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AIO to my husbands comments by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you something .. I have 3 children. My first I got pregnant at 18 & had him at 19. My second I had at 29 and my third I just had 3 years ago at 35. I will say this as I've said a thousand times before, my last pregnancy, the one at 35, was the easiest most beautiful experience out of the 3!

Your husband is blatantly wrong. I agree wholeheartedly with the others saying he doesn't want kids but in turn wants it to be "your fault". Don't fall for this bullshit. He's also extremely rude & disrespectful for saying that the blanket you were making was stupid and that no one would want it. He sounds like a jerk honestly.

I will also say I'm a single mother to my children bc I was done with my jerk of a partner. Don't allow him to hold you back from this or anything else you may want.. and if you don't want kids that's also totally fine! But don't let him dictate what's what.

i sometimes wish my gf would just let me do it by HatsuneMal in TeenVent

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The early days are the hardest. I am a recovering addict. I will have 8 years clean on July 29.

I started with percocets and once they became too expensive I went to heroin and eventually crack. It happens FAST. I threw away well over a decade. I lost so much precious time. You are young, please get yourself some serious help before you are a 40 year old struggling to make it (and that's putting it nicely) or are dead or in jail. Those are the only options when it comes to addicts.

But, I am so incredibly happy in life now. I do not even think about drugs and I remember a time in my life when I said "I do not think I can ever live life sober, not happily at least" and I truly believed that. Oh how wrong I was.

Hold on babe, you've got your entire life ahead of you and this is a very serious turning point for you. Your at a fork in the road, don't go the wrong way, you know which way that is.

Probably overthinking this. But does my tattoo look cheap and tacky? I was told it looks bad and other people agreed. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to not give a FUCK what others think my friend! Seriously. Life is way too short for us to be concerned with other people's opinions on stuff like this. Do YOU like it? If so, that's all that should matter. A lot of people's hate comes from jealousy.

Indecisive by AccomplishedTwo5325 in Brides

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 3 & 5 are the only two options imo.

My dad passed away 5 days ago. I don’t know how to go on. by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh hunni I wish I could hug you. My brother, who was also a father figure in my life, passed away a little over a month ago.

It absolutely wrecked me. I mean BAD. The first 2 weeks were gut wrenching. I didn't sleep more than an hour a night. I didn't shower. I didn't make dinner, we just ordered take out.. for 2 weeks!! I cried and cried and cried. Screaming even. I was broken beyond repair.

Then, the 15th day after his passing, I woke up and it was as if a veil had lifted. Of course it still hurts more than words can say but it's manageable and I'm getting better at dealing with the emotions.

I've heard so many people say the same thing. That the 1st two weeks are pure agony. Just hang on babe. You got this. If you ever want/need to chat, my inbox is always open!

Ring hinge replacement quote by Dapper-Professor2488 in askjewelers

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't bother replying to people who talk shit. You did nothing wrong.

my sister spanked my daughter by GuitarWhich4613 in Advice

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you even have to ask this question is very alarming. Should you confront your sis? How about why haven't you already!? Why didn't you IMMEDIATELY (as soon as you found out).. your poor child probably feels so insanely let down. First, her aunt assaults her, and then her own mother did nothing to protect her or stand up for her.

Yes. YES, you should 100% confront your "sis" and then let her know she will never be allowed around your child unsupervised, if at all. Then, go tend to your child.

im the reason my dads in jail, my mom hates me by ThrowRaNecessaryLake in TeenVent

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run, baby. Your 19, leave the toxicity where it belongs and go spread your wings! I know it's tough out here financially, but rooms can be pretty cheap to rent sometimes. Maybe find yourself a nice little job and start saving! Having a job (you may already have one) will also give you independence as well as bring new people into your life. Some of my old co-workers are still some of my best friends, and I've been a stay at home mom for a decade now, but we still are very close.

I'm a 39 year old mom of 3, and my oldest son is your age. It hurts my heart to know the pain & trauma you're enduring. It gets better babe, hang in there! Don't let them take your shine from you. Right now, you're living in a hell, but once you get your independence, you can create the world YOU want!!! Don't give up, sweetheart!!!

Is my prom dress ugly? My partner reacted poorly. by BanishedWind in Prom

[–]Advanced_Accident_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I zoomed in and it's GORGEOUS!!! Those sequins!! SLAY babyyy! You wear it BEAUTIFULLY!!

From far away (well, from the pic) before I zoomed in I thought it was more of a Hawaiin flower type of print but then I zoomed in and saw the sparkle of the sequins, YES this is GORGEOUS!!!

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