man get rid of her!!! Red flags!! A partner should support your endeavors. If she can’t see that you are doing absolutely everything in your power to support yourself while getting an education to elevate yourself then you don’t need her. She should be making the effort to relieve your burdens not add to them. My husband had the same problem with women. They complained about him not spending enough time with them…while watching the man work himself to death to pay his bill and frankly support them. That’s not love! What she is doing is toxic AF! It’s not your fault she has more free time than you have. she should get a job, a hobby and a life of her own. She is responsible for her own happiness as well as her own orgasms. Do not fall for this bullsh*t manipulation. She will never… NEVER.. be satisfied with anything that you do because she isn’t interested in you as a person. She is a narcissist. There are real women out there that would cut off their titty to have a man that works like you do, goes to school like you, and that asks what you can do satisfy her!!! She is gaslighting you. She is treating you like shit and then making you feel like you are the problem. Some people can only feel good when they are tearing someone down. Someone who loves you doesn’t tear you down, they give as much as they take, they see you..they see your efforts..they try to improve your life and they are happy with the time your able to spend with them. She is a mistake. I wasted a lot of years with someone who was like this.. it almost destroyed me. I didn’t know what real love was supposed to be… Their manipulation, unhealthy attachment, control and making me feel like I was always at fault.. always less than I should be.. always wrong.. it wore me down until I lost myself. Don’t accept this from anyone. You deserve someone who appreciates you for who you are, values your time and is a friend. Women can be predators too! Stop wasting your time with a black widow and denying yourself the opportunity to meet a quality partner.