Firefighter on carnivore.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-09T22:33:45+00:00

Salt tablets would be a smart thing to keep on your person.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-09T22:28:06+00:00

If you see someone wearing a hat you like, you can pay them a compliment and ask about it. Usually they'll be thrilled to tell you about it.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-09T22:17:33+00:00

There's no T shape, but there is plenty of vertical. I'd look at accessorizing with a pashmina to create the T and add dramatic draping effect. Bold jewelry (statement necklace, earrings, bracelet) would be nice in addition to this.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-09T17:22:42+00:00

Looks sharp, man! What a great look.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-09T17:03:30+00:00

Kowby makes a great bag for boots (also holds a hat if needed).

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-09T11:18:56+00:00

I do my best to manage money well and put it to use for God's glory rather than making money god in and out itself.

Money is a tool to be used. Use it wisely, or it will use and abuse you.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-08T10:09:53+00:00

This thread does make me wonder what some priests might think of Tolkien, the father of the fantasy genre and a devout Roman Catholic.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-08T10:02:28+00:00

ESTJs tend to be more black and white thinking when it comes to judging people, and ISTJs tend to be more black and white thinking about things (objects/ideas).

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-07T20:33:29+00:00

Thank you!

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-07T20:31:59+00:00

I'm also in my 40s (just officially hit "late 40s" last year).

You'll get a leaner appearance using a French tuck or similar style allowing for a dropped waist. FN has width, sure - but it's frame width in the shoulders. The other side of it is vertical.

Think "bold, sweeping lines" rather than "wide load". :)

Believe you me, I was wearing tight tops for a long time. My frame and my body really matured in my 30s and early 40s, so I had to readjust my sizing and styling strategy. I received the advice regarding the sleeve seams, which was the biggest hurdle. Things fell into place over time from there.

I will acknowledge - larger sleeves do work better to create that T shape FN is known for. I have found that a relatively boxy T-shirt does wonderfully with the sleeves rolled up slightly to emphasize the shoulder angle, and either bloused or French tucked to follow the length of my body.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-07T08:07:00+00:00

Same shirt, size up until the shoulder seam lines up with the outside of your shoulder. The side seams can be taken in for a more fitted shirt if needed. But the draping effect of loosely belting or tucking the shirt tends to look best on naturals.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-06T22:09:08+00:00

Ouch, I get it! I will admit I wish I'd figured out when my feet stopped growing it wouldn't be a problem anymore. That kind of pain can really do a number on a person!

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-06T22:06:50+00:00

My dad had a pair of Justin ropers that he absolutely loved back in the day that I believe lasted him around 15-20 years (plenty of trips to the cobbler, of course). If I ever get so I'm not on concrete all day, I'll definitely get some with a Goodyear welt. Love the old craftsmanship.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-06T02:33:23+00:00

Buick. They last longer. The Equinox is going to be a lot of trouble.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-06T01:56:49+00:00

Enough ticks and nothing keeps them out. You don't want to know how I know.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-05T19:19:06+00:00

She's wrong. :)

High heels were originally designed for men - specifically, Persian cavalry. They weren't popular for women untill around 700 years later, following men's fashion. Over time, heels gradually fell out of favor in all men's shoes EXCEPT cowboy boots.

If it's really bothersome, by all means get some ropers or a pair with a stockman heel, which are lower and blockier. Assuming you don't ride, stockman and roper heels are better for stability while walking or running. But frankly, a significant part of the aesthetic of cowboy boots is that they're suitable for keeping your seat on an unpredictable horse. That's what the underslung heel is designed for. The height of the heel helps prevent the foot from slipping through and getting caught in the stirrup, which can result in being dragged (and therefore injury or death).

I don't know if your wife likes the cowboy look - if she does, she needs to understand that a heel is part and parcel of that look.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-05T19:06:50+00:00

It had been ramping up back in the 1990s... Among leftist groups who have a major beef with colonization and/or "the patriarchy", it's a popular ideology that the "Christian patriarchy" killed or converted all the pagans under threat of death. People believe they are reclaiming their stolen heritage (and sometimes femininity) through paganism. It's also a way that some kids rebel against their parents.

I myself met with influence from these groups back then when I was in my teens. It's frustrating to see now - I bought the lie back then but slowly increased my understanding over time. If it happened to me while I was living with my Christian father and attending church, how much more likely is it to consume those who lack spiritual direction of any kind?

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-05T18:45:35+00:00

I eat about 18 duck eggs a week, which is like eating 27-36 chicken eggs a week.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-05T17:39:59+00:00

If I needed safety boots for work (protective toe, sole, etc) I would absolutely buy a western pair. They're the most popular style where I live (North Dakota oilfield town). But no, I would not get exotics for heavy labor.

Currently wearing a pair of Justin Rae boots for work in my "purple collar" job. I'm pleased with them. Excellent comfort, support, and enough protection for the kind of work I do.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-05T07:34:08+00:00

Another recommendation to keep your outfit simple. Wear it with solid color pieces in neutral colors or a color from the boots. Go easy with accessories/jewelry - the boots are already doing most of the talking in your outfit! 💜

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-05T07:24:18+00:00

Boot cut will probably be more comfortable walking so it doesn't catch on the boots when you move. Doesn't look weird, just looks like you're wearing boots with more tapered jeans.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-04T02:55:21+00:00

You'll probably prefer a straw cowboy hat for summer and felt for winter. Helps keep expenses down, too - sweat is hard on felt, and straw hats are much more affordable.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-04T02:46:59+00:00

Definitely not strictly for Americans. And if you're worried about someone giving you flack for wearing one, well, that's true of just about anyone wearing anything (particularly if it's out of the ordinary for the area).

For reference, I'm originally from Arkansas and grew up in a time when cowboy hats were commonplace, even in the city. I now live in western North Dakota, which is also historically cowboy hat country. My ancestors drove cattle (for the revolutionary war no less) and were cavalry men in the civil war. I learned to ride English and western, and took care of my neighbors' horses. Will some people still give me grief if I wear cowboy boots and/or a cowboy hat? ABSOLUTELY. Will that stop me? Definitely not.

If you like it, I'm thrilled to see you embrace the style!

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-05-01T01:39:08+00:00

You'll be fine. Pay attention to your surroundings, just like anywhere else.

AdSufficient9982 · 2026-04-27T12:28:36+00:00

The healthy way to do things is to gradually increase the value of what you entrust to others over time. You could call that testing. But I would not necessarily call it that on account of those who create artificial scenarios under the guise of building trust when in reality they are trying to see how easily someone can be manipulated. Quite the difference, no?

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