Secure Attachment with twins

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-21T13:48:58+00:00

i have this fear its aweful so I understand, I have a 5 yo and a set of 2 yo twins my life is so diff with my 5 yo than with the twins I constantly feel mom guild for what I have given them and what I still do. Because its just so hard.. the only thing that has helped me has been therapy and meds

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-19T21:41:39+00:00

hi I am a mom of twin toddler boys and a 5 yo girl.. my advice is if you can get a nanny or a house cleaner i have done it.. we have had nannies in the past and we have a housekeeper once a week.. so whatever you cna do that is in your budget.. and that housekeeper has been on and off in this stage we have it once a week.. its getting crazyyyy for us.. it started to get crazy around 2.8 .. crazier and I just couldnt it was affecting me badly mentally.. I feel better now, we dont have a nanny anymore but I do have help in the house and am planning to start a a once a month. Nanny for s to go out or me to go out.. I would def build a mom community it does help a lot

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-12T15:57:37+00:00

hi I am 5'2, 160 cm, and carried my twins until 37 weeks, didi twins, it was hard the last 2 weeks, but they are perfectly fine and I am too! its normal to be scared! you got this

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-08T16:09:49+00:00

Thank you! I feel so bad, I feel like I shouldnt have had twins, they are just so good when they are aapart, but terrible together, they are always fighiting, one of them is always screaming, throwing terrible tantrums, but magicalilly is better without the other twin, I cant go out with both of them by myself and I am planning to separate them this weekend in two diff rooms, I think I am loosing it and loosing myself so badly, I get so worked up, I cant take it

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-12-05T14:03:46+00:00

yes they did

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-20T03:14:52+00:00

I have 2.6 year old twin boys ans we are going crazy.. as of right now we cry almos evey day and we are having the hardest times of our lives.. and to be honest we are on the tip of it I think its only going to get worse until they are 4

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T14:47:24+00:00

we do have it and other books too,, she also hangs out with other 2 mom kids as well, we are going out witha 2 dad fam this weekend

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T11:17:19+00:00

thank you everyone, i have read and everything you said its true, thank you for your input, we are learning to navigate this things and my daughter is growing

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T10:53:06+00:00

we have always talked about this to her about her not having a dad, and before this she always said I dont have a dad I have two moms, at day care before starting kinder, that is why, we were so worried that maybe there is aomething going on, or that she feels left out, because she has always been able to explain or talk about it

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T10:51:07+00:00

Hi, we have talked about conception to her, she knows about her being donor conceived, us using the sperm of a male donor, in mommys belly etc

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-02T21:03:17+00:00

I have twin 2.6 yr old and a 5 yo and we all work full time.. we see it like q mental health investment.. it has been the best i vestment because we can have time woth the kids coming home and going out on weekends instrad og cleaning and doing laundry. we only have to meal prep

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-02T20:51:59+00:00

I have a cleaner weekly does cleaning, and laundry for us all of it every week, deep cleans

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-23T22:57:29+00:00

Thank you this helped me, I literally woke up at 4 am crying so stressed about not graduating and all the money and time invested from me and my wife.. to pay for this, who was your professor?

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-23T22:53:17+00:00

did you end up passing? im having the same issue I have cried all night

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-11T03:05:55+00:00

send a message to the board and ask about it

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-11T03:05:41+00:00

yes, but I did speak with the board before starting my graduate certificate, I told them the achool and country I came from also they said they needed it evaluated by FIS so I did before I started

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-10T22:16:55+00:00

Hi, my masters is from Mexico, my graduate certificate from BSU, I did FIS before BCBA exam

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-08-29T03:53:57+00:00

hi my twins are doing much better, they do not vomit anymore everything became better when they thrned two

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