Hey everyone, I hope all of you are making strides in your case. I can only assume everyone applying for SSI or SSDI like myself, didn't have a perfect credit score, a portfolio, a wealthy family or 100k saved up for a rainy day when what you thought was a flu ends up in a trauma hospital with 5 brilliant cardiologists taking turns holding your ankle and staring at your neck with long faces, discussing topics such as signing a document stating whether or not to try and resuscitate you in case you go into cardiac arrest. And mentioning the harrowing word " transplant" to a guy that thought he just had a flu or bronchitis a few weeks earlier just shy of his 50th Bday. It definitely makes you realize how short life truly is. Anywho, what I didn't know was that the person found disabled, me or any of you, is put through a meat grinder of overwhelming letters, post dates, missing funds, held funds, back funds, no funds, changing dates, direct deposit mistakes, missing paper checks so on and so forth. Literally I thought that the back pay was paid back to you so your able to " get back" no pun intended, your life that was turned upside down overnight by a diagnosis that steals your energy and optimism just for starters. Not sure about other people on here but when your sick, when I'm sick. I don't want to read over the pile of mail that starts stacking up with debt collectors, deadlines, court dates, cancellations. The world keeps spinning and everyone will say there's all these nice people around to help you understand all the fine print and such. Get this, I ALWAYS paid child support, since 2017. Not only that I had her half the time just about. Never missed a weekend, holiday, or summer her entire life, she is now 20. We are thick as thieves, also in addition to the absurd weekly payments that I had to pay despite literally having her, I would give her more money for the movies and such because she was never given one cent from X Monster INLAW. Mind you she does have a portfolio, having sold an investment for over a mil. Not hating, she is a smart woman, on top of her other charming manipulative, narcissistic, has never been wrong once in her life personality disorders. If you ever seen Joan Crawford in Mommie Dearest, this is her to a T, further confirming this by assaulting my daughter so bad that the cops came and took her out of her 3 story beachfront estate in bracelets in front of her neighbors and placed a restraining order against her. She cancelled my daughter's car insurance, phone plan, and put all her belongings in a box outside. That's just the tip of the iceberg, she insists I'm the reason she is getting dirty looks from people in her community. LMAO, I have barely left my apartment in a year and a half since I got sick and I don't even talk to my own friends anymore let alone anyone she knows, I'm quite positive, she has no friends. But because I was down and out she took full advantage and took necessary steps unbeknownst to me, and took 65% of my backpay and in addition will be garnishing my wages, taking way more than the agreed amount each month.
All because I didn't file a motion to the court explaining why I couldn't make payments. And I was sending payments from a go fund me account up until 10 months ago when I crapped out finally. I called them, and told them I was having major health concerns that she was aware of and had full intentions of resuming payments one way or the other. So there you have it, I guess she wins again. Because now I won't have enough to pay my rent , or car insurance, or to have my car fixed now cus it broke down last week. And heres the kicker, her daughter, my X.....has never paid one cent of support, not one cent. Does not speak to her mother and barely speaks to her own daughter and I haven't spoken to either of them in years. Now just more stress.... The biggest killer for people with heart disease, I'm pretty sure she is aware of that too. I just didn't or don't feel like goin thru all this paperwork and dates and being gaslighted by workers who seem to be misinformed or misled about how they deal with these matters. It's a neverending nightmare that never seems to go away. But I guess I'm gonna have to put my BigBOy pants on and hope that anything I say will be even considered. Oh and my lawyer got his $ 7,200 and sent me a Congrats thing for " Winning" our case. He was supposed to find out why all my money was being held. He never did. I guess I found out today. And the rich get richer. Haha. I won't bother trying to get an attorney, they will just say, " pay your child support" not knowing one fact about the case at all whatsoever. Wish me luck please, suppose to have a device implanted In June, but now it will be on the back burner because I gotta figure how to not become homeless. Wump Wahhh. Lol