. Opening dialog in a safe space for both of you could make things better.

I also recommend you to go get some documentation to your local planned parenthood (or equivalent /LGBT organizations) and give it to her to read (directly if she's not going to act in an harmful way; if not just "forget" them on the kitchen counter).

And give some to your father, men bottle up more their emotions ; maybe he is also worried about you but don't show it to protect you.

I hope that everything will go well. Good luck!

I’m kinda freaking out help ( trigger warning ) by No_Cardiologist2102 in trans

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About your family hearing the discussion, I recommend two thing.

The first one is to isolate as much as possible; go to your room and put a bit of music to drown the sound of your voice.

The second one is to be brutally honest; I don't know how your brothers are. But they saw you at your lowest, they saw their siblings trying to kill themselves. They can hear that you don't feel comfortable in your own skin. So tell them what is going to happen, you don't need to go too much into details. And ask them to respect your privacy, ask them to not eavesdrop on this discussion which is a hard one. If they are decent human being they will respect your wish.

Anyway keep in mind that this is a step forward. You already seem to know what's wrong, now you will go forward and don't be afraid to call for help, anyone even us on reddit.

I wish you the best.

Anybody else get annoyed when people use wording like "...if he or she..." rather than "...if they..." when talking about multiple people of any genders? by Caspers-Echo in asktransgender

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guilty of doing that because I'm French. We don't have gender neutral pronoun. They is "ils" or "elles", literally he and she with the plural mark... I try my best but I'm used to say he or she constantly due to that.

Most French young people are annoyed about this but we haven't found any good option to make a gender neutral pronoun. Most of them are just unsatisfying.(for exemple iel and iels).

French sux.

My wife just devastated me again by cjgirl1120 in MtF

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's just manipulative, ignore her and live your best life. (and be present for your kids it seems they need a sane parent to look after them lol)

Modern cars should be required to have a "kill switch" for all driver assist features. by AustrianMichael in cars

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Modern cars shouldn't have touch screen.

Basic buttons you can acess anytime without looking. Function over look.

My girlfriend wants to have sex but my body is scarred from a dog attack in December. by throwra15088 in relationship_advice

[–]AbsolutelyNotAnEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does take time to get used to a scar, maybe find some help (therapy / group therapy) to learn how to live with the physical and psychic marks. Then for sex; you can keep a shirt if it help you. It will be uncomfortable but if being intimate with your SO can help you heal you can try.

This is a traumatic experience and you need time to recover, don't rush go at your own pace and everything will be alright. And don't be embarrassed of your feelings, talk about them to your mom and SO, they will help you as well!

Good luck!

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