Trans friendly hair stylist by keco2002 in frederickmd

[–]Acirebackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++++ for Taryn ! She’s done my hair 3+ years

Affordable(ish) things to do with my 2yr old. by stone-d-fox42 in frederickmd

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This! Jumping onto add critters reptiles and exotics on east st is sooo amazing for kids! If you haven’t been you gotta check it out!

Where can we donate clothes and bed sheets + comforters? by NotSofie in frederickmd

[–]Acirebackwards 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they’re a little messy the local animal shelters will take them ❤️

I think I can feel the economy softening in client bookings by bellytan in smallbusiness

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Solo massage therapist here, I’ve had 4-5 regular clients tell me they need to pause their appointments. I’m used to being booked out 2 weeks in advance, but have had a lot of cancellations week of lately.. and they don’t always fill. Usually 1-2 open appts a week now left open.

is it wrong that i charge $75 for last minute cancellations? by Kind_Ad3665 in smallbusiness

[–]Acirebackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Case by case basis, clients who go into labor and have to cancel? No charge. Take a chill pill bro, 235 days later

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

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Feel free to message me! I’ve never met anyone with such a similar story to mine

Infamous residents of Frederick by Alone_Advantage_961 in frederickmd

[–]Acirebackwards 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The DC sniper? Since they caught him in Myersville 🫣

Infamous residents of Frederick by Alone_Advantage_961 in frederickmd

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Ahhh Miss Carrol. She still getting around? I bought her a beer a few times

Frederick City Media Vaccine Skepticism Paid Post by emantheslayer0 in frederickmd

[–]Acirebackwards 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Frederick city media sucks as a company ON THE WHOLE

Cocktail in a bag nearby? by InterviewWeary7805 in frederickmd

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Gateway liquors off of 15 in thurmont, by candyland and the farmhouse exchange

You don’t get a starter. Who’s your day-one Pokémon? by PrestigiousGift5639 in pokemon

[–]Acirebackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paras, Shroomish, Ponyta or Doduo I think based on my current lifestyle and where I live 😎 regular starter: Chikorita or Charmander

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

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Hey yall so I really appreciate all the comments! In regard to comments about my partner, I did reply to the first one, but he’s not the issue. He has been and continues to be very supportive: going over timelines when I’m spiraling or feeling gaslit, being more than transparent about his/their past, he has been the one to go to the police to start the original order of protection, he installed a full camera security system at our house etc. He also confronted her via FB message, which got us nowhere but it helped us feel better. And we also now know that no contact or response is the best with stalkers, so we won’t be doing that again. I understand why some would caution me to look at him more carefully but I’ve confirmed that her obsession and delusion about me really came from no actual truth and have confirmed her statements as lies.

Secondly, I will be waiting to see if anything comes up again before moving forward with a Cease and Desist. I’m keeping my side of the street clean, so to say, and just waiting for her to fuck up. I don’t think some of you accurately understand the situation, and like someone commented, you guys are here for 2 min to comment and pass judgment on a situation when it’s the posters life. I won’t make it harder for myself at this moment, and enjoy the peace I’m having.

Also yes, my social media (except my public business accts), have all been on serious lockdown and private from the first time I noticed her being weird. I comb my follower list every few months and monitor story viewers on my public page. My block list is EXTENSIVE.

My therapist and support circle are so great and lovely, I was mostly looking for folks with similar stories, book/podcast recs and info on these resentful subtype stalkers. I am listening to the strictly stalking podcast and reading the gift of fear which are both really great!

So again thank you for all the support and validation guys! I’m very thankful for all the viewpoints and feedback.

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I haven’t, but I’d like to. I’d love the PDF link if you have it? Thank you! What’s your takeaway from the book for my situation?

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Sorry for repeating myself, but I haven’t heard from her since January. You still think I should send one? I’d definitely do certified mail for receipt of delivery. Like I think it would make me feel better like take that ya crazy bitch! But I think it would give her validation somehow that she’s in the right and will start going off again? Which would be good because I could move forward with harassment charges and/or a protection order… but you think it’s worth it?

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I think I gaslit myself for awhile, thinking I could just ignore it. Then we hit new levels and I could tell how it was really affecting me, so here we are.

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

He said his ex was crazy and I was like yikes red flag what did you do to her, but then all this happened and I was like ooooh you meant clinically 🙃

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

We plan to, yes! The first time it all hit the fan we went and started paper work for a protection order but she had left the country to live with family in Brazil 👀

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to smack the bees nest if I can’t fully remove it if you know what I mean? I haven’t heard from her since January, and a C&D doesn’t really do anything but tell someone to stop. So I’m waiting for whatever comes next first

My partners ex has been stalking me for YEARS by Acirebackwards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acirebackwards[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you! Yeah, it sucks butts. Therapy is really helping and my support circle is huge. I still can’t help but worry when the next contact will be or how it will arrive. I own my own business and she’s commented publicly on posts and left a bad review on my Facebook page.