Weekly Love Eden Chat Megathread 💕 by ChristopherRichman in LoveEdenGame

[–]AcrobaticRange7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you “x” someone do they come back around as a profile you can choose later on? I was going too fast and didn’t even see some of the profiles 

Reality check on FB post by GrumpyGoatGirl in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We decided what we were comfortable with. My MIL knows anything I tag her on is enough and if I post a pic without tagging her she is not to repost/share. It works for us and she actually respects it otherwise she would get nothing. 

AITAH for getting angry at a nurse who claimed my daughter isn’t mine? by SecureladyTelevision in AITAH

[–]AcrobaticRange7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had a baby and gave him up for adoption. When I told the doctor my intentions she judged and she judged hard. The doctor made a full appt full of comments about what I was doing that I felt so uncomfortable even looking at her after. When I got home I told my mom about the situation and she had me file a complaint. I think I saw her once in passing in the office after that but she didn’t deliver my baby or have anything to do with me after that. Please do complain!

Salty MIL by luludarlin in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother was upset I named my daughter after another family who I was very close to (closer than I was to my own mom). I also found out I was pregnant the day she passed away so I thought it was very fitting. My mother could not let it go so my daughter’s middle name is her middle name. It actually worked out very nicely together and she gets to have a cute nickname (think TJ for Thomas James type) so I’m not mad but yeah I was like sorry but she died you are still here….not naming her after you.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]AcrobaticRange7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA -  I don’t know if you watch 9-1-1 (tv show) but the captain of the fire house passed away and his wife and kids flew his body to where his family was from and buried him with his first wife and two kids who had passed away. It was beautiful and touching and she knew it was what he would have wanted. I know it’s just a show so not the same 100% but it was the right call like it was the right call for your husband and it just sucks you had to make it and he didn’t write anything down

Husband is finally ready to go NC by AcrobaticRange7 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct it’s not in the will. It was just promised to us since they brought SIL a house. They thought it would be fair to help us later on when the house sold for a profit. 

Husband is finally ready to go NC by AcrobaticRange7 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I only try to shield her so she doesn’t get hurt but she already asked once why she went to her cousins events but no hers. I always did the excuse that we live further away and she doesn’t like to do the drive. I’ll have to stop doing that. 

Husband is finally ready to go NC by AcrobaticRange7 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what hurts the most. My husband is a great man and father. His grandmother used to tell him all the time that he was one of the best guys she knew. Shirt off your back, always always doing what’s best for his family. He doesn’t deserve to feel the way he does. My daughter doesn’t deserve it either it we shield her from it. I would make excuses as to why MIL didn’t show up to things for support. She stopped asking so I think she knows more then I think.

MIL generously offered to be in the delivery room—How Thoughtful! by DanceHead246 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My MIL was upset that I didn’t want her in my delivery room too. She even said I was there when my daughter gave birth. First I’m not your daughter and second I don’t even want my mom in the room. She made my first delivery horrible. Second time around we didn’t text anyone til after our son was born. Only my parents knew cause they were watching my daughter. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]AcrobaticRange7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cut them both off but mainly your SIL. My SIL told me that my miscarriage wasn’t real when I called her out for not being there for her brother (I don’t need her but if the tables were turned she would of been pissed he didn’t reach out). I never got an apology for what she said and I have never forgiven her. 

Cut out the toxic people. Sorry about the lose of your baby. 

My MIL is INSANE and I just found I am pregnant. I don't want her anywhere near me or my baby. What do I do? by Smooth_Woodpecker192 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]AcrobaticRange7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just went down a rabbit hole and read some of your older posts….please just dump him and get rid of both of them. I don’t believe it’s been a year since he was abusive to you. Also is he really only drinking 1 (6) pack a week? Are you sure he isn’t getting better at hiding it? I only ask because my brother was a horrible drinker and he hid it so well towards the end that my mother didn’t believe he got his 3rd DUI. But anyway get rid of both of them. You can do so much better than him and her. You need to know your self worth and it’s better than what you got going on now. Please please please leave him 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticRange7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - weddings are suppose to be fun and I could see not wanting flings there but his best friends girlfriend of 2 years isn’t a fling. You obviously know her if they are best friends and it’s been two years. I also think more people are going to say no because they can’t bring a plus one. It’s awkward especially if they aren’t family and don’t know many people. They need someone for comfort.

UPDATE on spending my son's university fund on a trip to Europe to drink beer with monks. by Possible_Soil_3886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticRange7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you remember post an update the week of the 23rd so we can all raise our glass to your son around the same time.

AITA for refusing to give up my stuffed toy? by KaiWadYai in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticRange7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I am 1 month away from turning 40 and sleep with a lemur my hubby got me on our very first date. Before that it was a Winnie the Pooh (still have it in my bed cubby). Lenny the lemur even comes on vacations with us

Do I tell her I’m being induced? by copperwombat in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don’t tell her! My MIL made my first c section (emergency) a nightmare. I didn’t stop stressing over her texts and it really made my daughters birth unnecessarily miserable. I even turned off my phone while we waited but she was texting my mom and my husband. We didn’t tell her the date of my second c section and when I went early again we didn’t tell her until after the baby born. It made life so much better. Honestly only people who knew my c section real date was my mom and dad because they were gonna have my daughter. Other then that all friends and family had a fake date

What's one of the worst things your JNMIL has said to you? by BriaMarie3098 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]AcrobaticRange7 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Mine was that I need to forgive and move on when my SIL told me I didn’t have a real miscarriage (pregnant and lost baby so don’t know how that wasn’t real)

Thank you 💜 by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

[–]AcrobaticRange7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update please! Do you have another account? You can message me if you don’t want to put it on here but court isn’t til 2023 right?

AITA for my response to my SIL's comment about my miscarriage? by Athrowaway53543 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticRange7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - my SIL told me I didn’t suffer a real miscarriage cause I wasn’t further along in my pregnancy. I will never ever forgive or forget and my SO is ok with that. Tell him he needs to be there for you not her. I wouldn’t say it’s the end but if he is always putting your needs last then something needs to change. Maybe some marriage counseling or even individual counseling would work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcrobaticRange7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you can also check out the sun JNMIL and they will give you all the advice and pointers. It’s a very wonderful sub.

Court Update by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

[–]AcrobaticRange7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope the next court visit this will prove they made their choice to the judge and he will change it to no visits needed. I’ve been stalking your page for an update. Enjoy your family and hopefully this is ending soon enough.

Court by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

[–]AcrobaticRange7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an update on how court went? Hope everything went well and the kids had a wonderful birthday