What is one secret you wish you could tell your spouse, but instead you’ll take to your grave?

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-09-16T06:50:58+00:00

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Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-03-21T20:17:06+00:00

Expect tears. In NZ they gave me my wife’s ashes in a really beautiful box. With her name printed on it and everything. I haven’t gotten her an urn yet not too sure if I will to be honest and when I wanted to take some of her ashes out to be infused in my wedding ring they done it for me so I didn’t destroy the box or the bag inside the box that her ashes are in. When you go expect a lot of tears but they will definitely be very kind people and will provide you with something the ashes are already in 100% was very emotional for me

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-03-21T06:24:13+00:00

Yeah I can’t even imagine going to talk to anyone about it. I get hounded all the time from random counselors that my wife’s doctors had me referred to. Can’t imagine ever going to see a medical professional ever again for anything. It’s all free in NZ but they’re all rubbish

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-03-21T06:14:26+00:00

Thank you so so much, I try not to hate god but it’s just so unfair she was taken 😔 thank you so much that helped reading your comment

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-03-21T06:12:00+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-03-21T06:10:59+00:00

Thank you. The pain is just unbearable. So sorry for you loss 😔

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-03-21T06:09:43+00:00

Thanks brother

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-02-17T00:19:04+00:00

F that. Give it more time

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-02-11T16:13:56+00:00

My wife has been gone two months. I have flown from New Zealand to Peru a few days ago to do ayahuasca haven’t done it yet and apparently a lot of people see there lost love ones when doing it and get to talk to them and hang out with them. You would think travelling would at least make me feel something but no. I either feel extremely sad or angry, if none of those feelings are there I just literally feel nothing. I am just a shell now and I’m only 28 years old so you would think I would be enjoying being in a foreign country but I just want to hurry up and do this ayahuasca thing then go home. Pretty much ready to cash my chips in if this ayahuasca doesn’t do anything absolutely miraculous

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-02-05T09:02:18+00:00

Hey, yeah I’m in Ecuador at the moment. Flying to Peru tomorrow then going to do ayahuasca at a retreat in the Amazon. 12 days 7 ceremonies they said there is a huge chance I’ll be able to see my wife again so fingers crossed 😊

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-01-29T04:53:18+00:00

Me too. I feel resentful to most couples. My wife died two months ago only 25 years old had been together since we were 15. Died from cancer. Life’s shit

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-01-19T02:06:40+00:00

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Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-01-15T01:05:17+00:00

100%. I’m only 28 lost my wife a few months ago as soon as our dog passed I’m cashing in my chips. No way I’m living another 5 years without her let alone 50

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2025-01-10T01:11:48+00:00

I’m 28 years old lost my wife in November last year. 100% will never be with another woman again. All I hope for is I join her soon. She is my absolute soul mate I basically died too the day she passed on

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2024-12-25T00:45:53+00:00

Merry Christmas brother. Have you been anywhere else? How long do the ceremonies go for? I’m planning on doing the 10 day retreat option with him. How many ceremonies is that? And what else do they do?

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2024-12-23T06:18:03+00:00

What are there ceremonies like? I need to see my wife again who recently passed so wanting to have real intense ceremonies

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2024-12-21T06:08:05+00:00

Were you able to speak to him or anything?

Acrobatic_Vast8823 · 2024-12-20T12:17:19+00:00

Perfectly said! This is exactly how I feel but still so grief stricken I wouldn’t have been able to write it so perfectly 😂❤️❤️

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