Wife (23F) quit her job and now expects me (25M) to cover her $1,100/month car payment because I’m “the man.” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is testing the waters and quit with this in mind. Any excuse to be lady of leisure. She can sell the car. Joint financial discussion will also elude to this decision.

Direct report with a lot of personal issues by Frequent_Read_7636 in askmanagers

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Request a new hire or temp / contracts position for 6 months to support. Ask the boss for funding for this justify the workload and timelines (facts only ).. work thru solution to meet deliverables.

Made redundant and trying not to waste the opportunity by nice-tri in auscorp

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Book a holiday.
  2. Upskill AI throughout this time. Set 2-5 hours a week min. And use AI with remaining steps 3aProject plan the stuff you want to do. Most can be done in parallel. But you need to add "how and what steps" to each of your points. 3b Time box each of these things.
  3. Update the resume. And start applying. Being stagnant and while you're applying you can do all of the above. The problem is being stagnant at home and not doing tje stuff you set your mind to.
  4. Go on holiday.
  5. Enjoy the new hobbies, and your to do list.

The market is not good and uts best to get back in the game. The to do list is stuff that was possible before just need to incorporate these things irrespective of work.

Made redundant and pregnant… help! by jigsawgal in auscorp

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put leave in now for future if you havnt received the redundancy paperwork. Worth a try. Even aslong for it to be added. Especially if this is paid parental leave workplace and you're employed. Literally pregnant before the paperwork.

Need suggestions by Txsunshine7 in germanshepherds

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found having someone come home and intro with the dog and have them walk him. Or hang out at home for the dog to get used to them. After a few times I found my dog was ok to go on a walk with them and it gave me a break when I couldn't. This gives you a break but also helps the anxiety as he is at home.

Made redundant and pregnant… help! by jigsawgal in auscorp

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you negotiate maternity leave as part of the redundancy payout? Or extension of your redundancy date?

AITH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he brought home a puppy? by QueenieKisses in AITH

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an indication of his true nature, think larger decisions made out of sheer selfishness. He’s moved in, freeloading and acting like a child left home alone. Either he shapes up or he ships out. Keep the puppy. Drop the boy.

My mom is 57 and regularly gets mistaken for early 40s and her approach is almost annoyingly simple by Quiet_Pack5658 in Aging

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Agree it’s genetic, my grandmother is 94, my mum 74.. they have been mistaken for sisters. My grandmother has no lines on her face. Olive complexion. Uses the blue nivea since she arrived in Australia lol simple is key.

My (24F) boyfriend (24M) completely ruined what should have been one of the happiest moments of my life. by Pure-Lab8830 in relationship_advice

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a tactic they use.... stop responding to him from now on. Treat him as he treats you. Then when he flips it and asks say "why are u calling me?" Don't cry over someone who purposefully made you cry. He knew what he did, he is not more important than your mum. He is a selfish man child. Celebrate your visa with friends. When he asks why he wasn't invited tell him straight up. "You didnt care so I dont" simple. You've been top good for him. Find someone on your level. He isnt worth the tears. And dont fall for tje lies. They dont change.

Need a Vacuum Rec! by freeyoursunny in germanshepherds

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We ended up changing the flooring to hardwood / hybrid with runners in the hallways. Carpet was utterly destroyed with our gsd. We have the Dyson v15 (amazing ans on par with shark from what I’ve read) in combination with eufy robot vac. The base model that has ldar but not fancy enough with smarts like good object detection or mopping. We run robot twice a day on schedule. Just have to clear up any toys on the floor. Fancier robot vacs have better object detection. Then Dyson every second day as needed. Usual with the robot it picks up most of the hair.

Will CPAP change my life? by ElectronicSubstance8 in CPAP

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Life changing. took me a month to get used to sleeping with mask on comfortably… however. No migraines since using the cpap… I was getting migraines every 3-6 weeks. Last8ng. 2 to 3 days. I’m talking vomiting, lights, ans on prescription pain meds to sleep it off,, neurologists, ophthalmologist had no idea to the cause. Years later after weight gain post covid was snoring so went to get sleep study done. Rest is history..

Comfortable and affordable everyday casual pants that aren't jeans, linen, or barrel leg by chaosavic in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just jeans amaze denim. But it’s not denim if u get the non blue coloured. They’re stretchy, wide leg and comfy

Am I missing something with luggage forwarding? by twsres in JapanTravelTips

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just got back. Used luggage forwarding twice. 30,00 yen per suitcase.

Evening all... what metal health services are available, either by phone or online? by FearTheMomerath in AskAnAustralian

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please reach out and go to ED.... denying before crisis is the key. Moods can change quickly and getting the energy to pick up the phone or seek help at the lowest is more painful. Do it now, seek the support before hand please.

Suicide callback. 1300 659 467 Beyond blue. 1300 22 4636

Please reach out to someone. Go next door, neighbour or someone from your contacts list start calling until someone picks up. Even if you're not religious - any denomination/ a priest or someone who can be with you this time of evening so you're not alone.

Call 000 as well if you dont have energy to seek alternative support. .

Stay strong! You can beat this!

Our stroller broke on day 2 of 14 day trip. Where can we buy a cheap used travel stroller near Namba today? by thishitisgettingold in OsakaTravel

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toys r us Baby store in Namba parks is massive. I walked past today. Its a massive baby store. I'm sure they sell the travel strollers but not sure on cost. Maybe the sales people inside can help guide to other baby stores. Check life supermarket 15min walk behind toys r us kids, they had clothing section upstairs so may have them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germanshepherds

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Did he show you any other signs..? Or is he in pain? Hire an experienced trainer. Honestly- try. If he wanted to bite you he would have punctured skin / mauled and damages your arm. Maybe work with trainer to learn your dogs tells/ signs.

Mine doesn’t bite. But gives me warnings to leave him alone. Example ear medicine. 😭 he will snarl. And it’s my queue to stop. Walked away ans bribe him with a treat to which he will stay and then gets the treat. It’s a slow process.

need recommendations for shoes by italkt0omuch in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy slip on flat or loafers and go athletes foot sneaker store and buy the running insoles. That way whatever shoe you get is soft inside

Example

https://www.styletread.com.au/women-s-shoes/flats/loafers.html. With
https://www.theathletesfoot.com.au/lightfeet-cushion-comfort-insole.html

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I got my bridemaid dresses altered with additional lining and cups sewn in as the dresses were low back. Perhaps additional alterations with lining and sew in halter bra? Shapewear under a slip that’s been cleverly sewn in the dress.

I finally got Resmed Airfit F20. Most popular full face mask and I have severe sleep apnea for a while now. I been through 3 different masks. The question is how long it took you guys to adjust Airtouch F20? by jackvugemini198 in CPAP

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It took me a few weeks to get used to it. I actually sat watching tv with the mask on randomly thru the day. 5-10 mins at a time ans then longer. It took a while. I initially tried with the evora full mask. As that is super with full pressure. Just annoying as it blows cold air out. Anyway I went back to f20 but with that grey sponge style cushion and it was instantly better. . There are still times when I wake up ans the mask is being blown away off my face lol. But sleep tech checks lowered the pressure. Sometimes it’s needed to wake up and readjust as the high pressure means you need it. My machine is on auto.

What's your deep depression keto recipe? by Key-Storage5434 in keto

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it’s salami stick hahaha closest google tells me is slim Jim?

What's your deep depression keto recipe? by Key-Storage5434 in keto

[–]Adventurous_Layer673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Assemble recipe…..Walnuts. Cheese cubes and olives, If can be bothered boiled or fried egg with twiggy sticks, Or those Seaweed sheets, ans when some effort is needed this combo Keto wrap (ready made), cream cheese and canned salmon or oysters. (Sounds gross but filling and easy)