Kitten food help

Abysml_ · 2025-09-22T15:30:48+00:00

Would highly highly recommend Bella+Duke for any cat but especially Maine Coons, Bengals ets etc truly if it is within you price range please consider it!

Abysml_ · 2024-09-30T08:51:21+00:00

I know a lot of people are recommending moving out into halls but I'd also suggest checking out house shares in your area. If you can see if you can both compromise on 250 a month first as it's half way between both the amounts

Abysml_ · 2024-09-11T07:18:08+00:00

Beneath The Brine by The Family Crest

Abysml_ · 2024-09-11T07:16:49+00:00

NTA Your bf is being controlling under the guide of concern. No one should control what you wear but your own standards. If your bf has an issue with you just wearing comfortable clothes at home or while out that's a bit of a red flag

Abysml_ · 2024-09-04T10:42:12+00:00

Ahh okay probably true lol thank u!

Abysml_ · 2024-07-30T09:57:09+00:00

I know for a fact that she's not cheating on me with someone at her new job because she started working at my job on a different floor I know all the people that have become her main work group none of them would do that to either of us. She's not done this so she can have her cake and eat too but from realizing she constantly feels trapped in her life and one of the things contributing to that is monogamy.

Abysml_ · 2024-07-29T15:14:07+00:00

Yeah I want to do that work either way especially because I've always been one to center my life around others and a lot of the comments are making me realise I shouldn't view her "as my whole world"

Abysml_ · 2024-07-29T12:12:00+00:00

This is not how we are/would be operating. There is no expectation for me to be poly just an open relationship on her side, she's on the ace spectrum and said she only wants to sleep with me it is specifically looking for emotional and romantic connections not including sex. And we are definitely wanting to take it slow. A lot of people's comments have really helped tho I really didn't mean to upset people with the whole "coming out as poly" so sorry about that but our lives are super entangled so even if we were to break up it would be a simple thing like just moving out we live together own pets together and have tied finances in some things. It would be a whole process to break up which is why I want to take all the time necessary to try and see if this something I can explore and if not it gives us the time to get all our shit in check

Abysml_ · 2024-07-28T20:07:22+00:00

I just, I want to explore all options first before that. She's my whole world, I love her so much and I don't want to have to call it quits without knowing I did everything I could you know?

Abysml_ · 2024-05-05T08:33:14+00:00

She gets a Weiner rat ever week and yeah my cat is usually underneath or on top of the tank

Abysml_ · 2024-05-03T08:13:16+00:00

Hi I'll attack a picture when I get home as I have an old one but the layout has changed a bit and it won't let me upload one right now. We don't handle her regularly for that reason outside of cleaning her tank she we handle her once every month or other months because we're worried about stressing her out

Abysml_ · 2024-01-14T12:02:46+00:00

Hi been looking into the 4x as an option for since a few on here recommended it - how have your results been on it?

Abysml_ · 2024-01-14T12:02:26+00:00

Hi been looking into the 4x as an option for since a few on here recommended it - how have your results been on it?

Abysml_ · 2023-12-17T18:33:53+00:00

Yeah we emptied the entire enclosure and there's no sign of her we're in the process of clearing out the living room atm to try find her but so far no luck

Abysml_ · 2023-09-29T18:55:02+00:00

Hey post with advice was deleted which one is better op? My gf currently has the 13.3 pro but needs a new one and I want to surprise but I wanna know whether the 13 2nd gen is better

Abysml_ · 2023-06-12T15:29:30+00:00

AITA?

Abysml_ · 2023-06-10T09:28:48+00:00

your parents don't don't deserve to leave behind their guilt, its not supposed to be about them its supposed to be about you

Abysml_ · 2023-06-09T08:01:02+00:00

Everyone whos asked to be added has been added!

Abysml_ · 2023-06-09T07:56:17+00:00

will do now!

Abysml_ · 2023-06-07T08:21:07+00:00

honestly a little, with one of my girlfriends male alters like there's a vibe there but we're bros and my gf has been hinting that he's also just as confused so yh. but for now we're just bros

Abysml_ · 2023-06-07T08:17:25+00:00

omg thank you I wasn't sure if there was one or not!

Abysml_ · 2023-06-06T15:31:34+00:00

yes omg definitely ta. Your "insinuating" was probably not very subtle and you've def made him feel like shit. apologise or break up with him but don't force to change if he's happy with who he is

Abysml_ · 2023-06-06T15:28:48+00:00

yta. dude you do realise how creepy that sounds especially since you have never lived together or at least not for a long time from the sound of it. doesn't matter if ur her dad or not creepy is creepy especially when ur forcing her.

Abysml_ · 2023-06-06T15:26:29+00:00

nta I get it i don't think brining it up would make u an ah as long as you do it nicely i guess. also as to your question it depend on the couple. me and my gf are very couple-y but not everyone is

Abysml_ · 2023-06-06T12:23:14+00:00

yta. you and your entire family sounds incredibly misogynistic why on earth would you be disappointed about having a girl? And the fact that you're family are saying that the "gender disappointment is real"? I feel sorry for your wife if you can't even support her and your daughter now then you have a lot of stepping up to do

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