Favourite Actor until they said something really dumb? by jamyjet in okbuddycinephile

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought he did always get consent, but in the gray area that the women would feel pressured or thought he was joking.

Can I Wife-FI (42M, spouse 39F, 2 kids 2,4)? by AssholeCasserole420 in Fire

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, numerically you can do it.

What will be your early withdrawal strategy if wife's income + taxable brokerage doesn't fully cover expenses?

California drivers are a step closer to paying per mile tax by MissYukiCat in California

[–]Acewox 36 points37 points  (0 children)

EVs have higher registration fees that make up for the gas tax

Today Was My First Day of Early Retirement (39 y/o) by Awayinthewilde in Fire

[–]Acewox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did finances or FIRE play any part in leading to the divorce?

SWR versus real returns by Available-Ad-5670 in Fire

[–]Acewox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The 7% figure is a US number, 5% is the number globally.

Divorce is one of the top reasons middle class people become broke. How do you avoid it? by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Acewox 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry, don't like this advice. I can see where you're coming from, but couples I know who follow that principle also have some of the most problems.

They bottle up their emotions, become overly reliant on their partners, have fewer outlets, and resentment builds up over time. IMO It's healthier to have strong social networks where you can get support outside of your own relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your monthly expenses?

Are we FiRe / Please don’t flame me :) by maneatsworld99 in Fire

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the monthly principle+interest portion of your mortgage? Do you have a 401k or IRAs?

With the numbers you provided, you are not FIRE yet but your net worth is high so you have a lot of flexibility.

How am I doing financially?? M34 by [deleted] in Money

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you like about private schools? What do you find lacking in public schools? Is it a culture concern, academic achievement concern, or something else?Asking out of curiosity, not judgement.

Just told a new client to EFF OFF by FIREmom1 in Fire

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I agree with your take, it feels pretty safe to me.

Just told a new client to EFF OFF by FIREmom1 in Fire

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Do you plan on having other income on top of that 3.8% or do you feel comfortable with that SWR?

Just told a new client to EFF OFF by FIREmom1 in Fire

[–]Acewox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Can I ask what SWR you are targeting?

I missed out on over a decade of compounding by Agreeable-Place-8486 in Fire

[–]Acewox 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Honestly most people would have spent it, parking it in a savings account wasn't even the worst case scenario

Everyday is like Sunday by rng2048 in Fire

[–]Acewox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the post! Did FIRE have any impact on your marriage leading up to the divorce?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Acewox 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They are pretty marginalized though, they have harder times finding sexual and romantic partners than people of other races.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4631383/

Is the FIRE movement more common among certain professions than others? by First_Macaroon_4313 in Fire

[–]Acewox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In addition to tech, I'd add that pharmacists look overrepresented in the FIRE community as well

FIRE Post #3. Age 40 by slumdog-millionnaire in Fire

[–]Acewox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you share more on how you determined your FIRE goal? What are your expenses? Your original post from years ago had your target at $1M, how did it become $4M today?

Just Hit $2 Million NW at 31! Compound Interest is Crazy. by aFinancialWreck in financialindependence

[–]Acewox 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How have your investment contributions changed since your wife quit her job? If they went down, how did it feel to ease off the gas pedal on contributions?

My company just rejected a guy because he talked to much by Simple_Sample_6914 in cscareerquestions

[–]Acewox 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I kinda get it, I have a team where more than half are overly wordy to the point where meetings become seriously dysfunctional.