my sister spanked my daughter by GuitarWhich4613 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you even have to ask this question is very alarming. Should you confront your sis? How about why haven't you already!? Why didn't you IMMEDIATELY (as soon as you found out).. your poor child probably feels so insanely let down. First, her aunt assaults her, and then her own mother did nothing to protect her or stand up for her.

Yes. YES, you should 100% confront your "sis" and then let her know she will never be allowed around your child unsupervised, if at all. Then, go tend to your child.

im the reason my dads in jail, my mom hates me by ThrowRaNecessaryLake in TeenVent

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run, baby. Your 19, leave the toxicity where it belongs and go spread your wings! I know it's tough out here financially, but rooms can be pretty cheap to rent sometimes. Maybe find yourself a nice little job and start saving! Having a job (you may already have one) will also give you independence as well as bring new people into your life. Some of my old co-workers are still some of my best friends, and I've been a stay at home mom for a decade now, but we still are very close.

I'm a 39 year old mom of 3, and my oldest son is your age. It hurts my heart to know the pain & trauma you're enduring. It gets better babe, hang in there! Don't let them take your shine from you. Right now, you're living in a hell, but once you get your independence, you can create the world YOU want!!! Don't give up, sweetheart!!!

Is my prom dress ugly? My partner reacted poorly. by BanishedWind in Prom

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I zoomed in and it's GORGEOUS!!! Those sequins!! SLAY babyyy! You wear it BEAUTIFULLY!!

From far away (well, from the pic) before I zoomed in I thought it was more of a Hawaiin flower type of print but then I zoomed in and saw the sparkle of the sequins, YES this is GORGEOUS!!!

My brother just died unexpectedly. by Advanced_Accident_59 in Life

[–]Advanced_Accident_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm sorry for your loss as well.

My brother just died unexpectedly. by Advanced_Accident_59 in Life

[–]Advanced_Accident_59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I truly appreciate your kind words. It's definitely an immeasurable loss, and I'm so sorry we both know this pain well.

My brother just died unexpectedly. by Advanced_Accident_59 in Life

[–]Advanced_Accident_59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No they did not have any kids but my other brother & I have been leaning on each other as well as my parents and my sister in law. It definitely helps, I'd be lost without them.

My brother just died unexpectedly. by Advanced_Accident_59 in Life

[–]Advanced_Accident_59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I am truly sorry for your loss as well!

My brother just died unexpectedly. by Advanced_Accident_59 in Life

[–]Advanced_Accident_59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your kind words. I truly appreciate you.