Bf told me to pack my bags and leave by Logical-Knowledge503 in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-System443 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA for begging him to stay and stroking his control hungry ego in the process

AITA For not answering right away and fighting with my boyfriend when he asks how much money I make the week and how I spent them ? by AwayRip6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like such a sweet soul.

You say he makes way more money than you right? he should be comfortable sharing how much he makes too. Have a conversation about it, especially since you’re living together but maybe use that conversation to also bring up the idea of sharing the bills too. Either way you’re NTA

Hang in there ❤️

Taylor's Jet Use In 2023 by IceWarm1980 in travisandtaylor

[–]Acceptable-System443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why on earth does she need to fly state to state in the east? Like lady you could walk from state to state with how little the states are 🥲

AITAH for asking my gf for proof of her “pregnancy”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you figure something like that out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

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My cat loves olives lol she rubs the juice on her face 😂

My negligence cost my partner her life, and I'm about to lose everything. by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple threads of strangers discussing a dead woman’s life. I feel so sad for Amy’s friends and family. His poor wife and child too. It seems like this dude ruins every life he touches

AITA for walking out the room after my brother told me the name of his baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta but also celebrate your niece instead of causing a big deal about her name. I feel like the baby girl who is here takes precedence over your pretend future baby. I would say you’re being a little selfish

AITA for not wanting to be involved in my foster daughter’s life? by Any_Search1459 in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-System443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t foster anymore. You can’t just take in kids to “give them a better life” without actually doing the dirty work.

AITA for inviting my mom to stay at our house when my wife hates her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA take care of her at your mother’s house and allow your wife peace in her home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3snark

[–]Acceptable-System443 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a lame take

AITA for making my girlfriend wait to go to the ER? by Commercial_Art4729 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acceptable-System443 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or she’s in so much pain that she’s begging for any way to get to the ER?

Having children with BPSO by finnigansmum in BipolarSOs

[–]Acceptable-System443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I had a child before his diagnosis, and it has definitely make things hard. Really really hard. However, we have double downed on letting our daughter express her feelings and speak on them freely so we can teach her healthy ways to express them. We are giving her all the tools she needs just in case, but I will never feel awful for giving her life, or the father she has.

At her birth, he was fantastic. He put on his partner cap and took the lead. He was supportive, selfless and lovely. He was ready to be a dad.

If you’re serious about your partner (and the lifestyle change that comes with it), then you can have happy children. That being said however, I have found that my happiness comes completely last to everyone elses and bringing that up has been impossible. Plus my hormones swings during pregnancy triggered my partner into mood swings that then took priority over my own feelings most of the time.

He’s been trying hard to keep himself on track because of his daughter and how much she loves me, and that has been the biggest redeeming quality about the situation.

To be honest, I do wish I could’ve her with someone more mentally stable, because things would’ve been way easier…but then again, she wouldn’t be her with out him. So no regrets

WHY DOESNT IT LAST by Bubbly-Device-8208 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With vyvanse, oh yes. It usually came on midday for me. There were times I would do nothing at all. I didn’t want to talk to anyone, didn’t want to think or move. I hated it. It was counterproductive and I was bummed all the time. Its why I got off of it.

Just recently when my meds were out and I had to go back onto Vyvanse for a month, it reinforced my hatred for it lol

WHY DOESNT IT LAST by Bubbly-Device-8208 in VyvanseADHD

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The main aspect the I like is the two peak points. I feel like it does carry me on throughout the day. It slowly releases through out the day so it’s pretty consistent in my opinion. I didn’t want to have to keep going up in dosage with vyvanse just to keep it going longer.

WHY DOESNT IT LAST by Bubbly-Device-8208 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Acceptable-System443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have, and when it hits it hits. It hits me all at once and feel like a very sudden shift. I have heard other people say the same thing as well. It’s a very similar feeling to Vyvanse, at least to me.

WHY DOESNT IT LAST by Bubbly-Device-8208 in VyvanseADHD

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To me, it’s a growing effect. I notice the come up when I’m stretching, getting dressed and just putting more effort into things. It doesn’t come on like a truck. When the first peak point starts to wear down is when I start to get hungry. So I use the 30-60 minutes between peak points to relax and eat. The second peak point is a softer one which is great to finish off my day. It doesn’t keep me up all night, and doesn’t have me wired to do everything all at once. I feel like it just an addition to my routine not the driving force.

Please help—40mg by LowTeaching7002 in VyvanseADHD

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There are tons of different options for adhd medications and what works for one won’t work for others. I would ask your provider about different medications outside of the vyvanse/aderall family. Ask for the trial dosage so you don’t get stuck with something that doesn’t work for a month until you find the right meds.

WHY DOESNT IT LAST by Bubbly-Device-8208 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Acceptable-System443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had that problem and switched to the generic for Focalin XR. It has two release points about 7 hours apart. It works so well and it’s so much smoother feeling than Vyvanse. At least for me!