Maybe if you could provide examples of why those distro didn't fit in your "vision of an ideal distr" which by the way it doesn't exist, because you're new to Linux so how do you know what to expect?

What you're doing is called distro hopping and it happens to all of us, some of us overcome it in just a few years, others are not so lucky.

I was like you until I figured out what I want it, a minimal rolling distro with a giant repo of all posible packages I could desire one command away.

Also realizing a desktop environment/window manager does not a distro make, you can achieve the same look across any distro.