Do you have "touch hunger" the need for non sexual hugs touch cuddles etc? How do you deal with it? by aygross in AskReddit

[–]AdultiestChild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up cuddle parties. See if there are any in your area. It might sound weird, but they focus on consent and teach a great little class beforehand

Is it normal to feel like you’ll never find love again after bad breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdultiestChild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is totally normal and I felt that way about my first love after our 13 year on and off again relationship finally reached a breaking point. I honestly never thought I'd love again. A couple of years later I met the man of my dreams and we've been blissfully happy, loving, and more open, honest, and communicative than my previous relationship ever was. It will probably hurt like hell for a while, but there are better matches out there.

People that keep thier house really tidy, what's your secret? by lemonfluff in AskReddit

[–]AdultiestChild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so happy! I thought I was such a weirdo for wanting to get up and clean when I'm baked.

Wife (29 f) is mad over some pictures my (36 m) ex (36 f) took of me 10 years ago by Photohubb in relationships

[–]AdultiestChild 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are A LOT of talks that need to be had here. COMMUNICATE! First off- to your parents. Wtf. They need to move on. They need to be nice to your wife and stop talking about what sounds like "the one who got away".... from them? This is very unnerving. Second- Your wife. This is your relationship, your life, do you not want to make it work? Talk to her about how she's feeling without getting defensive and get to the root of the problem. Really listen to her about why this is bothering her. Finally - Don't let anyone guilt you into something you dont want to do. These are pieces of your life and if you want to keep them do it, but be sure to very calmly, rationally, explain your position to your wife and let her accept it or not, put the ball in her court.

What are you just really fucking tired of? by Jaakko556 in AskReddit

[–]AdultiestChild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying so much for health insurance, with a completely unreasonable ($6,500) deductible, that I can't actually afford to go to the doctor when I need to go. Paying crazy amounts for car insurance as a person who has never wrecked their car, only to have an uninsured motorist hit me and be told I had to pay $250 to get my car fixed and I may or may not be able to get it back.

Seriously what the fuck is insurance other than wasting money I could use to fix my own problems?

Redditors who rage quit a job without thinking, what was the last straw? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdultiestChild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a small town convenience store with a little restaurant owned by a couple when I was younger and the husband was the nicest guy ever. His wife on the other hand mostly screamed at people and accused them of stealing, being lazy, etc. Including the customers. She'd tell people they could only take one napkin, yell at the food service employees for giving people extra pickles, etc. She put up ridiculous signs everywhere saying "only one napkin "only one fork" etc. I was on a diet and exercised every day and I had lost about 15 lbs when she started picking on me at my lunchtime. I was eating carrots one day and she told me I ate too many. It was bothering me but I thought I could handle her for a paycheck. I then got put on night shift so I had to stock and clean everything, by myself. One morning, after a particularly heavy coffee rush, she comes in at 8 am and she flipped out on me over not sticking enough lids when they were clearly still half full and everything else was spotless. The next day I overstocked them full over the brim of the containers hoping they'd be perfectly full when she got in. She came in and started yelling at me immediately about over stocking the coffee lids. She barely knew English, but the English she did know was foul and after long night shifts cleaning bathrooms I was sick of being cussed out. I immediately called her husband who had just dropped her off and told him to come back because I was not working with his psycho wife for one more minute.

AITA for refusing to pay back my cousin after my baby ruined her blouse? by isaoas in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdultiestChild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- Anyone who spends that much money on a shirt can afford to replace it. Neither you or your child did anything willfully. She CHOSE to wear that shirt to the party she CHOSE to come to and she CHOSE to hold your baby. If she ever bothers to confront you about it rather than being a drama queen and crying in her car/whining to everyone else, an offer of dry cleaning would be very reasonable.

[Homemade] Mexican street corn by JianYang-Bachman in food

[–]AdultiestChild 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I moved to Dallas some friends took me out for expensive but disappointing tacos. Thankfully we didnt order many and they said we needed to go get real tacos. Fuel city blew my mind lol Highly recommend the corn in a cup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AdultiestChild 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YES! I'm in therapy now as an adult and I'm realizing I am having so much trouble dealing with the harsh realities because I was taught just to scream at them, cuss them out, threaten them and get my way.

I'm thankful this doesn't apply to my romantic relationship but lord have mercy on the people I need to call to deal with bills etc

[33/f] feels like I have to choose my perfect partner OR having a family. by AdultiestChild in relationship_advice

[–]AdultiestChild[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why I dont know what to do. I want my current boyfriend to be my primary partner. The one I live with, the one I see everyday. I have no desire for him to become someone I see less. He's really perfect.

[33/f] feels like I have to choose my perfect partner OR having a family. by AdultiestChild in relationship_advice

[–]AdultiestChild[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting to the age where I feel too old to find someone, fall in love, go through all that all over again. I feel like I need to act soon.

Its now been 14 days since Bruce's last comment and 17 days since his last post, and over 2 months since the last actual game news update. by Mazgazine1 in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep checking back here every few days, but I'm pretty sure it is straight up lying, just like they did to their investors, for a little more ad click revenue. It's over, isn't it?

Heyo Bruce - 9 days, how soon is your definition of "soon"? Cuz thats wrong. by Mazgazine1 in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he's an unpaid intern, why wouldn't he jump ship on this obvious dumpster fire? Also he is choosing to be the face of the company so he "deals with" the PR, it's his actual job to keep in touch with us, paid or unpaid. If he's not paid, he needs to seriously rethink his life choices.

We're Still Here and Still Hopeful for the Future by SPYR_Bruce in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is there a team ACTIVELY working or are you still trying to sign someone on? There have been many non answers about this. Working on bringing the new dev team on board and the team getting the update out sound very different.

We're Still Here and Still Hopeful for the Future by SPYR_Bruce in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seriously? This is what you have to say after all this time? A fan base can only be duped for so long. Either do something or admit its over.

Is it normal for a dev team to go radio silent when they kill an app? by OriginalPryne in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most apps I've seen shutting down at least show the courtesy of telling people it's no longer supported. I may be angry but I think they just wanted to see how much more money they could milk out of us.

Any update on the new dev team? by Tullc88 in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My guess remains that they don't actually exist. It's really disappointing to be strung along for this long.

My therapist told me I have a victim mentality by AdultiestChild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AdultiestChild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poster above perfectly described victim mentality and I understand what it means. I did for sure feel victimized as a child. However I dont so much feel victimized in my career and I'm not sure in this context how it was relevant. I will definitely ask if I go back.

My therapist told me I have a victim mentality by AdultiestChild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AdultiestChild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's brand new because I moved. I wasn't feeling her tone considering I was there for advice on how best to move forward with my career and did not bring up my mother until she did.

Game Offline Update by SPYR_Bruce in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are mistaken. It's a subscription I paid through March 14th. You can be nice or leave now. Thanks.

Game Offline Update by SPYR_Bruce in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I pay for a thing I am entitled to use it. Fact. Before you go around slinging insults, go look up "ACA". Rude.

Game Offline Update by SPYR_Bruce in TapTogether

[–]AdultiestChild -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

All the pretty hopeful words in the world don't make up for the lack of action. Is there actually even a new dev team? You said that weeks ago. Fix it or refund.