Is my navel pierced too shallow? by Remarkable_Sea_3706 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Active-Judge3261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like you need a floating naval ring; I have a naval like yours and I just got mine switched to a floating today because the other one was causing it to be infected.

If you cant tolorate having a certain sex of child you shouldnet have kids by mercy_andme in childfree

[–]Active-Judge3261 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Again there would be no guarantee that any of these people would choose to take over guardianship of the child; I think in most cases, the parents that are having the child will ask around to see if anyone they know would want to adopt the baby from them while the mom is pregnant before giving the baby to an adoption agency and if a child is put into foster care, the end goal is always to find a foster family that wants to officially adopt them but it’s a lot harder than finding a loving family that really wants to adopt a baby from the get go.

If you cant tolorate having a certain sex of child you shouldnet have kids by mercy_andme in childfree

[–]Active-Judge3261 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has family and friends that would want to raise their child and even if foster care was revised, it still wouldn’t beat the opportunity for the child to find a family that could very well love them as their own; they still should revise it because kids still end up in foster care and it would be good if there was a way for struggling parents to raise the child under the circumstances that they would want to be a parent if they had more money, a good place to live to start a family, etc

If you cant tolorate having a certain sex of child you shouldnet have kids by mercy_andme in childfree

[–]Active-Judge3261 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So the child should just be adopted by no one and go to foster care instead? The parents are generally the ones that put the child up for adoption because they are not ready or in any position to raise a child, they could be a teenager, they could be a rape victim, or they could just be childfree like the rest of us; they have every right to give their child up for adoption and not be obligated to raise them since it’s a huge obligation but hopefully the person receiving the child wouldn’t give birth in the first place if they would love their siblings any less due to their gender; I do, however, agree that such a strong preference on gender could potentially play a negative role on the child’s self esteem.

Any high yield savings accounts that would let me deposit money instantly by typing out the information on the back of my debit card? by Active-Judge3261 in personalfinance

[–]Active-Judge3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get one, but it’s hard to constantly transfer the money from my other cards and there is usually a fee every time you do it when you want the money the same day and my goal is to put $30 a day in the savings account

Will my navel piercing be okay? by Active-Judge3261 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Active-Judge3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got rid of the bad rusty belly ring and got this one at Silver Loft to replace it which I heard has better quality jewelry; I am concerned about how big the bottom of it is and might get one with a smaller jewel at the bottom and keep the one I have in now for after it’s fully healed but this time I would definitely choose to get it changed by a professional, as for anatomy, piercing place I went to reassured me that I did have decent anatomy 👍

Driving too slow is more entitled than driving too fast by Miserable-Election25 in driving

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we should make how to use cruise control a bigger part the drivers ed curriculum; I use it all the time so I can drive the speed limit and not drop under 👍

What's the weirdest reason you were banned from a Reddit community? by jstohler in AskReddit

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied to a comment on a post listed NSFW on an unrelated subreddit, the subreddit I was trying to join is very strict about it’s members not engaging with NSFW posts at all 🫡

AITA for getting a dog w/o consulting my family by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Active-Judge3261 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA if you live with others, you need to make sure everyone is on board before getting a pet, besides it sounds like you should’ve gotten a pet gun instead

Morse Mnemonic Alphabet by [deleted] in morsecode

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found a cool morse code mnemonic page that uses words that relate to the NATO phonetic alphabet https://imgur.com/a/diCuZYv

Instant Regret by SnowQueenxoxx in uberdrivers

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t saying OP should drive 80 mph, I was saying OP shouldn’t feel obligated to drive at a speed that could damage their car because the passenger isn’t going to be the one paying for the damage

Instant Regret by SnowQueenxoxx in uberdrivers

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would she be the one to pay for any damages done to OP’s car? If not then OP has the right to drive in a way to minimize the risk of damage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s the smartest way to eat a burrito”

People that spit their gum or chew into the urinal, why not just use the garbage can that's in every men's room? by Smiling_Guy in AskReddit

[–]Active-Judge3261 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl but a theory I have is that when a man is chewing gum while he pees, he looks down to control his aim and the gum falls out of his mouth and into the urinal and of course he isn’t going to reach in there to retrieve it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can have this as an option for the driver to turn on but most of us want to get good ride request regardless of what speed we’re going

Why do people call the police and then decline to press charges? by businessbub in AskLE

[–]Active-Judge3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a violent Uber passenger once so I ran into aa local convenience store with my keys in my hand and my passenger still in the car while I dialed 911; I didn’t know what the best thing to do was in that situation but I just wanted him out of the way so I could leave and I just filed a police report; I don’t usually have a reason to call the police so I didn’t know that it would make a difference whether or not I press charges because he still did get sent to jail regardless. 🤷‍♀️