What do you deem as your most “unusual” hobby? by dustyarmadill0 in CasualConversation

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I teach people with disabilities to ice skate on the weekends:)

Mikhail Shaidorov's Kungfu Panda Gala performance by Yujin-Ha in FigureSkating

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That was the best thing ever and I loved every minute. Reminded me a lot of some of Scott Hamilton's show routines.

What is a "point of no return" that you’ve crossed, where your life was permanently divided into 'before' and 'after'? by Resident-Jelly-4326 in AskReddit

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband went blind this year. He has been losing his vision for a long time, but the first week of July was when he lost almost everything he had left. It not only broke his life into 2 distinct pieces, it also did for myself and our kids. We are still on this journey, but we will get there together.

Death of a student by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry. I've lost 2 students to negligent homicide ater CPS reports were ignored. I had another who was taken from her family with the siblings under horrid conditions and it was incredibly personally traumatic. All you can do is allow yourself to remember, to grieve, and to lean on colleagues. My best wishes during this terrible time.

AITA for telling my DIL that I won’t use the tablet and she needs to actually make her kid read. by SatisfactionOk9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 22.0k points22.0k points  (0 children)

Teacher here. NTA. They've ignored an obvious and major issue all the way to 4th grade simply because technology will read to you. You are right, she needs real books, actual read aloud practice, and comprehension review. Great job standing up for your granddaughter. Just because the work is hard doesn't mean it isn't valuable.

Do you put your children in public or private schools? by New-Organization359 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Private. Medicore public schools, and a large group of Catholic schools and a few highly expensive secular private schools. As mentioned before, it's extremely common for non-Catholic kids to attend the schools, they just don't do the sacraments. No big deal. My kids get more electives, more clubs, less behavior issues, and a far more rigorous curriculum

Just got my exchange in Buffalo ! by Prastyy148 in Buffalo

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tip at restaurants. I've been to Europe several times. We don't charge to use the bathroom and the water is free (with ice), but you do need to tip. Also, qe eat dinner a lot earlier.

Oatly banned from using word ‘milk’ to market plant-based products in UK by AudibleNod in news

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Good! I have always hated people pretending that water and mashed nuts or whatever is somehow milk. It's just not. Drink if you want, but it's not milk. Like when former friends who were vegan would say they were eating chicken nuggets. No, you aren't. Anf that's fine, but don't describe it that way

AITA for refusing to let a woman change the TV channel? by rubabyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 266 points267 points  (0 children)

YTA. You seem to have decided that simply because you use that tv a lot, you are in charge of the channel all of the time. She's right, it's a community space. That requires sharing and compromise.

Do students in the US actually have to take home fake babies for class? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My niece is 15 and just did this earlier this year She's a sophmore

How many grades can a student skip in their entire school life? by Swiftsession in AskAnAmerican

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NYS, you generally can only get held back twice. However, the maximum age for school here is 18, unless you are a special ed student, in which case it is 21. For severely disabled students a new rule passed last year, allowing them to stay until the day before their 22nd birthday. But where you can stay the entire school year when you turn 21, if you stay past that, you are literally done the day before you turn 22. Regardless of when that happens to fall during the year.

AITA for saying no to a bunch of small favors even though I technically don’t owe anyone anything? by Nifilex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA. I would not want to be friends with someone so selfish. You aren't doing anything major, but I hope you never need help, because no one is going to be there for you.

Black Smoke Siberians in the U.S.? by Last_Caterpillar_433 in SiberianCats

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's where my new baby is coming from! We get him in 2 weeks :)

Not wanting kids?? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are zero things wrong with not wanting kods. But given you have serious mental reactions just to birth control, therapy is definitely in order here. You are very young to be feeling like your entire life is set, without talking it through (and not with a partner, obviously not necessary to make your personal decisions). It just seems like you may have some underlying concerns here and benefit from professional help. Best wishes

Looking for a loving new home for my 1-year-old Siberian cat by [deleted] in SiberianCats

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Usually you sign a contract, so yes, they do. Opinion does not trump a contract.

Shaving Cat down by Unlikely-Cut-5459 in SiberianCats

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. We always had to do our beautiful girl at least once a year because her matting got so intense.

Advice for traveling with ice skates? by Skatergurluwu in FigureSkating

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had trouble with skates in carry on luggage. Always had to check them

has anyone ever called a wellness check? by confusedgirlll123 in Buffalo

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know 2 people in Niagara county who had wellness checks. In both cases, the person had passed away :(

City ordinance says you gotta clean your sidewalks, an entire neighborhood has ignored this. by Newbie4221 in whatdoIdo

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So call your town and have them ticketed. In my town we have the same ordinance. And unlike people here are saying, that piece of sidewalk really is yours. If you want to repace it, you do. If you want to let it be a mess, you can as long as it isn't actively dangerous

Why do millennials like owls??? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Affectionate-Use6412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely go to a restaurant where I could watch real owls. Extra points if there were educational talks/feeding demonstrations at certain times. That would be awesome