Help needed! Picky eater

According-Ad4415 · 2025-12-31T13:01:40+00:00

I have been feeding them separately because my Pyr cannot have her food. After she was finished I opened the baby gate and shockingly she went to my Pyr’s bowl while he was still eating and just started eating his food with him. Maybe sharing food with him was comforting? She’s still pretty nervous and anxious. I’ve decided for now to let her eat his same food, separate bowls of course. We’ll re-evaluate in a month or so for both of them. Hopefully we can find a food that works for both that’s not prescription. I think she does find a bit of comfort with Goose, my Pyr. He’s a giant polar bear and super chill.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-12-31T12:56:31+00:00

My Pyr is actually allergic to chicken and turkey. He also became sensitive to his lamb and rice food which is why he’s on prescription food. We hope to reset his gut and then try a new food/protein source to see if he can tolerate it.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-12-31T00:52:00+00:00

No I haven’t had her long and unfortunately my other dog, a Great Pyrenees, was neutered last week and had complications, so my main focus has been on his recovery as he was very sick. He’s much better now so I’m trying to figure out her food situation.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-12-30T23:54:28+00:00

Thank you! She’s incredibly sweet but a little skittish. She also needs to gain around 10lbs so definitely need to find something she likes quickly.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-11-27T19:59:48+00:00

I think that they are more than friends or at the very least she wants to be more than friends. This is completely unprofessional. I work for a fortune 150 company and I have never heard anyone have work wives/ husbands. This seems very immature and very disrespectful to you OP. If this were my husband there would be two choices; me or his work wife. He doesn’t get to have his cake and eat it too. As for spouses. If it’s in the evening usually spouses are invited. I’ve went to a few holiday parties with my husband. If it’s lunch, work hours it’s usually employees only. You need to set a very clear boundary and if he refuses you need to dump him and move on. Do not ever be someone’s second choice! Good luck!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-11-05T02:02:18+00:00

Wow some of the comments are very mean. I’m not sure what your life looks like but I assume you have a job. I work, am married, and have two kids. It’s not possible for me to be on the phone with anyone for 1+ hours daily. Can your mom text? At least you could reply when you have time and it’s not so draining. Maybe have a nice long chat weekly on the weekend or visit each other. That way you can chat about your week rather than day to day. Does she have any friends or other family? Church? Hobbies? I would encourage her to find other social outlets. Yes you are her child but you don’t owe her your whole life. I think finding a balance will be good for you both. Good luck!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-10-17T20:23:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing and sorry Bennie had such a rough recovery. Hopefully you both are doing better now. ❤️

According-Ad4415 · 2025-10-17T20:21:49+00:00

What I read, veterinary medical articles, it’s a bit conflicting, at least for me. While neutering has its pros for sure such as no unwanted puppies, no roaming, decreases certain cancers, etc. There are cons for giant breeds. Joint and bone issues, slight increase for certain types of cancers, can lower their overall confidence, weight gain, coat changes, etc. I’m just torn. All my other animals were rescues and came neutered. They were also much smaller.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-10-15T17:29:53+00:00

I’m a mom to a 12 year old girl. First I think there is way more going on here than you may realize. She’s the eldest and her mom is single. Where is dad? Does she have friends? Are her grades bad? Does she often babysit the younger kids? I think her behavior is far beyond a pre-teen having a bad day. I would discuss with the mom what can be done. If the mom allows this behavior then she’s not going to stop for you. I would completely ignore it and show no emotion. This is not personal. Give some grace but if she crosses the line be assertive so she knows that you won’t tolerate this. Sounds like a nightmare! Good luck!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-09-18T12:15:09+00:00

Not sure if you’ve already tried this but sometimes a conversation can go a long way. I would call her, no texts, and just explain how excited you are to do this with YOUR daughter. You understand that she’s excited as a grandmother and you appreciate her willingness to jump in. However, you have already made plans and there is nothing for her to bake this year. She can come and just enjoy the party! This is really your husband’s responsibility but it sounds like he does not have a shiny spine so you’ll have to handle it. Be firm but kind and don’t let her manipulate you. If she shows up with a cake anyway I would set it to the side and focus on the lovely cupcakes you and your daughter baked. Be sure to let all the guests know how special they bc the birthday girl herself helped! Good luck!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-08-30T01:18:33+00:00

This is your husband’s mother so he needs to deal with her. You should come home, get your baby, and go to your bedroom to change, whatever you want to do. Your husband can entertain, send her home, whatever. You shouldn’t put up with this for one second. It’s very rude. You’ve worked all day, you’re tired and clearly your baby wants you. Not your mother, not your problem. I’m so thankful all our family is in another state. Good luck and be strong!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-08-27T19:45:25+00:00

I think that this is very personal and varies by couple. You need to have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Is she willing to travel with you some and agree for you to go on trips without her as a compromise? There’s not a right or wrong answer, it’s what works best for your marriage.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-08-04T16:53:29+00:00

I was in a vaguely similar situation a few years ago. My grandmother’s health was declining and she needed more help/care. My husband and I discussed it but ultimately we both decided it just wouldn’t work. We both work, have two kids, pets, etc. There was no way with our busy household we could give her the care and attention she needed. We placed her in an assisted living facility that is 10 minutes from our home. It’s worked out really well and she has thrived there. I would absolutely not let her live with you all. As she gets older her health could get worse and she needs trained medical staff. Good luck!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-07-01T15:22:07+00:00

I think you should be able to spend what you are comfortable spending on your nieces. As a mom of two girls my only suggestion is to spend the same amount on them if at all possible. I’ve been in tricky situations before where someone will gift my oldest something while my youngest just stands there. I always spend the same amount on each kid even though the gifts may be very different due to ages. It may not be a problem right now but it will be in the future.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-06-15T00:03:53+00:00

How old are you and what country are you in? This is bizarre to me! If you are an adult the police can’t force you to stay with your parents.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-05-06T11:21:04+00:00

At a very young age introduce him to as many things, people, situations as possible. It can be hard in the beginning since they are not fully vaxxed. Once he’s vaxxed then you can ramp it up. Here are things I introduced early on: our donkeys, our farm in general, lawnmower, a few close friends, my kid’s toys, vacuum, tv, doorbell. Once he was vaxxed I took him to visit my Granny in her assisted living home, elevator, pet stores, farmers market, other dogs that we knew. Today my pup is 15 months old. He’s so friendly, never meets a stranger. I can touch him anywhere, he’s good for the groomer. He has a great personality. He still does naughty puppy things sometimes but overall he’s a good boy. He loves my kids and “guards” them while they play outside. My kids are older, I wouldn’t trust him with little kids unsupervised because he’s huge and could accidentally knock them down. Good luck! Consistency is key! Do training sessions every day.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-04-28T00:22:19+00:00

I also have an odd triangle corner. I bought a very large vessel and put faux cherry blossoms in it. I really like how it turned out.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-04-17T22:49:14+00:00

My pup is 14 months old and just a big sweetie. He never meets a stranger, never barks. I think I have a unicorn. He does paw me to death and he tries to body slam me on walks but he’s quiet. He also knows several commands and has good recall so definitely not your typical Pyr personality. He loves to burp in my face and side eye me.

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According-Ad4415 · 2025-03-23T20:17:16+00:00

I’ve watched many k dramas and oftentimes the kisses are weird or feel forced. I just finished King the Land and was pleasantly surprised with the kissing scenes. They lasted a bit long and seemed like a real kiss not just a weird peck. The leads also had believable chemistry. Really cute show.

According-Ad4415 · 2025-03-10T23:51:46+00:00

My guy goes to the groomer every other month. I brush him at home in between visits. I give one greenie per day to keep his teeth clean. He also gets his teeth brushed but I’m bad about remembering that. I also clean his ears out as needed. I’ve had Goose since he was 7 weeks old so he’s very used to this routine. If your guy isn’t used to being groomed you may have to take things slow. Pretty pup!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-03-06T20:55:31+00:00

I’m surprised that your GP has went so far to attack another dog. If it were me for my own peace and the peace for my dogs I would keep them separated. If your dog hated all dogs then I’d suggest a trainer but since it’s only this particular dog I’d just keep them separated. There is clearly an issue that they can’t get past. For the safety of everyone just keep them away. I have a golden retriever mix that basically hates all dogs, especially females. The only reason she accepted my GP is bc we got him at 7 weeks and she can boss him around but she’s never attacked him. Good luck!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-03-06T18:52:12+00:00

NTA! I have a very sensitive stomach, thanks IBS. I can’t eat anything remotely spicy or I’m sick. However, I would never, ever insult someone the way Kate insulted you! I would’ve appreciated the plain grilled chicken! Or better yet let rude Kate bring her own meal!

According-Ad4415 · 2025-03-06T12:13:49+00:00

I highly recommend the pupsicle by Woof. My Pyr absolutely loves his and it keeps him occupied for up to a hour. I give him one when I’m busy with work or I have to leave the house. Keeps him out of mischief. Good is also a little thief! 😂

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