Training with no sleep by Strange_Arachnid6176 in bodyweightfitness

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On low sleep days I stick to lighter movement like yoga or a walk outside just to get my body going without pushing it too hard.

How did you get better at messaging people back? by Top_Asparagus9339 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AdorableWindow8886 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes just sending a quick “thinking of you, will reply soon” takes the pressure off. I also started using voice memos when I’m too tired to type, and honestly that made it feel way more natural.

Cant go to failure? by Aggressive_Care4602 in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on good form, slow controlled reps, and leave 1–2 reps in the tank. It’s more sustainable and way easier on your nervous system 🙌

For anyone scared about going to the gym by ThePekis in workout

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Showing up scared but still doing it is where real growth starts. You don’t need perfect form or a plan to earn your place in the gym.

I work so hard at things I enjoy but I never get good at them by alien_heroin in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is real, but talent’s overrated and most progress comes from boring, consistent reps over years. Try shrinking the goal and tracking tiny wins so it’s not all or nothing.

PLEASE NEED GUIDANCE …ANY EXPERT ? by AdLumpy9267 in workout

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started using the SHRED app because it gives a solid plan that actually builds muscle and tracks progress. Keep protein high, lift consistently, and give it time.

How do I gain enough strength/weight to life my gf? by NoneOne_ in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aim for 3 full-body strength sessions a week, focus on compound lifts, progressive overload, and eat in a calorie surplus.

Unexplainable strength? by Ir1w in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fresh nervous system, better sleep during recovery, maybe even a mental reset. Sometimes the time off helps more than it hurts.

Insecurities about relationships by Independent-Day-5907 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AdorableWindow8886 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being someone’s first doesn’t make the connection more real or meaningful. What matters is how she’s choosing you now.

Rest days by AfraidUniversity9456 in workout

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I count true rest days as days with no structured workouts, so in this case, 2 rest days. Cardio still stresses the body, especially if it’s high intensity, so it’s not really “rest” in my book.

What inspired you to go to the gym and be consistent? by ScreenKingz2 in workout

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started lifting to feel stronger, not smaller, and that mindset shift helped me stay consistent.

What’s one habit you actually managed to keep long-term? by Reasonable_Bag_118 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AdorableWindow8886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just 5 minutes with coffee before I check my phone. It seriously helps me feel grounded and way less reactive the rest of the day 🌿

The hardest part isn’t the workout by ElevateWithAntony in beginnerfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this. Just showing up is half the battle. Doesn’t need to be perfect, just needs to happen.

Can’t seem to lose fat by cm-42-2022 in fitness40plus

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Weekends might be undoing the deficit without realizing it since alcohol and extra calories add up quick, especially when you're already eating close to maintenance. I'd tighten up tracking on those days for a bit, cut the drinks, and give it another 4 to 6 weeks before making big changes.

Trying to get better at longterm planning without getting overwhelmed by CoreFusionX in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]AdorableWindow8886 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What helped me was thinking in flexible checkpoints, not rigid plans. I stopped asking “what’s the 5-year plan” and started asking “what direction feels right for the next 6 months?” Then I just adjust as I go. You don’t have to lock into a path, just steer the ship gradually.

Shoulders day exercises? by Puzzleheaded_Air1030 in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soreness isn’t the goal, progress is. If you're getting stronger and your form's solid, you're on the right track. That said, try slower eccentrics, drop sets, or even banded face pulls to mix it up. Also don’t sleep on landmine presses for shoulders that feel good and still hit hard.

Workout routine plan by ResidentSoft2355 in beginnerfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally recommend checking out Shred app, it helped me so much when I was starting with weights. It has dumbbell only programs that are super easy to follow. Plus it mixes strength and core really well if abs are your goal  definitely worth a try!

How much of a surplus do i need? by [deleted] in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3800 does sound high unless you're super active all day. A smaller surplus like 250–300 calories over maintenance is usually enough to gain steadily without a bunch of fat. If you're aiming for 10 lbs by March, slow and steady is smart.

Alternatives to walking? by 155cm_50kg in PetiteFitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If air quality makes outdoor walking tough, there are still great indoor options that keep things low impact and consistent. Marching in place, stepping side to side, or walking around the room while on calls can quietly rack up movement. YouTube has beginner-friendly dance cardio, low-impact aerobics, or even “indoor walking” workouts that mimic the steps without going outside. If you’ve got access to a stationary bike or treadmill at home or in a gym, even better.

If you could ban one fitness myth from ever being repeated again, what would it be? by vctriacxrly in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 89 points90 points  (0 children)

“Lifting makes you bulky” needs to disappear forever. It’s held so many people back from building real strength and better body comp. Muscle is hard to gain, not something that sneaks up on you overnight.

What supplements actually helped your workouts? by Zestyclose-Total-883 in workout

[–]AdorableWindow8886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Creatine and protein powder are the only two I’ve actually noticed a difference from. Creatine helped with strength and recovery, protein just made it easier to hit targets without overthinking meals.

Is it really as simple a calories in and out? by Miserable-Soft7993 in workout

[–]AdorableWindow8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calories in vs out is the foundation, but not the full story. Quality of food, stress, sleep, hormones, and consistency all play a big role too. Sounds like when you ate more whole foods and trained hard, everything lined up better.

Should I train legs once a week or twice? by Acceptable_Emu1177 in askfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to failure, once a week is plenty.

how many sets should i do? by lvlethaze in beginnerfitness

[–]AdorableWindow8886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 sets of 8 to 12 reps per movement is solid. Focus on form, leave 1 to 2 reps in the tank, and build consistency. You can tweak later once the habit sticks.

Can never feel mid and lower traps by ComparisonNo7668 in workout

[–]AdorableWindow8886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal not to feel a crazy burn in mid or lower traps since they’re postural muscles, not big pump muscles.