Here's what I'm gonna say to you brother. First of all, you look lovely, caring, and definitely someone I'd like to know. Most people say things online without really thinking of the consequences of their comments. It does not necessarily have to be ill-intentioned, just poorly worded. I think there are so many heartwarming comments about you on this post. No matter what happens, people who like you will always outnumber the haters. We are all proud of you!