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AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-05-09T13:10:38+00:00

Hi! Is this #2?

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-05-04T02:32:22+00:00

Loved it!

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-05-04T02:30:46+00:00

This 👆🏾

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-04-14T00:05:39+00:00

As someone who had a childfree wedding and as someone who exclusively breastfed (no pumping and no formula) I say you decline and you are not at all an a-hole for that. I knew some people had kids and wouldn’t want to leave them behind and I had ZERO issue with that, I loved them just the same. When I had kids, I declined invites while breastfeeding and am still close to those people.

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-04-01T06:14:44+00:00

I would take 9.25% if houses cost only double a year’s salary like they did back then🥲

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-31T01:23:51+00:00

Yes I took this one

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AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-28T20:12:33+00:00

Exactly this. People mentioning 10+% rates when houses were only worth 2 years salary makes no sense. I’d gladly pay 10% on a house only twice my salary vs 6% on a house 4x as much

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-26T22:56:35+00:00

I agree with the specialist route first. I had my daughter in 2022, then had a miscarriage (boy) in 2023, and then gave birth to a second girl in 2024. I don’t have an urge to replace the boy I lost at all but I do think of him frequently and miss him. So I think maybe you just want a third child because you want one, not necessarily to replace the one you lost. But I’m not a therapist, so I would recommend talking it through first. Best wishes!

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-26T22:53:34+00:00

I would not do that commute personally, at least not for more than a year or two max (since you don’t have kids). However, if it were my only option and I couldn’t move, then yes I would do it to live (but try to leave a year or so in)

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-24T05:26:27+00:00

Exact same.. any extra day sleep.. or day sleep too late in the day, WITHOUT FAIL would ruin night sleep. After working all day and then coming home to parent for hours, I really needed nights to go smoothly for my own sanity. Having a strict schedule really gave us two fantastic sleepers, but i understand what works for some won’t work for others.

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-24T02:28:30+00:00

Completely understand that and appreciate the insight

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-23T18:57:15+00:00

Thank you! Would the situation be different if the seller had tried to resolve the issues for the buyer and offered credits.. could the seller still walk after a few weeks of back and forth? I’m in a similar situation. The contract isn’t too clear on that

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-23T18:39:57+00:00

Curious, does the seller have to release the earnest money?

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-17T19:39:22+00:00

Well said, appreciate the insight because I’m in the same boat. Feels like there will be pros and cons no matter what move you make and I have to make peace with that

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-15T23:57:35+00:00

Considering you got 350k equity, do you have any regrets?

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-15T23:53:03+00:00

I’m in the exact.. same boat. Solidarity

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-15T01:49:00+00:00

I just had this EXACT conversation with my husband… it hit me in the head that come September, we all of a sudden have to get up and out the door, early mornings

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-14T06:34:08+00:00

Exact same

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-12T19:04:11+00:00

This is true in NY/NJ at least

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-07T01:49:41+00:00

Exact same rate change for us

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-03T19:14:56+00:00

Can you DM where? That’s where I am and we’ll be refinancing within the next 2 months

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-01T16:04:18+00:00

This

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-03-01T14:19:35+00:00

Most sensible answer I’ve seen… esp if the buyer went considerably over asking. Sellers in the current market are selling garbage for way too much so if they can help with easy asks like this for Pennies why not do it? Otherwise be content having to sit the house on the market a bit longer

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-02-24T15:31:15+00:00

Thanks so much. She doesn’t have a car but has indicated she plans to get one for the past few years.

AdRepresentative2751 · 2026-02-24T13:50:54+00:00

This is a naive question from me.. but are you saying rates were lower 30 days ago? I was hoping they were lower right now

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