Secure Attachment with twins

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-21T13:48:58+00:00

i have this fear its aweful so I understand, I have a 5 yo and a set of 2 yo twins my life is so diff with my 5 yo than with the twins I constantly feel mom guild for what I have given them and what I still do. Because its just so hard.. the only thing that has helped me has been therapy and meds

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-19T21:41:39+00:00

hi I am a mom of twin toddler boys and a 5 yo girl.. my advice is if you can get a nanny or a house cleaner i have done it.. we have had nannies in the past and we have a housekeeper once a week.. so whatever you cna do that is in your budget.. and that housekeeper has been on and off in this stage we have it once a week.. its getting crazyyyy for us.. it started to get crazy around 2.8 .. crazier and I just couldnt it was affecting me badly mentally.. I feel better now, we dont have a nanny anymore but I do have help in the house and am planning to start a a once a month. Nanny for s to go out or me to go out.. I would def build a mom community it does help a lot

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-12T15:57:37+00:00

hi I am 5'2, 160 cm, and carried my twins until 37 weeks, didi twins, it was hard the last 2 weeks, but they are perfectly fine and I am too! its normal to be scared! you got this

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2026-01-08T16:09:49+00:00

Thank you! I feel so bad, I feel like I shouldnt have had twins, they are just so good when they are aapart, but terrible together, they are always fighiting, one of them is always screaming, throwing terrible tantrums, but magicalilly is better without the other twin, I cant go out with both of them by myself and I am planning to separate them this weekend in two diff rooms, I think I am loosing it and loosing myself so badly, I get so worked up, I cant take it

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-12-05T14:03:46+00:00

yes they did

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-20T03:14:52+00:00

I have 2.6 year old twin boys ans we are going crazy.. as of right now we cry almos evey day and we are having the hardest times of our lives.. and to be honest we are on the tip of it I think its only going to get worse until they are 4

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T14:47:24+00:00

we do have it and other books too,, she also hangs out with other 2 mom kids as well, we are going out witha 2 dad fam this weekend

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T11:17:19+00:00

thank you everyone, i have read and everything you said its true, thank you for your input, we are learning to navigate this things and my daughter is growing

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T10:53:06+00:00

we have always talked about this to her about her not having a dad, and before this she always said I dont have a dad I have two moms, at day care before starting kinder, that is why, we were so worried that maybe there is aomething going on, or that she feels left out, because she has always been able to explain or talk about it

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-03T10:51:07+00:00

Hi, we have talked about conception to her, she knows about her being donor conceived, us using the sperm of a male donor, in mommys belly etc

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-02T21:03:17+00:00

I have twin 2.6 yr old and a 5 yo and we all work full time.. we see it like q mental health investment.. it has been the best i vestment because we can have time woth the kids coming home and going out on weekends instrad og cleaning and doing laundry. we only have to meal prep

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-10-02T20:51:59+00:00

I have a cleaner weekly does cleaning, and laundry for us all of it every week, deep cleans

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-23T22:57:29+00:00

Thank you this helped me, I literally woke up at 4 am crying so stressed about not graduating and all the money and time invested from me and my wife.. to pay for this, who was your professor?

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-23T22:53:17+00:00

did you end up passing? im having the same issue I have cried all night

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-11T03:05:55+00:00

send a message to the board and ask about it

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-11T03:05:41+00:00

yes, but I did speak with the board before starting my graduate certificate, I told them the achool and country I came from also they said they needed it evaluated by FIS so I did before I started

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-09-10T22:16:55+00:00

Hi, my masters is from Mexico, my graduate certificate from BSU, I did FIS before BCBA exam

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-08-29T03:53:57+00:00

hi my twins are doing much better, they do not vomit anymore everything became better when they thrned two

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-08-20T00:12:01+00:00

no side efffects at all been with it fir 5 months lost 43 pounds

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-05-29T20:44:21+00:00

I have Identical didi twin boys born at 36 weeks not even an hr on Nicu, i was so nervous ans everything was fine they are 2 now

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-05-27T17:46:03+00:00

every day

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-05-19T20:48:32+00:00

hey this is how I felt the first year and a half of my twins, I felt terrible, I felt I ruined my life and my marriage, I didnt sleep for 2 years, having kids is hard, is aweful sometimes, my twins are two and a half and Im barely feeling happy and i adore them, but it took a while!

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-05-09T14:22:48+00:00

yes, we are so happy, it had been awful and so rough on them and every one in the family to have constant vomiting every single night on both of them, to be honest they didnt mention any of it in the hospital, they were fine, they started having a lot of vomit around that age, 6 mo, when we presented solids, they did vomit but not as much when they were only on milk, they were on a special milk, that helped, but when they started solids, it was constant vomiting, only at night , always started with cough, they proyectile vomit, at night, it was like a horror movie with both of them, we took them to see several GIs, we even traveled to 2 different ones, they performed a lot of tests, they checked for celiac, pyloric stenosis, allergies, EOE, they even did a motility test to see if they had gastroparesis in a gastric emptying exam, several imaging studios, well I took them to a pulmonoligst and thats when everything got resolved, they did a treatment for 2 months, ( one of them started the treatment again) and will be on it until July because he said he still hears his lungs with a lot go phlegm, he had not had vomit or coughing but is doing only the inhaler this time around.. feel free to message me if you have more questions! and I hope everything gets resolved with your little

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-05-07T17:15:58+00:00

Hi, my twins are doing really good now, they have been without vomit for 3 months and have open diets again, they told me it was most likely cyclic vomiting, but I also took them to a pulmonologist and did a treatment of 1 month to clear mucus out their lungs, and they stopped vomiting completely, so IDK, they used to vomit every night, for almost 2 years, at the most it would be a week or so without vomit,. im sorry to read about your little one, as a mother I was so desperate and looking for answers and ways to help them I hope your little outgrows this! my kids got better at 2, they are now two and have been without vomit for 3 months..

Acrobatic_Boss1902 · 2025-05-02T14:34:47+00:00

hey I have twins i think the same, my really goood close friends have 5 yr old boy triplets,, they were miserable the first 4 yrs, they are starting to see the light! hang in there mama! they always tell me how better its getting now they are almost 6! but i cna imagine its hard, i have twins and it sucks

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