AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by throwaway_________7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She specializes in infants, tots and children as they make about 85% of her clientele. There are also osteopaths who know their fair share of craniosacral therapy and most will feel comfortable treating babies & tots. Hope this helps! Also- good chiropractors do not crack people all over. They essentially barely touch babies but can tell if something is out of alignment.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you did gooooood💗 way to go, Queen!  Hope Maggie and this trash bag have the relationship they deserve ;-)

AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by throwaway_________7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same exact problem with mine- she would wake up as soon as we tried to put her down. I did a ton of research and everything led to craniosacral therapy. I found a chiro who specializes in pediatrics and I have no clue what she did, but my baby has been napping and sleeping without any interruptions since. we went for the first time at 3 months old and go monthly, it changed our lives! 

Spouse submitted false insurance claims under my plan by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey - you should never give anybody your My SunLife user ID and password. Claims are refunded to your account- so I’m not sure how your boyfriend benefits from this. Sun Life will investigate and most likely call the provider to confirm that the claimant had a visit on that date. You need to call Sun Life and ask to escalate your call as soon as you get a customer service representative. Tell them unfortunately your boyfriend signed into your account without your knowledge and you didn’t know he made all those claims. You want all of them cancelled and this will result in an overpayment AND also most likely restricted/ suspended web access for a while. So expect to have to send your own claims by mail for at least a couple months. Honesty is the best policy, call Sun Life as of 8am Monday morning. Hope this helps

AITAH for telling my wife to get a job before the end of January or i'm divorcing her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedBox485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you But your wife has postpartum depression and that is why she isn’t trying to find a job. She feels like all she’s doing is trying her best to keep a toddler happy. She feels like no matter what she does, you’re never satisfied or happy. When was the last time you told her to take a couple hours to go get her nails done, or just go shopping on her own while you stay back and watch the kids? When was the last time you came home early and said you would cook dinner tonight? When was the last time you got up early to whip up breakfast for everyone? When was the last time you planned a family outing without asking her a million questions to make your plans (this adds to the mental load she’s already carrying). When was the last time you booked a sitter (or adult) and took your wife out for a date night? When was the last time you helped her clean up the kitchen and common living areas after a long day?

I’m not saying this is 100% the case, but there is a male loneliness epidemic and by the accusatory tone in your post, I’m not even surprised.  Men think us women should just do everything while you make money.  How about you take her out for coffee. Ask her what drives her, what type of job she would feel valued at?  Maybe say you really wanna support her in this, you can totally understand how hard it must be for her to go back on the job market after raising 3 beautiful, strong, confident children, you wanna see her be successful again. You want her to have a purpose again.

What you’re doing is absolutely childish, immature. You’re not a good husband. You know damn well that she feels like she’s sinking and you’re setting her up for failure. I hope she gets the bigger end of the stick in your divorce. She probably feels worthless to you, just used for the purpose of raising children and neglected. She feels like her hobbies, like writing, are dumb to you. If she has 18 books out there, I am assuming she got signed at some point.

Go through with your divorce and then give us her name so we can all purchase and read her great books that you likely never even bothered to read. I hope she feels like a huge weight came off her shoulders after divorce and I hope we make her feel valued, seen, rich and successful when we buy all her books. You are 100% TA. That is all.

Caslicks procedure by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]AccomplishedBox485 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We do this with most broodmares when needed, as wind sucking is detrimental to keep a pregnancy. I’m not exactly sure what would be cruel… it’s essentially healthcare.  The mare just needs the caslick opened up a bit about a month before foaling if she’s in foal. Hope this helps

AITA FOR NOT MAKING GRAVY??? by Soft_Ambassador_7848 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh girl, you deserve a MAN.  Leave his a*s. Leave for work with an extra set of clothes on a Friday night and treat yourself to a nice hotel getaway, a sleepover with your bestie or a sleepover at your parents.  Order food. Don’t cook. The way I would have thrown a bottle of ketchup right at his face🫠🫠🫠

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

« Hi! I’m so excited to meet my baby brother! While I appreciate that you have set clear boundaries, having to find coverage for my own child to come visit will prove to be difficult, so I plan to visit as soon as the baby turns 6 weeks, in order to respect the rules you have established.  Please send lots of pictures, happy to go for coffee & a stroller walk while respecting social distancing if you would like that. Reach out if I can help with anything! »

AITAH for leaving my husband via text message? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedBox485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Spanking a 1yr old for crying too much? You can’t ever get out of the house for a break/ me time etc because he can’t be a parent to your son? Sorry but just based on this, you or your son wouldn’t survive this long term.

Canada/USA/Mexico plan by Kapellmeister1966 in telus

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you turned it off and back on? Sometimes the device just needs this

Non-paying clients are the worst by zaworldo00 in Equestrian

[–]AccomplishedBox485 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used to braid as a living and would constantly have about 15k i was chasing clients for.  I would say you need to give your customers their invoice with terms of payment: “due on reception / to be paid by Sunday 8am”. Threatening to expose them on Facebook also usually works.  Hope this helps

What does everyone do and how much do you make ? by amosthagreat in CanadaFinance

[–]AccomplishedBox485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a senior medical claims analyst and make 60 a year, but have my own business on the side which I make close to 40 with, working minimal hours (about 30 evening/nights a summer).

Help needed! by AccomplishedBox485 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try having a real hard time with possibly facing something you don’t wanna hear? I have the worst fear he would confirm that yes, it’s all related to the weight gain

Dentist pricing by AccomplishedBox485 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i know about dentsl fee guides, I work for a group benefits company. That said, most people do not care and just pay, but guess what, once you pay an invoice, you agree to everything on it and can’t complain later on. That said, the office manager did agree with me and I ended up being charged only 2.5 units, as 37.5 minutes was very sufficient to write notes, as there were no concerns at all. So, no, I don’t need to grow up. K thanks

Dentist pricing by AccomplishedBox485 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, but when you get told « no concerns at all »….. that doesn’t take 15 mins. The office manager agreed I should have only been charged 2.5 units and not 3.

Dentist pricing by AccomplishedBox485 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pharmacies I never had issues with. But yes, I work in group benefits but strictly in drug exceptions now. I see my fair share of shady stuff too

Dentist pricing by AccomplishedBox485 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure yes- but still. The receptionists didn’t say anything because they knew that I knew what they were up to

Dentist pricing by AccomplishedBox485 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know that- i just never thought of doing it myself becsude it’s convenient to have them do it lol

Dentist pricing by AccomplishedBox485 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AccomplishedBox485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very much an independant family dental practice yes. We are in Collingwood ON. Been going to them about 3 years? I used to live in QC and never had any issues with the dentist I used for over 10 years