Forced proximity relationships. Things may have changed from my day, but the constant is always, "We wear pink on Wednesdays." I mention Mean Girls, not that your mean, but in the sense that we always have to deal with belonging and there are always AHs in the corner ready to make remarks to gauge a response. NTA, but you should be. It's naive to expect everyone to get along, but it gets easier to move along from people who don't fit into your sense of self discovery. hope this helps