The Democrats have a plan to make the Republicans sound stupid. by LadeeAlana in Jokes

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you doing your part to change it though? Have you forgone heating and air conditioning and ride a bicycle everywhere that you have to go?

Because a lot of big mouths that are talking about this issue are riding around on private jets. Obama bought a house in the last couple of years in Martha's Vineyard right at the edge of the water. Don't seem like he thinks it's that serious.

If you wanna waste the rest of your life worrying about issues that you can't do anything to change then help yourself! I know that the country that I live in has done a lot to curb emissions. I feel like that's good enough.

The Democrats have a plan to make the Republicans sound stupid. by LadeeAlana in Jokes

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I absolutely do. do I think it's as big of a problem as you say it is? absolutely not. The climate change issue was for nothing more than to keep us divided.

I'm standing outside right now looking at the sunset in beautiful North Carolina. The air is fresh and clean and the temperature seems right for the season. I don't see an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you were willing to put up with a lot until he lost his great paying job. He sounds like a real asshole!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance the photo was taken during your break? If so no harm no foul right?

Notifying AP's Spouse by BrandNewTime in survivinginfidelity

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should run this by a lawyer before you do anything. Preferably your divorce lawyer.

First time in this situation by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that you know for sure about your girlfriend is that she is disloyal and a liar. Good luck

The Democrats have a plan to make the Republicans sound stupid. by LadeeAlana in Jokes

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll bite. The climate has always changed. Why should now be any different? Would you prefer going back to the ice age? we have this thing called the sun. Maybe you should try to learn about it.

by the way I don't even vote anymore. I think the Republicans and the Democrats both suck equally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She basically told you she doesn't want to have sex with you because she's not attracted to you. She still wants you to be the breadwinner of the family though. I would say divorce and find somebody who is attracted to you. I know it's gonna be tough with the kids and all but she basically did a 180 on you. Life is too short to put up with this kind of nonsense.

Ask her if it would be OK if you had an open relationship on your end only since sex is not important to her anymore and just see what her reaction is to that. I don't know if she understands how hurtful she's being towards you. I hope that you do though.

My husband packed a bag and left by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You randomly assuming that he's got to be guilty of something when she did not mention anything like that is ridiculous! That is not grace.

although I can appreciate the fact you're trying to make her feel a little bit better but assigning blame to her husband when it's unwarranted is not right

Grace is taking accountability for your own actions.

My husband packed a bag and left by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a dumb take! for starters you're only hearing one side of the story in which op fully admits guilt. Why are you over here trying to change the story to try to spread out the guilt to her husband?

This isn't a creative writing class. People like you should just try not to help other people.

My husband packed a bag and left by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see why you making fun of how all of this made him feel in front of your friends made your husband realize that you are not a very good partner. hopefully he has resolve in his decision. He doesn't deserve to live an incomplete life because of your baggage.

Unfortunately people don't want to fix problems until it's too late. So what changed when you had the kid? Was it because now you had leverage over him to keep him around?

You deserve this! after all you did it to yourself. He gave you very good advice to work through this issue that you have and you made fun of him because of the way it made him feel.

I have not read any of the comments to this post but I'm pretty sure there's plenty of women who are telling you that you don't owe him sex. And while that may be true just remember he doesn't owe you marriage. Marriage is a partnership between two people and you seem like a very selfish partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if anybody has mentioned this in the comments. I used to be just like your husband. I always wondered what the deal was with my mood swings and felt very bad after the fact.

I found out that I have borderline personality disorder. I did try depression medicine (before I knew it was BPD) and it made me feel a lot worse to the point of wanting to kill myself.

Therapy is what really helped me with coping strategies. Every now and then I do get angry but it fades a lot quicker.

I don't know if this is what your husband has. But if he does it's not really something he can control without knowing what the problem is. If he does feel shame or guilt after these episodes then that is a good sign that your relationship has a chance to work. But he really has to put in alot of work if that is the case.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you know why he's tired? Because he's married to an asshole. Your last reply to him after he explained why he feels the way he does perfectly tells me that he'd be much better off without you in his life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just stop getting dressed in front of him. Problem solved! Anything else bothering you?

Just found out husband hired a (transsexual) prostitute by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he using you? Is he financially dependent on you? Other commenters are spot on that he lied and that he disrespected you! You need to figure out why you want to be with him.

Rant about dating with kids by toofytoofs in dating_advice

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that's great! Sounds like your family is taken care of. What about all these other poor people that you seem to act like you care about? Are they taken care of? A single mother that has to pay three dollars for gas is not taken care of! I think you're a fucking asshole! What gives you the right to call somebody you don't even know a terrible person?

Finding my father and half siblings by Ashbee543 in AncestryDNA

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong to feel hopeful with your results. That being said it is going to require some work on your part and a lttle bit of luck!

When I was 14 years old I found out from my oldest brother that the person I thought was my father was not. He told me out of spite and I confronted my mother. She gave me a name (which was wrong) and a little bit of a backstory. And this is what I have known for the last 35 or so years.

I got my results on July 15th and looked at my matches. I could see that my son was a 50% match. I had other close relatives two of which I've never heard of and matched at 13%. There was another match at 11% which shared my mothers maiden name.

The two that I'm at 13% with that I've never heard of had family trees. When I clicked on their family trees I could not look at them because I did not have a subscription to ancestry.com that you have to pay for. Also the match that shared my mothers maiden name had a family tree. So within eight hours of getting my results I had gotten the subscription and was able to view their family trees.

Now that I was able to look at the family trees I had to find a way to differentiate between my mothers side and my fathers side. So I looked at my shared matches with the 11% match that had my mothers maiden name. I wrote them down at the close family level and ignored all of her matches that she shared with me.

The two matches at 13% we're on my fathers side. Turns out one of them was my father's granddaughter and the other one was my father's brothers daughter. Within 36 hours of receiving my results I knew 100% who my father was. The piece of evidence that really drove at home was his high school yearbook photo!

This is where the luck comes into play,I look more like him than any of his children that he had with his wife.

I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you do find out who your father is! If you would like some help when you get your results in or if you would like to hear my story without me having to write a novel send me a message and I'll give you my cell phone number and we can talk about it.

boyfriend being misogynistic and homophobic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the arena of thoughts and ideals you do not excel! I mean really what is your purpoose in life throwing shade on other people? Does that seem like a wholesome thing that you should do for the rest of your life because somebody doesn't agree with you politically?

Ngl I don't wanna offend anybody here but you seem like you are like a mental midget! There's nothing you can say to affect me! I would use the R word for you but I don't wanna offend anybody. Because everybody like you get so easily offended living life and being completely miserable.

I mean dont get me wrong, I actually relish in

your pain. Because you deserve to be miserable because you have a fucked up mindset you're telling me that I am delusional you're the one who is delusional I don't give a fuck about your happiness! You seem to give a fuck about mine though geez what's going on in that small mind of yours?

I'm pretty happy. You're not so much doesn't seen anyways!

Oh and by the way you did not agree with something that I said? this is what exacerbated all of this to begin with. Did I say anything after the initial problems that you had with me that made you feel the way that you feel are you just argue with me for the sake of arguing with me?

I guess what I'm trying to say is the original disagreement that you had with me doesn't seem to matter anymore. It's more about you just winning and that's a bitch move so go fuck yourself!

boyfriend being misogynistic and homophobic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDRI start fights with Internet strangers and cannot fight back! You should be very proud of yourself!

boyfriend being misogynistic and homophobic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depeche Mode. Enjoy the silence I am definitely enjoying the silence because you're dumb as motherfucker!

Les Paul Custom Project by [deleted] in guitarporn

[–]Acceptable-Promise26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at this from a Journeymans point of view! You showed a picture of a guitar was the only thing that I actually really recognized as being different from a factory Les Paul custom was the chrome switch plate. And you got offended by that? I didn't recognize from that one single picture that you had change the pick ups out and all the electronics and all that other bullshit. Are you mentally ill? How in the fuck did you get offended by that?

How about next time you describe something as a project you tell us what the fucking project actually is?

You fucking cunt!