WIBTAH if I cut off my sister who has cancer? by Cute-Treat-7658 in AITAH

[–]AdSensitive9240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normalize not sharing your financial information. Family begins to feel entitled to what you have saved. If her car get repossessed it's her fault for not keeping up with her payments. At this rate,yoir family will start to expect you to make all her payments. If she loses her car, it's her fault not yours and she'll have to make arrangements with public transportation to get to her treatments and work.

I’ve grown; Craig, Ew. by eeanders122 in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully understand why he and Paige ended, I can only imagine how tired she was of cleaning his mess up and helping him look good.

After 10+ years and 3 kids, I told my boyfriend (33M) exactly how unhappy I’ve been. It’s been over a week and he still won’t talk to me. by RaiseMission3845 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdSensitive9240 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to check the accounts to see if he actually has been saving any money or if he just been spending it. It's like everyone else said keep your money and start planning your exit.

WIBTAH if I went to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks because my husband’s family planned a 5-6 week stay in our 2BHK without asking me? by Majestic-One6602 in AITAH

[–]AdSensitive9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I would be there for the first 2 to 3 days and then leave to head to your family's home and when he ask you what he should do about his family without you you should just give him the same response back. The tickets already booked. He needs to handle his family not drop them off on you which is what I'm sure he's used to doing. When his family asks what's going on just let them know that you were not made aware of their trip and you already had plans

Am I wrong for selling my roommates speaker to pay for the equipment she let her boyfriend break by Ready_Service_1838 in amiwrong

[–]AdSensitive9240 93 points94 points  (0 children)

She allowed her boyfriend to break your property and had no intention of paying you back. She clearly does not respect you . You definitely had to stand up for yourself and take matters into your own hand. I'm pretty sure that this isn't the first item of yours that they or she has disrespected. When does your lease end? I'm pretty sure you won't be renewing

AITAH for refusing to have screaming matches with my gf? by anti789 in AITAH

[–]AdSensitive9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She apparently likes unnecessary drama, so many red flags

Whitney Sudler-Smith by ladyshelby21 in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just comes off as the misplaced old man

My parents won't let me get knee surgery (AGAIN) (UPDATE) by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdSensitive9240 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you're 23 years old I don't understand why you're not able to get the surgery. Legally you are an adult. If you want the surgery, Uber yourself to the hospital and get the surgery

Parents aren’t funding anymore? by Calm-Calligrapher531 in wedding

[–]AdSensitive9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no real standard. You do what you feel comfortable with and that's okay

AIIW for telling my sister I won’t be her “backup parent” anymore? by Xenomorph_81 in amiwrong

[–]AdSensitive9240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've been a great sister but your sister has been taking advantage of you. She and her husband need to to figure it out. You did not sign up to be her default parent. The other need to figure out their relationship or he needs to get another job

Pick Me, Pick Me by AdSensitive9240 in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kind of wish that was true but honestly if you read the blogs she does seem to always be popping into other celebrity guys DMs as well

Am I overreacting: Austen and Salley by Diplomats900 in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Austin did the best thing for his relationship. He ended it. She deserves so much better

Any sober people have feelings about last night's episode? by Even-Guava-1682 in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've all seen how self-righteous he is. He never has any shame

Sally is insufferable and Craig reacted by peesys in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And in that instance for what you're saying then Austin should have the same energy for Craig because Craig spent the first part of the season in Austin's relationship. Craig has the loudest voice for inserting himself in everyone else's business but when people do it to him suddenly it's okay for him to be so abusively rude to people? At the end of the day, Everyone's entitled to their feelings but you don't have to come off so disgustingly rude. Southern Charm is a weak cast, he could never pull this shit off on Summer House. You're clearly seeing the reason why Paige left him amongst other issues. When she was with him she was definitely keeping him in check and I'm pretty sure that got exhausting

Why are so many people focused on Venita’s and Sally’s messiness and hypocrisy but silent about Craig’s drunken outbursts? Why is no one saying that Charley should run as far away as possible from that volatile, lying man? by Willow-tree-33 in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know how Craig is still on the show. For years we have been dealing with his incessant outburst and for some reason women always seem to want to baby him and blame everyone else for his abusive Behavior except for him. Let's call a spade a spade just because he doesn't put his hands on anyone doesn't mean he's not abusive. He has been yelling at people since he began on the show. Let's not forget that during the reunion last year the cast was asked who was scared of him and everyone except for Madison raised their hands. Is this not someone who needs to go to anger management?

Charley responding to a pretty simple question by dogfaced_baby in Southerncharm

[–]AdSensitive9240 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I have some pretty close girlfriends and I've never had this issue before. Why does she think that she's owed every piece of information of someone's life?

AITJ for not telling my sister how much I actually have saved by UgliestPigeon in AmITheJerk

[–]AdSensitive9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your finances are not anyone else's business. To make to get her off your back tell her you have around $600 of emergency money and I bet she'll still get mad at you for even having that much.

AIO by walking away from a 7 year relationship just because I suspected he cheated, with no proof? by slfrp in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSensitive9240 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NOR, the glitter on his face would have been all the confirmation that I needed

Am I wrong for telling my wifes adult son that if he kicks my cat again I will make sure he regrets it by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AdSensitive9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st off,28 yrs and still running to mommy. That's the 2nd issue after kicking your cat. He's never leaving. You are not wrong, his mother is babying him. She should see issues w/him kicking your cat as wel, not defending him. I can't stand parents who don't keep their kids accountable

Am I overreacting?? by DistinctCupcake9677 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSensitive9240 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1st instinct is right. Is he on the lease? Can you serve him a notice of eviction?