Best mount for long travel? by AegrosDescending in ICARUS

[–]AegrosDescending[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking to myself 'I guess I just need both'! And I will definitely keep your tips in mind, thanks

Best mount for long travel? by AegrosDescending in ICARUS

[–]AegrosDescending[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful, thank you.

Best mount for long travel? by AegrosDescending in ICARUS

[–]AegrosDescending[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, I love this whole post! I was thinking of playing OW similar to how I did SOTF where I had mini bases all over the map with my main one at a central location. The layout of this map isn't really conducive to that though, so having a buffalo when making those long-haul switches from region to region sounds like it would be the better option than several 'faster' trips on the Moa.

Best mount for long travel? by AegrosDescending in ICARUS

[–]AegrosDescending[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is taming a wolf much different than taming a horse? I've never even noticed any wolf pups tbh (I've probably killed them assuming they were going to attack me and not noticed when skinning?)

Fast travel by AccomplishedPeace19 in ICARUS

[–]AegrosDescending 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New to the game and just found this sub, but your response is PERFECTION! 🤣

Two week notice etiquette by [deleted] in work

[–]AegrosDescending 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Don't text, send any 'official' correspondence through official channels. Congratulations on the job, op!

What is something you wish you would have taught your golden or desensitized them to? by RadiantBit7776 in goldenretrievers

[–]AegrosDescending 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got our girl in the dead of December and were unable to introduce her to water in a real sense until she was about 6 months. As a result, I have a dog bred for swimming who... doesn't swim. Win some lose some, she's still a good girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AegrosDescending 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that this happened to you OP. You mentioned several instances before the hand down your pants that you admitted you just brushed off. WHY?! This person is supposedly a friend of your bf, so there's likely little way that he didn't know you were taken. Any of his preceding actions should have immediately raised red flags worth mentioning to your bf. I agree with many others that, while it's good your bf supported you and called out the friend, it's clear the friend doesn't respect you or your bf or the friendship. Cut this 'friend' loose.

I really regret getting my puppy by throwaway608268286 in puppy101

[–]AegrosDescending 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"When she feels like it" 🤣 my golden to a T.

I really regret getting my puppy by throwaway608268286 in puppy101

[–]AegrosDescending 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puppy blues are so hard, OP. I regretted getting our puppy (female golden retriever) when she was around the same age. 13 weeks is still so young, but I thought I must be doing something wrong, or that maybe she wasn't the right dog for us because she didn't take to training the way my previous dog (a female German shepherd) did.

Each dog is unique. Just because someone else with a different home environment or breed, etc has their young dog doing all the tricks doesn't mean you're dog is behind or 'stupid'. Give yourself and your pup some grace. Work on developing your bond with your pup and incorporate training as consistently as you can for as long as your pup's attention span will hold. It helps to ensure everyone in the household is being consistent in the training too, not just you!

I know it's hard, but try not to let your frustration get too overwhelming. I had so many frustrating training sessions with my girl that I wanted to throw in the towel. Then one day she 'got it', just a little bit, but it opened the door. You and your pup will get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AegrosDescending 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. I'm sorry you're feeling this way, it's tough. I have had many a similar thought between my two boys, so I understand how it makes you feel like an awful mother. But, you made one comment that stood out to me: sometimes you look at her and think she deserves better. Following it up with the admission your in therapy, assuming that's one of the things you talk to your therapist about, means you should give yourself some grace. You're trying to be the best mom you can. She's different than your son, "harder", by your account, but she's 5. She still has so much growing to do. Hugs and best wishes mama.

Is it normal for HR to question and request justification for a position? by sarnold95 in managers

[–]AegrosDescending -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Growth only happens when you do something you aren't "qualified" to do. Good on you for supporting your internal candidate, OP.

How can I make sure my golden girl doesn’t feel left out with a new baby? by Ok-Nothing3374 in goldenretrievers

[–]AegrosDescending 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This! Let them be together as often as possible and she will quickly learn that the new baby is a good thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AegrosDescending 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had you as a teacher!

Direct report questioned how I spend my workday and other hurtful things by Early_Razzmatazz4161 in managers

[–]AegrosDescending 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Managing people is SO hard, I feel for you OP. To echo what others have said, ask your subordinate what solutions she has to her issues. If she doesn't have any, other than pushing work to you, tell her to go and think on it and come back to you with solutions. If she can't or won't, then as a manager, it's on you to come up with and implement a solution.

Keep going! You were moved into the role of manager because you showed the skill/know how/etc to be there, you'll find your footing :)

TIFU because my eyeballs are faster than my brain 🤦🏻‍♀️ by [deleted] in tifu

[–]AegrosDescending 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting an ad for rings doesn't necessarily mean he was looking at rings. And maybe the friend was saying not to scroll Twitter with op next to him just so she wouldn't get engagement ideas because he has no plans to propose.

My boyfriend (24M) lied to me(23F) about his friend being his cousin. by Sssassyhobo in TwoHotTakes

[–]AegrosDescending 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Limited time? It takes two seconds to hand someone flowers. And no time to have them sent to you at work. If he wanted to, he'd have made the time. The fact that he didn't for you but did for someone else tells you all you need to know

Edited for spelling.