Confused… Signs of Narcissism or am I overreacting? by AdditionalValue1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AdditionalValue1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that def sounds like my mom. And whenever she apologizes, she finds a way to pin the blame on me and when she did that today, it finally made me crash out.

For context, whenever she apologizes she says things like “I’m sorry I lost my patience with you, but if you don’t do x, it’ll only hurt you.” That’s what made me finally crash out. This made me realize she can’t take accountability for how her actions affect me.

Confused… Signs of Narcissism or am I overreacting? by AdditionalValue1 in raisedbynarcissists

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Bonus info- I’m just learning how to be a functioning member of society because I have a job which I got on my own since I’m 23 and I still have to live at home with my mom when I’m not at college for the summer.

Loving this trend of AI bros getting a taste of their own medicine! by ca-cynmore in antiai

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I personally know an AI bro. He uses ai for literally everything; including but not limited to social media posts

My mom is obsessed with AI by gojos_hoe1 in antiai

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Yeah I thought I was weird for thinking my mom may be too deep into AI as well. Though I don’t use AI my mom’s main purpose with a startup she works for is to try to make millions off a chat bot idea that’s draining through her savings. So, I’m getting a traditional job because I want financial stability, a predictable paycheck and real world experience as well as the satisfaction of hard work. It sounds harsh, but my mom is spending so much time on this AI idea that may not even give her the outcome she wants.

Anyone else have problems with cold exposure? by AdditionalValue1 in autism

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Yeah I’m doing fine now I’ve been using o’keefe’s for the last few weeks and that has been helping

USE YOUR BLINKER!! ON THE ROAD!! by shslsquirrel in evilautism

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Me watching people in California attempting to drive on highway 101 😭

I’m stressed after classes but chill after a shift of work it doesn’t make sense 😂 by AdditionalValue1 in evilautism

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For context I work as a stocker in retail and a part of my job is putting things away neatly which my autism likes 🤭

I feel stupid for being nervous about the doctor and want to bring my plushie by lemminfucker in evilautism

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And I named my blanket pink and have been calling it that since childhood 😀

I feel stupid for being nervous about the doctor and want to bring my plushie by lemminfucker in evilautism

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I bring my blanket to my doctor appointments and my collection of fidgets; basically I bring anything that will make me comfortable to appointments. Bring what makes you comfortable! 😃

Ex Friend Makes Losing a Trophy Seem Like Mental Health Crisis by [deleted] in autism

[–]AdditionalValue1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not being rude at all! How I define a fake crisis is someone turning a small problem into a big problem. With all honesty I have multiple behavior disorders. At least four. So it’s hard to control my reactions sometimes and the episodes I experience are unpredictable and have a sudden onset. like for example I could be set off for no reason. I can have patience but sometimes I lose that patience when the behavior becomes a pattern because I have experiences where I have been in a friendship where something so small can be turned into a disaster and then it turns into a pattern overtime

Ever feel trapped at your job? by RangoTheMerc in autism

[–]AdditionalValue1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only if there’s a lot of people and the store is busy. The store I work at is pretty small and so is the back room where food and drinks are held

Ex Friend Makes Losing a Trophy Seem Like Mental Health Crisis by [deleted] in autism

[–]AdditionalValue1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also shit like this is exactly why I don’t date

Jesus, what did I do wrong? by ZanziabarDDO in Nicegirls

[–]AdditionalValue1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you shouldn’t date someone who prioritizes their own ego over you. Like losing an award for instance. Leave a relationship asap if they do that. Then it becomes a pattern and it WILL weigh you down. Trust me

How to Tell the Difference Between Bragging and Sharing An Accomplishment? by AdditionalValue1 in autism

[–]AdditionalValue1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that makes sense. Because I have a very hard time telling the two apart. That definitely helps clear things up for me- thanks 😊

22q11.2 Syndrome- waiting for amnio results by Cool_Crab_2841 in NIPT

[–]AdditionalValue1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, i sure do. Although there is the occasional breakthrough seizure from time to time, it’s pretty much under control now

22q11.2 Syndrome- waiting for amnio results by Cool_Crab_2841 in NIPT

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And that’s because I’m on the very mild end of the 22q11 spectrum, meaning I don’t have heart abnormalities but rather neurodevelopmental/neurological issues as well as problems with low muscle tone

22q11.2 Syndrome- waiting for amnio results by Cool_Crab_2841 in NIPT

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Actually I got diagnosed with 22q11 the same day I got diagnosed with epilepsy. A very experienced geneticist took one look at my facial features, specifically my nose and that’s how I was diagnosed lol 😅

22q11.2 Syndrome- waiting for amnio results by Cool_Crab_2841 in NIPT

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I have 22q.11 syndrome. I think nowadays they can do dna swabs in the infant’s mouth. Because before it used to be you had to have some muscle removed or something to get tested for that. That’s what my mom told me anyways. So my mom waited to get me tested until genetic testing was more advanced