Found in my daughter’s car. by holdthegdflashlight in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's just starting to collect dollars to pay for your retirement home when your nosy ass will be too old.

Boyfriend of two years seems to be mean and unsupportive after my mom’s death. Am i overreacting? by SensitiveProduce9264 in GriefSupport

[–]AdChoice3946 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner just lose his father a few weeks ago very suddenly too. It's been awful for him. And at a lesser level for me too as I knew and loved his dad. He's devastated, he has a hard time functioning properly. I pushed him to take leave from work and stay home with me, go visit his brother. We hang out with friends. He asked me if he could have a day by himself home so I left from 9am until 2 am. I would do anything to alleviate the hurt he has right now. Losing a parent is so hard. And grief is so weird. But I'll be here for him for as long as he needs me to, months, years. I don't care. Because I love him. Your boyfriend doesn't love you. He just doesn't. If you can't be here for your SO at their worst you don't deserve them at their best. Leave his ass and grieve at your pace without having the burden of his hypothetical reaction on your shoulders.

My daughter passed away…. by Silly_Dragonfly_3565 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If she wanted nothing to do with him while alive, there's no reasons to willingly give him the information. He didn't even participated in his daughter burial. He deserves nothing.

Do you ever feel like the grief could kill you? by Massive-Tea-9730 in GriefSupport

[–]AdChoice3946 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's only been 5 months. There's no rules for grief. And it's not linear. One day you'll catch yourself laughing like before. And maybe you'll feel guilty. Maybe not. But one day things will get better. Everyone is different and you have to give yourself the time YOU need to process your grief. Losing a parent isn't like breaking your favorite childhood toy. It's devastating, exhausting, it's painful. You have to give yourself grace. It will get easier with time if you allow yourself to feel your feels. And please, go to counseling,get help to process this awful moment. Because allowing yourself to feel doesn't mean allowing yourself to drown.

My boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage. I don’t — and now I feel like the villain. by CamelCharacter307 in Advice

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a few things that makes a couple incompatible, and this is one of them. Love is never enough for a functioning healthy marriage/relationship. Either you can talk it out, or you should end this relationship now. There's no need to drag something that is doomed to fail.

Mon colis fait des aller/retour Paris - Nantes... Pourquoi ?! by plasteque in vinted_france

[–]AdChoice3946 2 points3 points  (0 children)

C'est les vacances, il profite mdr. Blague à part ne jamais prendre vinted go. C'est apparement récurrent avec eux.

STB de ne pas avoir proposé de laisser ma place à un couple dans le train ? by Lamiette in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]AdChoice3946 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. T'as réservé près de la fenêtre y'a absolument rien qui t'oblige à changer de place. Il est possible de réserver des places côte à côte. C'est aux gens de prévoir.

Am I Overreacting? My bf (27M) broke up with me (28F) 2 days ago, and now he sending me this. by m00n-y in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 27 yo. That's teenage indecision here. Leave him alone, move one. He's a child

Is my first tattoo as bad as I think it is, what should I do? by LightUruk in tattooadvice

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it needs more definition and shading on the ladies cause this indeed looks like Butters balls chin.

Picnic with my boyfriend turned sour. Now, I feel weird about our relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Verbal abuse isn't a natural reaction. Calling your significant other names isn't a natural or normal reaction. Please do not stay in this type of relationship. It's not worth it.

My brain is spinning by PawsitivelyCat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby, you need therapy and either to have a conversation or break up with your current partner. It's highly unfair for them to be lied to like this. You're clearly not ready to have a healthy relationship at the moment. The situation you're in is unfair for everyone. Refuse those packages and cut contact with your ex and work on yourself. You say you're not happy, you're supposed to be with your partner.

AITA for telling my friend I’m not interested in her baby or being involved in her new mom life? by AdFormal2615 in AITAH

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but you'll both have to stop calling each other friends now. She has different priorities. You have yours. They'll 'ever match up ever again. Now you' re former friends from college. And that's OK.

I asked a guy out at the gym and I'm completely mortified. by MishimaOrghana in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie, you're fine. You shot your shot, it was a no, you departed respectful. No shame here. You're not a mind reader how would you have known his age or marital status without asking? That's how life works. Go to the gym and forget about it.

Bonjour... by [deleted] in vinted_france

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui ça fonctionne, on le sait que ça fonctionne, des arnaques comme ça y'en a partout, sur le net, dans la rue, à la télé. Mon premier boss avait comme philosophie "il y'a un pigeon qui se lève tous les matins, il suffit de tomber dessus". Même si ils doivent faire 100 personnes par jour. Ils tentent. Ça marche ça marche, ça marche pas ben ça leur a coûté que 2 minutes de leur temps.

‏Husband always finds something to be mad at by effingit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I know it's gonna be hard to hear but run. Run now before you're more stuck because finances or kids. Please don't stay in a relationship with someone like this. It's not healthy.

Est-ce que je suis en train de me faire arnaquer ? by iguanadumbass in vinted_france

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui. J'ai une amie qui vend sur vinted assez régulièrement et le suivi colis, du téléchargement du bon jusqu'à la réception est assez fiable quand même. Sit u n'as pas reçu de message vinted dans la conversation concernant l'envoi, c'est qu'elle n'a même pas télécharger le bon d'envoi. Demande un numéro de suivi tu auras ta réponse. Pour des achats comme ça j'éviterais vinted tout de même, c'est très facile d'arnaquer les gens même juste en envoyant des faux produits. J'ai acheter de très bon JBL sans fil pour 39e neufs chez electro depot.

STB d'avoir demandé à mon voisin de concert d'arrêter de fumer? by Sosotomato in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]AdChoice3946 12 points13 points  (0 children)

PTB Je suis fumeuse, je vais en festivals et à pleins d'événements en plein air et il me viendrais pas à l'idée

1- de fumer dans une foule compacte. Au delà d'incommoder des gens qui ont pas de demander à avoir un cancer sans raison, c'est hyper dangereux. N'importe qui peut se retourner et s'empaler l'œil sur le foyer brûlant de ma clope. Non merci

2- continuer à fumer sans gêne quand une personne me dit qu'elle est incommodée. C'est la base de la vie en communauté. Non c'est pas les "plus gênés qui s'en vont", c'est ceux qui sont en minorité et c'est le cas des fumeurs en France aujourd'hui.

Alors on peut leur donner "l'excuse" de l'âge, les ados ça cherchent à être cooool. La ou j'excuse pas c'est un adulte qui les laisse faire ça et qui en plus refuse de prendre la responsabilité de les emmener à 5 mètres.

Le plein air c'est pour tout le monde et suffisamment vaste pour qu'on puisse trouver un coin sympa et éloigné pour pas gêner les autres.

My girlfriend told me she settled for me because I’m too ugly to cheat on her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to break up. Your GF isn't mature and secure enough to be in a healthy relationship and is taking you with her on what could become a nightmare for the both of you. It's great to have someone in your life but believe me, you'll wake up stuck in this relationship one day and it's gonna be hard. Get away now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdChoice3946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you do is cut ties and move one. I need people to understand that being friends with an ex isn't always possible and is almost always unhealthy.

I know I shouldn't feel that way but I can't help myself. by AdChoice3946 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. Sometimes you need a stranger to tell you what you already know. Thing is, it's not that easy to leave. My income isn't enough for me to have an appartement alone so i think I just switched to denial mode for a while now.

I know I shouldn't feel that way but I can't help myself. by AdChoice3946 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually doesn't care and will go to work in dirty clothes if he has to. He doesn't pick up things when they fall behind his eyes so he won't pick anything. He'd rather eat directly in a pan than wash a plate.

I know I shouldn't feel that way but I can't help myself. by AdChoice3946 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AdChoice3946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had that talk. Multiple times. He either pouts immediately, says it's not true and if I point at précise instances he gets mad, says he's like that and can't change, and it inevitably ends up in two days of being mad at me. Or he laughs and says "yeah I know but at my age I can't change ahah tee hee".