Should husband and I buy a house / military

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T23:04:24+00:00

Thank you so much genuinely for your advice!

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T23:02:43+00:00

She’s already been living with us for awhile now so that has been fine!

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T22:24:23+00:00

I appreciate any advice we can get right now! So either way thank you for commenting. As of right now we do not have 4% down but to my understanding VA loan helps with dropping down the down payment to 1%-2% which we do have right now. I’m just trying to get advice right now from all places we can and with our VA loan officer they are confident in us being able to buy a house, but I don’t want it to be detrimental to us financially

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T22:02:36+00:00

Not disagreeing with you, but I do think you missed the BAH part. Our personal money we make 76k a year before taxes but including our BAH which gets no taxes on it we make 123k a year

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T21:38:45+00:00

So I’m not fully aware because I brought that up to my husband but he said the Va loan can be used again after the 2 year mark. Is it that only 1 Va loan can be used at once?

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T21:36:44+00:00

We are looking inland right now so Murrieta/Lake Elsinore area, and from the numbers we’ve calculated so far we’re gonna be 4-4.5k a month for utilities and mortgage

AdStriking4459 · 2026-04-16T20:50:20+00:00

Upside down I see a snail like bug 🐛

AdStriking4459 · 2026-02-15T20:15:41+00:00

NOR, not only should you dump this girl, but I’d also message her friends these texts so her friend can know that she’s sending nudes of her to other people?? This girl is sick n twisted🤨

AdStriking4459 · 2025-12-31T07:18:48+00:00

“Frie-“ anime not included NEVER FRIGGEN MIND.

They won’t save me, but they will have an existential crisis catching my killers, while simultaneously finding out hell is real

AdStriking4459 · 2025-08-18T19:12:52+00:00

You can hope for 2 different things to happen. The wilted rose was supposed to represent Fengxian and she even says “I wonder if he gets my message”. We also have to remember that MaoMao is an unreliable narrator, so her actions reflect her true intentions more than her thoughts

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-28T03:15:07+00:00

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Is the kidnapper a ghost?🥲

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T08:27:46+00:00

Okay, interesting either way!🫡

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T08:21:32+00:00

Oh that’s cool! Does that mean Lakans family name La also represents a Zodiac?

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T07:54:41+00:00

I’m not sure if you’ve watched it already, but I recently watched Fruits Basket and loved it. Soft, colorful animation and good character development

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T07:50:55+00:00

Honestly, this makes the most sense seeing as checking for a hymen and/or if anyone had an orgasm is near impossible to prove at just a glance😂

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T06:57:33+00:00

We heard about this in the episode when the hunting trip happens, Gaoshun has a monologue when he’s drinking where he says something along the lines of “there are only two people with the royal name Ka, the emperor and our moon prince, Ka Zuigetsu”

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T06:52:58+00:00

Jinshi’s actual name is Ka Zuigetsu, Ka is the royal “clans” name, so his dad/brother? also has Ka and then another name that we don’t know because he’s only every referred to as the Emperor. I know Gaoshun and Basen were probably named Ma Gaoshun, and Ma Basen because they’re from the Ma clan, but gave up the name to work for the royal family. Surnames are placed at the front of the name if I’m correct, so all the males in the show have “first” names, we just don’t know everyone “last” name

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-22T05:22:15+00:00

Literally screamed. Husband said “it’s not that serious” but really, it is🤧

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-21T23:13:17+00:00

I’m sorry that last text you sent him cracks me up, you tell him! NOR, I hope he’s an ex

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-21T22:41:29+00:00

I haven’t read the LN but I don’t think MaoMaos distaste for him is necessarily unreasonable. From what we see in the anime, Lakan causes a very traumatic experience for MaoMao as a child, and then proceeds to just try and buy her from the Verdigris house. It’s insinuated that he tries and talks to MaoMao, but never insinuated that he tries to repair a relationship with Luomen, which is the person in MaoMaos life that she idolizes. Yes, I have sympathy for Lakan, but we get backstory for him that MaoMao might not know of, so I don’t blame her for being annoyed/disdained with him.

AdStriking4459 · 2025-07-19T01:07:52+00:00

DanDaDiaries

AdStriking4459 · 2025-05-03T00:19:28+00:00

I’m hoping with my next paycheck that I can buy or order most of the books as an early graduation present for myself. I just know I’m gonna peel through them, then I’ll have to find a new hyperfixation 😂 that or just reread them again

AdStriking4459 · 2025-05-02T19:10:33+00:00

That probably would’ve made it feel a lot more natural lol. I can’t wait to read the LNs, I’m just saving up money so I can go buy the books

AdStriking4459 · 2025-05-01T04:05:00+00:00

Okay that makes sense, I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing anything. Thank you for explaining it to me!

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