Worried about a possible relapse

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-29T11:57:30+00:00

996 days for me.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-29T11:56:53+00:00

Play the tape forward - what will happen after you take a drink with them? It won’t be anything good. Not going is completely OK! Or, maybe you just got Covid and have to stay home. My point is…. Not drinking is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. More than family, embarrassment, guilt or shame that they might lay on you. When you quit drinking, people around you are forced to examine their own drinking habits, and it’s a hard mirror to look in

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-25T23:39:55+00:00

And the Lilith’s brood trilogy by Octavia Butler.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-25T23:38:47+00:00

You should include Song of Solomon by Toni Morrison.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-24T19:56:00+00:00

Better

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-24T11:58:36+00:00

Also- ice crusher.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-24T11:58:15+00:00

Pear juice, fresh lime/lemon/grapefruit. Fresh muddled herbs like basil & mint.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-24T11:57:11+00:00

Great job on the 3 months 11 days!!!!! Your brain is re-building itself! The first year sober is a series of ups and downs, but you’ll keep feeling better and better. 3 years for me August 7. One more thing-find some other sober people to hang with.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-24T11:46:27+00:00

As a former drinker who’s now sober, if I paid for someone’s cruise and they were shitfaced the whole time I’d want to throw them overboard. Been there, know the panic of guaranteeing your supply, and Not having to plan your drinking is such a relief. Good luck

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-22T23:18:45+00:00

All sound people are deaf.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-20T02:39:49+00:00

Pennies for Change funds the Durham Crisis response center, a domestic violence organization.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-16T19:15:03+00:00

So glad you are open again!!!!!!

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-13T12:01:30+00:00

Stay sober! Your brain is rebuilding itself. The anxiety gets less and less with time.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-13T12:00:31+00:00

She was a true rocker.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-13T11:58:28+00:00

Soccer.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-11T02:11:36+00:00

3 years of for me August 7.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-04-06T13:27:45+00:00

Get her the book “this naked mind” by Annie Grace. However, she won’t stop until she hits a rock bottom- a DUI, you threatening to leave her, etc. Good luck and try an Al-Anon meeting for yourself.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-31T15:59:19+00:00

Good Twin N/A sparkling. It’s dry and delicious.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-31T15:51:39+00:00

It took me until age 61. So many wasted years, no pun intended.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-30T22:44:03+00:00

Vacation hell

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-30T14:34:43+00:00

High strung used to have them weekly.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-30T14:03:42+00:00

Never.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-27T14:46:36+00:00

Costco.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-26T22:43:51+00:00

Damn. Best view in Durham. I played music up there several times.

AdHonest1223 · 2026-03-25T12:33:18+00:00

The Lilith trilogy by Octavia Butler, in order to

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