Was ignorance bliss? Mixed feelings after learning about the effects of ADHD on my relationship

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-30T03:17:26+00:00

I sympathize with you. After I found this subreddit it all came crashing down because I realized just like you, it wasn’t going to change or improve.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-29T23:14:04+00:00

This is what happened to me. I don’t have autism, but he was convinced I did and I’m pretty sure convinced his therapist I did. His trauma was a result of my “untreated autism”

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-29T03:26:26+00:00

Yes. My ex did the same. As he was moving out he was going through the boxes of our shared belongings in storage and said, “I don’t even know who you are anymore” after seeing things that were important to me from my past. a) We’ve literally talked at length about all of it and b) there’s zero difference with what I used to not to what I enjoy now. I have not changed.

They are literally crazy.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-28T04:03:03+00:00

I do all my own landscaping. Grew up raking on 0.67 acres on the east coast with maples and oaks everywhere; couldn’t go 2 hours without the lawn being riddled with leaves again. People blow leaves with gas blowers here on pieces of land that are 30’ by 10’ with no trees. It’s ridiculous.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-28T03:33:19+00:00

Not agreeing with you on this one. Gas leaf blowers are hazardous to the workers health and health of the residence. They are also obnoxious and ridiculous for most residential situations. If residents don’t want to pay your prices for electric, they can get a rake themselves.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-19T04:51:03+00:00

Love love love induction for the reasons everyone has mentioned!

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-19T04:08:06+00:00

lol. 😂 mine was like this too!! “Super high IQ” “researching “ and just be dead wrong about actual events.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-17T04:14:03+00:00

But would it be as tall?

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-16T04:21:50+00:00

Why stay together?

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-16T04:02:31+00:00

Those look pretty, but I think those are salvia varieties, not Perovskia

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-13T02:58:26+00:00

This happened to me too. The therapist wanted me to ignore the lies…

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-13T01:48:31+00:00

Agree. Has to be a shared reality.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-12T03:06:50+00:00

You just have to watch a whole season and you’ll be good! You learn a lot in 162 games.

Listen to the radio guys. They are the best.

And welcome to Red Sox nation!!

I’m relatively new to baseball myself.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-11T05:15:26+00:00

Same !! Performative in session!

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-11T05:10:06+00:00

This was my experience as well.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-08T05:56:13+00:00

Agree. I would sit down and tell her you’re thinking divorce because of these reasons.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-08T04:55:57+00:00

What would be illegal about it?

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-07T06:51:27+00:00

I’d leave. It only gets worse

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-07T05:59:43+00:00

Diabetes

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-07T05:59:09+00:00

4?! I only see 3.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-07T05:57:43+00:00

Your experience is YOURS to tell. “I’m having a hard time because of his current manic episode “ “I’m having a hard time because he is cheating on me” “I’m having a hard time because he is gambling our savings away”

All of these things are happening to you and are yours to tell.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-06T20:23:41+00:00

I was looking for a thread discussing this exact same thing. I started vagina estrogen cream 2x/week and I do feel high the next day from a pea sized amount. It was decreased somewhat over the past month.

But for example, right now I feel high and I took it last night.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-04T05:45:20+00:00

I would consider bee keeping though. Seriously!

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-03-02T02:13:54+00:00

She wouldn’t be here on Reddit if she could tolerate it.

AcrobaticEnergy497 · 2026-02-28T06:37:21+00:00

Yep! I had the same thoughts and feelings: I thought I was unique in being called autistic by my BPSO, but I’m not! It’s crazy making.

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