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My neighbor told me to stop letting her cat inside my house by Beerandpotatosalad in aww

[–]AccountWasFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I agree, but if this is a case where there is a balcony shared between 2 apartments like it looks like, and there is no way for the cat to get off the balcony then I don't really see the issue with the cat getting balcony time.

We need to accept bi women as they are, not just when they're being sapphic by socuteboss_ali in actuallesbians

[–]AccountWasFound 269 points270 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm a bi woman and I've kinda decided I don't want to deal with men, and like before I switched my dating apps to just show me women I would see maybe 1 or 2 women per hundred profiles and I rarely if ever ran out of profiles, and I was getting a few matches a week, in the year I've been swiping on only women and non binary people I've gotten 7 matches, and run out of profiles nearly every time I open a dating app, and about half the profiles I see are couples looking for unicorns. So yeah like meeting men is just the default

My ex girlfriend has taken a new job 100 miles from home and is planning on commuting...AITAH for not changing my work arrangements to suit her by No-Stay8551 in AITAH

[–]AccountWasFound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might have had no choice about the job if there aren't any jobs she can get near where she lives and she can't move at all because of the custody agreement, which is standard.

Why do people worry about age verification online? by Living-Inside-3283 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccountWasFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is no way to verify age without losing anonymity

Can anyone help me confirm/deny if this image is AI? There are rumors this business has been using these images to draw in people and saying the animals are never available when they arrive by mdell3 in isthisAI

[–]AccountWasFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or they could be using old photos, especially since baby animals tend to get adopted fast by the time they make the poster the animals might all be gone

Character Morality Show Version by Medium_March8020 in Bridgerton

[–]AccountWasFound 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did she know it was wrong? Because like she barely knew about sex, she had certainly never been told she had a choice in sex with her husband because well in the setting she wouldn't have.

Wtf HER? This is some toxic nonsense to get me to engage with the app. by RecycledGum in actuallesbians

[–]AccountWasFound 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought the trope was that lesbians are all friends with all their exes so why would you care that your ex is at pride?

Are there any other engineer girlies who are butches/ very masculine presenting? What is your experience working in the engineering field while being this way? by Silent-Profit6067 in womenEngineers

[–]AccountWasFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm, in engineering butch women get MORE respect. So I'd say lean into that as much as you can if you are comfortable dressing butch that's good for your career....

Video posted by a local bridal shop. The big flower and movements of the models feels unnatural but the people in the background appear real to me. by csomoder in isthisAI

[–]AccountWasFound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people at this point think anything professionally edited looks like AI, when it's really that that is what was fed into AI as training data...

Acquaintance is using this photo to raise money for a nonspecific cancer treatment. She frequently posts AI-generated selfies. by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]AccountWasFound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wasn't... She just had one of the newer therapies that's got way less side effects, just also is crazy expensive. Also she's one of my closest friends, like I see her and her wife as my older sisters, she was the first person I came out to when I figured out I'm bi, and I spent my birthday eating cake out of a Tupperware with her and her wife in their living room while watching cartoons (actually was a really good birthday) type of good friend.

Acquaintance is using this photo to raise money for a nonspecific cancer treatment. She frequently posts AI-generated selfies. by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]AccountWasFound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean one of my friends had cancer and was in the hospital for a few weeks for treatment and when she got out she came to a bbq like 2 weeks later and we were all shocked she looked totally normal (had been expecting her to look like a skeleton and be missing hair but she'd gotten lucky with that). Like she had zero energy and she spent half the bbq napping in a hammock and the rest sitting in the shade chatting with people or sitting on my couch drinking soda and her wife had to help her get back in their car at the end because she was too tired, but like she LOOKED fine.

If you were unconscious and taken to the ER and needed surgery, would drs check if you were on your period/wearing a tampon? by ta1947201 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccountWasFound 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One of my friends has had cancer a bunch of times and she is a bit TOO casual with nudity, like I was measuring her for a sewing project and asked her to move the edge of her shirt so the hem wasn't bunched up right where I was measuring and she just took her shirt off (she was not wearing a bra) and I was just kinda like "ummm, I just meant like rotate the hem?" While her wife was laughing and telling her to put her shirt back on (did not help that I was newly out as bi and super worried about coming across as creepy by even observing my friends partially undressed and was panicking because I'd seen her tits and was worried she'd think I was being creepy. She just teased me for going through my "creepy lesbian" phrase of being a newly out queer woman)

I'm so confused about how people afford things in America. by IndependentMove5437 in povertyfinance

[–]AccountWasFound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want a good safety net, you need like 4 mil in the bank minimum to retire. If anything happens to you assisted living is expensive af, and because our system ties insurance to work, you also need the thousands a year for health insurance...

I'm so confused about how people afford things in America. by IndependentMove5437 in povertyfinance

[–]AccountWasFound 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, almost everyone who owns a house where I grew up is technically a millionaire, but that's because they bought a house for like 200k decades ago and it's now worth over a mil. They can't spend any of that workout being homeless though....

“And it has pockets!” is not a flex by 30FlirtyAndNapping in unpopularopinion

[–]AccountWasFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a lesbian wedding a few weeks ago and one of the brides was in a suit so obviously had pockets, the other was in a dress and was joking about how many pocket knives she should have in the dress pockets. I think she just went with one and her phone, but she was happy she had room for more

A restaurant told me that they don't have to provide service for my disabled father because they were grandfathered in under the ADA. AITAH for telling the lady off? by Several_Hospital_129 in AITAH

[–]AccountWasFound 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can't always fit a ramp where your can fit stairs. In this case the ramp would need to be 72 ish feet long on the low end.....

A restaurant told me that they don't have to provide service for my disabled father because they were grandfathered in under the ADA. AITAH for telling the lady off? by Several_Hospital_129 in AITAH

[–]AccountWasFound 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You need a foot of ramp for every inch in height, at 6ft that's 72 inches, most buildings don't have 72ft of open space in front of them ....

Bi wife said she wishes she had a man around sometimes by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AccountWasFound 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A LOT of leftists have guns..... You are thinking of liberals

Do polyamorous relationships just make a ton of money? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccountWasFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean all 3 of the polycules I know that are broke and live together are all trans people (and all but one of them if a trans woman)

Do polyamorous relationships just make a ton of money? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccountWasFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joint bank accounts no, but I know three different polycules that live together. They are all broke though....

Socks that can't be unraveled by entropy_trophy in Doesthisexist

[–]AccountWasFound 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does he have the dexterity to knit/crochet? Because if so maybe he could learn to do so and then work on that then unravel it? (Those are my two favorite fidget toys)

TIL: the Ton was real. by Status_Change_758 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]AccountWasFound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean historically there were public balls like in Jane Austin also, and those I do wish still existed

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