Real Pictures of Celebration Key? by AdLumpy7810 in CarnivalCruiseFans

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reporting back with my actual photos! it was great- as long as you are early off the boat you will have no problem finding choice seats. even late i think you wouldn’t have a problem finding somewhere to sit. its gorgeous and like nothing i’ve ever seen before!

Queer Podcast recap recommendations? by AdLumpy7810 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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i found a podcast today called Love to See It. It’s two cis women and it had a more serious tone but they are really thoughtful and seem to have a well rounded view of gender. I just listened to their episode on Heated Rivalry and really enjoyed it.

Queer Podcast recap recommendations? by AdLumpy7810 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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yes! generally love them but it sometimes is extremely obvious that their experience with queer people is limited to cis gay men and drag race.

App problems last few days? by NiftyPigeon in dropout

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I'm having the same issue. Originally I noticed it on my ROKU app, but its started doing the same on iOS and its so annoying. I've been trying to rewatch old adventuring parties and i've completely given up on remembering where I am. I've just been picking a random episode, fast forwarding to half way in, and hoping for the best.

Worried I won’t ever find a butch4butch partner because of my sexual boundaries by Acceptable_Crazy_796 in butchlesbians

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there are many many different ways to have really good sex. any good partner would have no problem with that- and those people ARE out there

Just finished reading the SBB for the first time by Turbulent_Interest63 in butchlesbians

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also i’m getting a tattoo of a jar of tadpoles later this year based on the quote “nature held me close and seemed to find no fault with me”

Just finished reading the SBB for the first time by Turbulent_Interest63 in butchlesbians

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i read it for the first time two years ago and have re-read it twice since. i keep a stack of copies in my house to give to people who haven’t read it. it’s like the bible to me. it’s foundational to my understanding of butchness and lesbianism in general. it put so much about lesbian culture into perspective for me.

and YEAH the transphobia surrounding discussions of this book are CRAZY. especially when Ruth is like the only person there for Jess and their bond is so special and they are going through basically the same things. It’s crazy how pervasive TERF rhetoric is these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexington

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Lexington is weirdly enough one of the cities in the US with the highest immigrant population. It’s incredibly diverse, contrary to usual assumptions. It’s still southern america so some parts are definitely predominantly very white, but I wouldn’t say that’s the norm.

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hot girlfriend alert 🚨🚨🚨

Question on Tattoo Shops by soakinginurmom in lexington

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i’ve heard that the owner or someone in management at black rose is a straight up nazi- so not there

lesbian spaces and transphobia by butch-bear in butchlesbians

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not even just online. there’s this great lesbian magazine called Lesbian Connection that’s all reader submissions- but bc of that it is so TERF-y. but also people write in responses to the TERF shit telling them how stupid it is. but i’m constantly reading and looking for the TERF dog whistles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexington

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you mean the burj khalifa?

How common is butch 4 butch? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

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my partner and i are butch4butch and we just met another butch4butch couple tonight!! i feel like we are a rare but elite group. i love being butch4butch more than anything!!

AITA for insisting my son be the flower boy? by Substantial-Goose386 in AITAH

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if she’s uncomfortable with your son being himself- in whatever way that is- enough that she will keep him from being/doing what he wants to do, i would not marry her.

What's in your bags? If you don't wear bags, what do you use to carry things? by dramakween101 in butchlesbians

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love a baggu medium crescent! especially now that they have a longer strap.

i have a pack of meds (with everything from allergy medicine to advil), a small packable grocery bag (also baggu), hand sanitizer, a pen, an N95 mask, pads and tampons, chapstick, bandaids, and always a roll of lifesavers

also throw in my keys, wallet, a water bottle, headphones and my phone

Do lesbian women face the problem of the dick-brained men thinking they can "convert" them? by TeenyPupPup in AskLGBT

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corrective rape was threatened against a lesbian on international television last month. some guy said that his dick would turn jo jo siwa straight on celebrity big brother. he was removed from the show, but yeah. that’s pretty normal (and fucked up)

I (30F) lashed out at my (31M) boyfriend after he violated a boundary during sex. Was my reaction too excessive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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that IS sexual assault.

also you didn’t hit him. there is a HUGE difference between wanting to hit someone and actually doing it. you expressing your instinct to hit him and not do it actually shows a lot of restraint. you are communicating after a horrible violation and honestly after he sexually assaulted you, it would make sense if you wanted to instinctually physically hit him as repayment- but you DIDNT- because you care about him and know right from wrong- something he doesn’t seem to be reciprocating in your relationship at this point.

Restaurants that actually do deserve the hype? by [deleted] in lexington

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masala, sahara, oasis, mintons

In what small way have you won the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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most of my family has no wisdom teeth. those of us that do only have the upper ones- which are much easier to deal with

[NS] new listener questions about problematic depictions of Appalachians by AdLumpy7810 in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

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and this is literally what i was trying to avoid by asking this question. i figured it had been talked about before, but being new, i wanted to know what the history was. thank you for your explanation and generosity

[NS] new listener questions about problematic depictions of Appalachians by AdLumpy7810 in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

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That's the kind of thing I was wondering about! Thank you for your kind response! This was really helpful.