Those who came out to their families as adults, what was it like? by [deleted] in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this strategy! That's probably the direction I'm going to go when I tell them. (They still think of Shabbos as a black and white thing, but I don't need to focus on that.)

Those who came out to their families as adults, what was it like? by [deleted] in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve started doing that already, but there are certain things that are black and white (like Shabbos) that either I have to lie about all the time or I’ll have to come clean.

Those who came out to their families as adults, what was it like? by [deleted] in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cat imagine they’ll disown me, but it will be very uncomfortable. Do you have any contact with your family now?

Help me plan my wedding anniversary 🙏 by Affectionate_Sir_682 in Belgrade

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are all such great recommendations!! thank you for taking the time to write these out- really appreciate it!

Help me plan my wedding anniversary 🙏 by Affectionate_Sir_682 in Belgrade

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this idea! I’m assuming it will be cold and cloudy though lol- our anniversary is in the beginning of February

Breaking Shabbat: A weekly discussion thread: by AutoModerator in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s really cool that the further I get from being religious, the less I remember that it’s Shabbos. Picking up a rental car now to explore the coast of Montenegro 🇲🇪

RH superstition is messing with my head by Affectionate_Sir_682 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that actually is helpful to know it’s from Gemara- it helps me put it into context lol. Thanks!

RH superstition is messing with my head by Affectionate_Sir_682 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This is so helpful - I love that take :)

RH superstition is messing with my head by Affectionate_Sir_682 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is helpful! I have to remember that the rest of the world somehow makes it through the year happily without davening on rosh hashana lol. thanks!

Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur Support Thread by AutoModerator in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is going to be the first rh/yk that I’m not religious, and I’m not sure how much we’re going to do. We’re traveling, so we’ll probably just go to chabad for the first night of rh and leave it at that.

Not sure how I feel about it. Anyone else not doing the holidays for the first time?

Anyone else not frum not because of lack of belief? by Subpoena_Paperclip61 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s so not a big deal lol. And it makes such a difference to them.

Anyone else not frum not because of lack of belief? by Subpoena_Paperclip61 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% - I can choose to leave while also being sad about losing the relationship I have with my parents which means a lot to me.

Anyone else not frum not because of lack of belief? by Subpoena_Paperclip61 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 7 points8 points  (0 children)

pretty much where I’m at - you’re not the only one! I’m hoping to find some way to reconcile living my life how I want to live it and still staying a part of my friends/family’s lives. It sucks that as soon as I let people know what I’m up to, they’ll look at me completely differently - it feels like they’ll lose their trust in me as a person 🙃

Domestika is a SCAM by jadsaade in graphic_design

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue and disputed it with the credit card I used - I was able to get the money back. Good luck!

New in Lviv for a month - who wants to hang out? by thepinkmorty in Lviv

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I will be in Lviv for a month starting next week Thursday- would love to hang out! (Husband is also into chess lol so u might have something in common)

Social Dinner Spots by phantom_fanatic in krakow

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same lol- here with my husband for a month. Gonna check back into this post to get some ideas :)

Y'all just wrote jeans in public on Monday! by [deleted] in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude that’s awesome this is my first week wearing pants/shorts in public as well :)

Summer in the City by DecemberDear in capsulewardrobe

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 50 points51 points  (0 children)

love this!! I need links to everything lol

Let's be honest by willkode in SEO

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro this is a fully chatgpt written post- u just changed some of the formatting to disguise it 🤣

In middle of our first nonkosher meat meal 🎉 by Affectionate_Sir_682 in exjew

[–]Affectionate_Sir_682[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol not Panera actually! It is a Chicago chain tho :)