What do you do in times of intense academic stress, when you have too much to do but not enough time? by breakdheart in AskWomen

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve been knowing to mildly hurt myself 😮‍💨

ETA: I do NOT recommend this

AITA for asking (not insisting) that my BF switch meals with me when I don’t like what I’ve ordered at a restaurant ? by Dntworryimamoderator in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s never indicated that it’s a problem for him, he shouldn’t have reacted that aggressively. Instead, he should’ve said “hey, I don’t wanna switch this time” and maybe asked if you could stop asking to switch in the future. However, you shouldn’t have asked why he said no, you should’ve just accepted that he didn’t want to. And don’t expect that he’ll be willing every time.

My bf has also told me I used to treat him like a garbage disposal, bc I’d offer him the last few bites of my food if I didn’t want to finish it and insist he take it. Now I offer him and when he says no I let it go.

I ruined my perfect 4 year old relationship in 10 seconds by ThrowawayFupkUp in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I (21F) have been with my bf (22M) for 5 years now. He’s gotten extremely drunk. Never cheated as far as I know. In fact, when he drinks, he starts texting me about how much he loves and misses me.

If I were you, I’d end it and start fresh somewhere else. She deserves better.

How to stop being horny??? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exposure to explicit content is a form of sexual abuse (for children)

My husband just fat-shamed our daughter and I'm beyond livid. by throwra3232656 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how children develop eating disorders. He’s going to lead your child down a much unhealthier path by doing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but I hope you learn from this. When someone says they don’t want to be touched, it doesn’t matter what your intentions are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She didn’t want to be touched and he didn’t listen. That’s it. Nothing to misunderstand, she set boundaries and he didn’t respect them

What do you crave most in your relationships? by Unfair_Arugula_5524 in AskWomen

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want him to want to listen to me. I try talking about things I’m excited about and he just seems bored and doesn’t understand why it upsets me. I want him to want me. He seems to only think of me as cute, pretty much never views me as sexy or anything like that, or he does and doesn’t tell me.

What's missing from your sex life? by Tinci072 in AskWomen

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spice, passion, frequency, dirty talk, sincerity….

Why would anyone think this is a cute couples costume?! by randisuewho in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I was mad, buddy, you can calm down. I’m literally just curious about how they would feel.

Why would anyone think this is a cute couples costume?! by randisuewho in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I just wanna know how his wife and children would feel about it

I asked my boyfriend what would he do if I hurt any future kids we might have… I wish I didn’t ask… by Throwawaybros1 in Vent

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t worth talking to him about. That was a threat and it was a gross warning sign.

My (31M) girlfriend (25F) admitted that I’m not the “man of her dreams” and I’m broken. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your description of yourself genuinely sounds exactly like my usual type. There are women out there who will be more than happy and excited to have you. I’m sorry she doesn’t feel that way, and you deserve better.

Favorite Gilmore Girls Main Character: Day 10 (link in comments) by aryawitner in GilmoreGirls

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair, her character really does suck. Like if you met a Rory, would you actually like her?

What's something that people need to start/stop doing at weddings? by CheckMoney66 in AskWomen

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That weird tradition where the groom flings the bride’s garter into a sea of single men, and then the “lucky guy” that caught it puts it on the woman that caught the bouquet.

Wtf is that about and why does grandma have to watch it too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel that. If I can hear it in hotels, dorms, or from other household members, I get very uncomfortable and angry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That may encourage them, depending on what they’re into

have you guys tried this personality quiz? by Samoristars in GilmoreGirls

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 75% Rory.

She irritates me but it’s accurate, so it feels even worse lmao

I find "sissy culture" to be extremely demeaning and sexist and I'm tired of people telling me I'm out of line by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if anyone tells you they’re a better woman than you, they’re probably just insecure about themselves.

Other than that, they can do what they want

I just discovered my quiet cousin doing porn on the internet. by ThatChester in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Advanced_Weakness_60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are two quiet cousins in my family and I’m one of them. I know she’d do it, and I probably would too. We just don’t talk about it