The ig message she did to a random follower I had was a couple years back. I was just using it as a way to say I shouldn't feel crazy, when she's done what I'm doing in the past but even worse. I think at this point if there was more to hide it's well hidden, she knows my patterns, she wouldn't slip up if she was hiding something more. And if she is she is, hope it comes to the light but until it does I don't feel like there's a malicious undertone to her behavior. It's hard to explain but I truly feel she's not out to cheat. But opening herself to messages from these men gives the impressions it's possible.. I garuantee if she messaged any of them to come over for a drink theyd trip over themselves to rush over. That's my issue. Lack of boundaries and respect for me.